Is 23 too young to get married?

Question

Wow!What a huge response. Thank you to everyone who answered my question. I think I am mature enough- the lover between me and my partner is very strong and we respect one and other. Thank you everyone!

Answer 1

No. At 23, you are an adult, able to make your own decisions and, if you are mature, you can make a wise choice in marriage. This will also give you time to get used to married life and adjust all problems before the little ones come along.

Just make sure the man you are marrying is kind, considerate, and has a great sense of humor.

Answer 2

No, I don't think that 23 is to young to get married. If you are in a healthy relationship and the time is right, then at 23 age should not be a factor to base your decision. The best advice I can give is for you to wait a couple years to have childrenIt takes some time to get used to living with someone. A lot of time.

Answer 3

It depends on the people who are getting married and where they are in their life. For instance some people are still in college and are still growing up and changing. If you have to ask this question, then maybe you aren't ready yet. You will know when you are ready to make such a commitment. Don't rush into something that you aren't totally prepared for. If you two are truly meant to be together then that person will be there in a few years when you are ready to marry. Good luck.

Answer 4

Yes and no. I got married at 20 and then divorced at 23. Men are pretty much done maturing by the age of 20. Women continue to change and grow till we hit 30 so it's possible the relationship won't last because of that. I think it all depends on the 2 of you.

Answer 5

Hi,

No 23 is not too young to get married - someone I know got married at 18.

But if you asking this question then it may be that you wondering why you getting married and are having doubts about it - if that the case then maybe postpone it until you feel ready to go ahead with it.

Good luck!

Lx

Answer 6

I don't suppose it matters when someone gets married, but whats the rush???
If two people have such strong feelings for each other, there not going to go away in a hurry, so why get married straight away?
I know people feel the need to prove to themselves and everyone around them that they have a strong bond with each other, but as long as you yourself no how strong the relationship is, theres no need to jump straight in there.
Again as i say, theres nothing wrong with it, i think its just a bit...sudden if your going to spend the rest of your lives together.

Answer 7

For most people, yes it is definitely too young to get married.

There are always exceptions, but odds are stacked against you being able to choose your life partner successfully at this age.

Having said that, if you're feeling those butterflies of "love" in your stomach, chances are pretty slim that reason will prevail. Might as well enjoy it and stop worrying about what others think when you've already made up your mind. :) Good luck!

Answer 8

I got married at 23 and didn't think I was too young. Depends on each person of course and if you are mature enough.

Answer 9

Yes! I think people should wait until their late 20's to early 30's. 23 is so young and things change alot from 23 to 28. Trust me on this.
And if a couple is meant to be, why not wait. People tend to rush into marriage at a young age to try and "keep" the person that they are with. If people just waited, i think the divorce rate would be much lower!

Answer 10

Well i would say 24 or 25 is the perfect age but my mum who got married at 23 thinks its the ideal age.. last week my cousin got married and she's 20! so 23 is a pretty good age i guess!.........