hi all,
first of all im in an 11 month relationship, im 17 and so is my boyfriend.
our relationship is pretty serious but about 3 weeks ago he got grounded by his mother for calling my mobile from his home phone and racking up a huge bill, she told him she was going to ground him for a month, and so far its been 3 weeks so shes sticking to her guns. He paid her back the day after he got caught but still hes grounded, i know he has to be taught a lesson but she didnt even let him see me for our 11 months, its really hard and has put a big strain on our relationship because we cant talk, only over a stupid computer because he isnt allowed the home phone, and its hard to know he still cares..its horrible i dont know what to do it feels like i havent heard from in ages or seen him and like im not going to for ages many of you may of read this, but i just wanted to know do you think by the sounds of this his mother is tryna keep us apart, me and her havent got along in past situations.
2007-08-19 02:07:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally I do not think that it has anything to do with you at all. His mother made a judgement and grounded him for a month and dam she is sticking to her guns. Perhaps there is a reason she has made the grounding so long, and maybe in the past he hasn't learned valuable lessons that his mom is trying to teach him. Of maybe she's just fed up with his attitude and bs. Sounds like there is less than a week left of his grounding and I bet once it's over you will be the first person he contacts, so do not worry.
2007-08-19 02:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look on the bright side, there's only a week left. He's 17, so hopefully he won't be living with his mother for too much longer. Maybe you should go in halves with him on the bill, or at least say it so he doesn't feel like he had to sacrifice so much for you. Mother's aren't always going to like you, but that's too bad. You should try to get along with her better, especially if she plays such a large role in his life.
2007-08-19 09:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he might have friends usually visiting his home
u can send the mesages to him
u can also call him as the mom will not find the boys voice...(thats his friend..who will help u out)
u can talk and
if not possible then just ask ur bro sis to help u out
the condition is really serious
and just u wanna meet him
2007-08-19 09:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is urgent???
Ya waited 3 out of 4 weeks for urgent??? Wait 1 more week... kinda obvious???
2007-08-19 09:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, she just wants to make her point with him. Stick to your grounds Mom.
2007-08-19 09:15:12 · answer #5 · answered by panda bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to worry dear.. its all mothers characater ..they think that their children should be ok until they are alive.. dats not wrong...so she tries to keep him under control.. be patience.. actually girls are ok with mums.. but boys bit sensitive.. so his mother knew his character she is trying to keep under control.. its not wrong..if you really love him.. be patience for only few years.. then after that she will not disturb you isn it??
u bothare not over 18 too.. so she is correct..
2007-08-19 09:28:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shouldn't worry about it. If she feels the same way about you, those problems can improve ;-)
2007-08-19 09:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. i am usally a very helping person. but hunny that is way to long.
2007-08-19 09:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't have a serious relationship if he was just "GROUNDED" by his mommy!!
That's hillarious!
2007-08-19 09:14:05 · answer #9 · answered by contessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋