that they like me? and if they do and i show they like me then not talk to me any more too. I get told i am beautiful all the time and yet i have no bf. only one and he was not a very good bf
2007-08-19 23:03:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's probably all in the timing. You tell them too soon that you like them, and if they aren't ready to be in a relationship, they run the other way. Just be friendly and non-committal, and you will end up with guys that like you too.
Same way when you are older, don't tell guys you love them before they are ready to hear it. It's better not to reveal too much too soon about other aspects of your life too. Otherwise, if you get into an argument, they may "throw it back at you," and use it as an excuse to break up. And, sometimes guys "kiss and tell."
2007-08-27 22:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by soupkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys can be idiots. They will like you from a distance, but once you show them that you would like to take things further, they back off. They are not secure enough, and you should find someone who wants to take things to the next step instead of just having you there just in case or for whenever they want. Do not make yourself so avaliable to guys who do not deserve it. Try to get some feedback on their true feelings and whether they would like to take things to the next step.
Good luck.
2007-08-27 16:52:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's because they feel threatened by your lack of emotional fear. Not all people can be as open an honest as you seem to be about your emotions; just read the answers that most of these chatters gave you! Don't change anything...when somebody that appreciates your beauty and unusual personality comes along, you don't want to be playing the role of someone you aren't; then you'll miss out on the real thing!
2007-08-19 23:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry honey, but when we say you're beautiful, we mean beautiful on the "inside". And thus why you don't have a boyfriend, cuz all guys care about is the p_i_n_k in the middle.
2007-08-27 09:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
attempt kissing him silent. Or clarify at a time once you're the two completely clothed and in a comfortable placing that together as you adore grimy communicate throughout the time of foreplay, you may merely want you moan your approval of his prowess in the process the act and not could desire to speak in any respect. tell him that what he does is so friendly that speaking is impossible for you, and you may like it to be the comparable for him.
2016-10-16 05:10:41 · answer #5 · answered by reardigan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the 'im beautiful" and quit telling them you like them!!, maybe it makes them feel pressured for a response. just leave it alone, like em , but 'keep it to yourself'. Guys get scared by clingy/needy girls
2007-08-27 13:44:17 · answer #6 · answered by butterfly7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can tell them you like them, why can you not ask them why they stopped talking to you?
Try talking to them. If they don't talk back, you shouldn't have liked them in the first place.
2007-08-19 23:09:27 · answer #7 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with yourself for you to be able to know whats wrong with you, or try to ask your true friend about it, you may find an answer but don't be to proud and not accept things you don't like to hear about you. Try to reflect. Be descent, be a refine lady. Guys want to be proud with their girls.
2007-08-19 23:11:41 · answer #8 · answered by mhye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just flirt with people...u say that ppl think ur beautiful, let them come to you, which im sure they will after some flirtatious talking
have funn
2007-08-19 23:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you come on to strong. Maybe they really don't like you the way you want them to.
2007-08-27 21:56:26 · answer #10 · answered by fred a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋