But I have just found out that he has got back together with his ex girlfriend - who is the reason we split up! Should I tell her that we have been sleeping together? Or will this only serve to hurt me in the end? (this girl isn't nice by the way & anyway, I think she should know that he has been cheating on her!)
Has anyone ever done this? And what has been the outcome? If I am honest I just want to hurt him as much as he has hurt me. He doesn't know that I know they're back together & is just playing me.
2007-08-19 01:44:45 · 17 answers · asked by imridingahairytractor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, STOP sleeping with him! He's having his cake and eating it.
Secondly - you've split up, so therefore he can see who he likes.
As for those two, well...they'll get theirs in time, trust me. Don't bother telling her. Walk away and eventually you'll be able to sit back and laugh at them. Move on, my friend :-)
2007-08-19 01:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi , now that you have finally realised he is just using you , and you feel like a used jerk,,, you want your own back,,,, don't act on impulse, things can backfire,,, you will know your over this guy when , you don't care anymore, what he does. You may want to hurt him , but, you may also hurt the other woman who is also being played,, if you feel the need to tell her , do it to warn her not to get at him, arrange to meet her as you know a mutual friend and then explain to her how you have both been played,,,, she may come up with a better idea. The guy seems immature for a relationship with anyone and will be the one on his own moving from one relationship to another,,, the best way to get at him is to not attack him directly but to warn his other toy and stop his philandering, it does not matter if the girl is nice or not (has he told you this or do you "really" know her??)you are both victims of this guy.good luck.xx
2007-08-19 09:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by Paul W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Put yourself in her position.....oh, you ARE in her position aren't you....sleeping with your ex-boyfriend. I wonder if he's sleeping with ALL his ex girlfriends....how many of them can there be? To hurt him you are just trying to hurt her. You say she's not nice but YOU won't be very nice if you do what you are suggesting. You are going to feel hurt whatever you do and you are hurt now. Don't make it worse. I suggest you dump this guy NOW and get back your self-esteem. No reasoning with him, no accusing him - just dump him. Leave him in limbo and let him do some wondering for a change. It's up to the other girlfriend(s) what they decide to do/not do - but that's not your concern. You just concentrate on yourself. Get rid of this loser quick and find yourself a nice boyfriend. There are plenty of lovely boys out there just waiting for a girl like you.
2007-08-19 08:59:41 · answer #3 · answered by chris n 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are right he has been playing you, and this other girl too. Don't waste any more of your time on him, you may want to hurt him by telling the other girl about his unfaithfulness but its not going to help you any in the end, so just let go of your bitterness and move on, the future's bright!
2007-08-19 08:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by sparkleybumple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person you are going to hurt is you.
Why are you still sleeping with him when he,s gone back to her?
You should have more pride and respect for yourself after all there are more boys out there you know, hopefully your find one your more suited to, he is obviously not sure of himself or what he wants.
Revenge is not the answer.
Hope you find peace of mind.
2007-08-19 09:17:17 · answer #5 · answered by Fallen Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should just stop contacting with this guy and just move on with ur life. U are already mentally hurt by this guy and its not worth it. This is not the best way to get ur revenge. Revenge back by making urself better both mentally and physically and get urself a better man.
Stop living under his "shadow" and move on. He's not worth it.
2007-08-19 08:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by Lif3ly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should tell her, if you were in her position how would you feel? i have been in that position and am not greatful for it, i didnt tell his girlfriend, but he did it with a lot of other people aswel. In the end it makes you feel like trash and you know you are only being used for one thing. Tell her, you wouldnt like some girl doing that with your guy.
2007-08-19 08:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you want to get out it.
Sex or something more (like you want to be his GF again?).
If sex...let it be, your happy with him in bed, the other girl is happy, and the lucky bastard is smiling from ear to ear having 2,3, or more ex GFs at his beck and call.
Otherwise, move on and find a better guy.
2007-08-23 08:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by Yet D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I've been there with my ex, now I think they both deserve each other, I'm sure she won't care the way you do, so do your self a favor and just remove yourself from the situation at hand and live your life the best you can.
2007-08-19 09:01:18 · answer #9 · answered by panda bear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have to stop sleeping with him. Secondly, tell his girlfriend, so she will probably dump him in the end. Tell him that you and him have nothing to do together coz u broke up. good luck!
2007-08-19 08:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋