Family & Relationships - 19 August 2007

How long where you with someone before he said that he loves you and wants to marry you?

I have been dating a guy for a few weeks and he already said that he wants to marry me. He can see me as his wife in the future, and wants to get engaged in a couple of months, and to start planning a wedding.

He asked me what i think about all this, and wants an answer.
At first i was really freaking out. I do enjoy spending time with him. I am not as scared and freaked out as i was before, as i never had a boyfriend before.

Has anything like this happened to anyone before?

2007-08-19 17:21:21 · 34 answers · asked by Glamourous_Girl 5 in Weddings

my boyfriend seems to always drink at night. he told me he would go buy long island ice teas at night somtimes..... his neighbor also is always asking him to give him a ride to the liquer store. when i sleep over he has been making trips to the liquer store. one night i asked him not to drink and he kept on saying he was going to go and when i told him whatever do what you do he actually left and got drinks.... now he's a changed person and he's not as sweet as he use to be and he has said things to me i never would expect to come out of his mouth, such as he dosn't know about our relationship and other things that he would never ever say.

2007-08-19 17:19:43 · 17 answers · asked by blknasian 1 in Singles & Dating

I will be married 20 years at the end of this month.My husband 12 months ago was secretly talking to another famale and sais thats all it was just talking.I have every day been battling with this and question it.im driving myself nuts over this.A part of me wants to stay but im also very unhappy with whats happened,do i through 20 years away.

2007-08-19 17:19:16 · 8 answers · asked by CRUZ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When I get mad at my friend, she thinks its weird that I get over being mad the next day. Should I stay being mad? I don't get it

2007-08-19 17:17:47 · 21 answers · asked by Edmond T 2 in Friends

It would seem so...since most actors are about this height (give or take 2 inches)

2007-08-19 17:12:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i UNDERSTAND THAT MOST DONT AGREE AND ITS OKAY BUT IN MY OPINION PORN IS CHEATING...WELL I MEAN IF I WATCH IT WITH HIM OR I BUY IT WITH HIM THAN WE ARE IN IT 2GETHER AND YES IT CAN ENHANCE OUR SEXUAL EXPERIENCE..BUT IN THIS CASE IM HURT AND SUPER PISSED! I WAS GUNNA WATCH A MOVIE AND I FOUND THIS PORN DVD I JZT WANTED TO ASK HIM ABOUT IT! HE SAID HE GOT IT FROM A FRIEND...HOW THE HELL DO U GET PORN FROM A FRIEND...AND I WAS MAD AND HURT...MIND U I MAY BE PREGNANT SO MY FEELINGS ARE ON THIS ROLLER COASTER! HE GOT MAD AT ME AND SLAMMED DOORS...I HATE PORN WITH A PASSION AND HE KNOWS THIS! WHEN I WAS YOUNG I WAS MOLESTED AND THIS ******* WAS ALWAYS WATCHING PORN AND TRYING TO PUSH IT ON ME AND TOUCHING AND UGH! I HATE IT...I HATE IT!!! AM I WRONG FOR THIS...SHOULD I NOT CARE???

2007-08-19 17:09:31 · 25 answers · asked by Mamita25Riqueña 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My 11 year old son is sick and tired of his dad making promises to him and then not following through. Promises such as - signing him up to play little league football, and then not doing so. Promises such as, getting him hermit crabs and promising to provide everything needed for them - and then not doing that.

This really isn't about material things, getting him this, that and the other thing - he is just so tired of his dad saying *I promise* and then putting it off with *I'm sorry, I forgot* or *We'll do that next weekend*

I know being a weekend parent can't be easy - there probably seems like there is never enough time. But this has been going on for nine years and my son has had enough!

If I bring this up, my ex will think all this came from me...but it didn't. My son cried for close to two hours tonight thinking about all this and he just doesn't know what to do.

He is physically disabled and has a twin sister (that gets EVERYthing promised)

2007-08-19 17:06:47 · 5 answers · asked by L ♥ L ♥ 7 in Family

My ex boyfriend and I were together for almost 4 years and ended 3 years ago because he didn't want to get married after all. We still loved each other but were in different places. We kept in touch and have moved on to others in this time. He met someone last year and are now just married. He seems to want to know though about my relationships everytime I get involved and of course I feel uncomfortable with this, so I don't say much. But he has no problem dishing every detail about his love life.. I usually ignor it as I really don't wanna know, expecially about the wedding. He recently contacted me in an email again asking me about why now I'm single and if I'm ok. Now, I don't wanna look too far into this or should I? Why does he care?

2007-08-19 17:01:09 · 39 answers · asked by PIXIE 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How to i get this black guy to like me and what should i do when i see him or when he says Hi to me ? What Do i need to do Help me please

2007-08-19 16:59:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I sleeps on both sides o' the bed, you know, an' I like this fellow, an' I think he likes me, an' I want to have a go with him, I do! Now, my gal won't like the idea at all, so I have to keep it all hush-hush, you know, keep me mouth closed an' all---thing is, I'm not sure he goes that way himself, know what I mean?

I asked him outright, I did, an' alls he said was "I like me muffins with raisins and without". What the bloody 'ell does that mean, I ask you? Is it worth riskin' my relationship with my gal for a bit o' man-lovin', or do I run the risk o' losing both friend an' gal????

After all, I'm not at all sure I get his drift, "Muffins with and without raisins"....I don't get it a' all!

Jack is feelin' workin' class tonight, you can tell!

2007-08-19 16:59:39 · 33 answers · asked by Jack B, sinistral 5 in Singles & Dating

Im 16 n my family thinks im inexperienced with girls and always talk about it. But the truth is I had my first relationship in Gr. 8 and I was doin more than just kissing(not sex though). I got many girls on lock right now aswell. Should I tell them about these girls or just let this flow.

2007-08-19 16:57:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I consider my ex to be acting out of negligence concerning our son in many ways & he refuses to listen to my concerns so I'm at a loss at what I can do to get him to listen before it is too late. Our son is 6 but tonight my ex put him in the front seat of his truck (even though there is a back seat). I asked our son to move to the back my ex told him not to. My son has also came home on many occasions without being in a booster seat (for over a year now) and my son told me the other day my ex let him ride WITHOUT a seatbelt at all a few weeks ago because his back was sunburnt and it hurt. My son's grandmother (my ex's mother) also told me my ex told our son NOT to wear a helmet on his bike (plus it is the law). I really feel like my ex is putting our son's safety in jeopardy for no reason or just to spite me and its stupid. I'm not a person to sue but I certainly will sue the pants off him if our son ends up hurt but then it might be too late.
I need suggestions to get my ex to stop!

2007-08-19 16:56:55 · 6 answers · asked by jenny s 2 in Family

My wife and I are seperated and going through the terils of divorce. I have cheated on her and the person I have cheated with can not decide what she wants. This weekend my wife and I spent some time together at my daughters cheerleading event, and it was nice, when we drove away I realized I miss her and have been thinking about her and what we once had, and part of me wants it back and to work it out, but I am uncertain she will change some of her traits that led me to stray. We have been sharing a few thoughts and still care for one and another, she has been dating but has notbody that strikes her intrest. Should I try to fix this or move on ?

2007-08-19 16:55:09 · 26 answers · asked by edy f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

find a man who wants a women to stay home and he work . i was raisied to stay home take care of kids and the man . i thinking i ant got the right one yet. lol

2007-08-19 16:52:36 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 18 and From Louisiana I've been wondering does guys from places like New England,California or other places like "southern belles" (more like Reese Witherspoon not Britney Spears) because I hear that term on movies and tv and I guy from mass. said my accent is a big turn-on and I hardly have one.
I plan on moving to cali with some friends, and when it comes to flirting would it be a smart move pulling that card?

2007-08-19 16:43:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-19 16:42:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and properly use the English language?

2007-08-19 16:40:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Enough about fears, worries, and what can go wrong... what are the good things about marriage?

2007-08-19 16:40:04 · 13 answers · asked by girly123 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this guy i used to date says he is married. for one, his wife is not on the deed to his house ( Thank you public records). secondly. he sent a picture of her , which 18/20 people questioned on this site said it is a fake. then, i asked if he had another picture of the two of them togehter ( To verify its really her) and he said , no . he made a big story about why he does not have a picture of her. Then, I went to visit him at work ( yes i was invited ) he had NO ring, NO tan line from a ring. also, he claims she is a teacher at a local school district. i checked thier web page teacher search feature and could find no such person there. does it sound like the guy is making up this lie? if so, why would he do such a thing?

2007-08-19 16:38:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do notice. I know from a previous question that most of you won't understand what I am saying. Let me try to clarify it by the story of a mother who had to answer a question from her white son about what a black person was. She answered, "Well, your friend Johnny is black". "He is not", her son replied.
You see, little children are usually color-blind until someone teaches them otherwise. And perhaps 0.1% of adults are color-blind, while the rest of us are racists, even though some of us won't admit it, and some of us try to redefine what a racist is.

2007-08-19 16:37:05 · 6 answers · asked by JiveMan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

So me and my friend made this bet.. he got a job recently at Mcdonalds and i bet him 10 dollars that he was going to get fired...(he got fired from his last job as well) so anyways Mcdonalds does this thing where they put you on what they like to call "probation" where u work for like a couple months and get paid the minimum and after that timespan they get to chose whether they want to keep you and if they dont want to keep you they "release you".. so anyways my friend did that and in the end they decided not to keep him... so then he comes uup to me and says "Hey i won the bet becuase technically i didnt get fired.. they released me which is way different" that is his logic... so now i need ure help.. Who wins the bet, me or him,... and why plz?? thnx alot

2007-08-19 16:35:03 · 1 answers · asked by wizzzdork 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-19 16:31:16 · 16 answers · asked by kinzyloo925 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hi well i am 14 and my parents r devoriced my mom and dad live very close so i guess i live with both of them they r very very good parents and give me the best and all the love they can but my monny well her boyfriend for almost 7 years left her and for some (excuse my word choce ) hoe and now she started somkeing again and i realy dont want to see her unhappy so can some one give me some edvice so i can make her happy again oh and i forgot to say that he keeps on calling her i guess to see where he stands with her but i realy need some help please

2007-08-19 16:31:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm moving eight hours away to go to college in a few days, and I am already very homesick. I know I am probably too old to be homesick, and that it is silly since I will be able to call/e-mail/IM everyone.

It's not even that I'm going to miss people so much as it is that I already miss my house and city. I've lived here all my life, I know what everything looks like and what to do. My new town will be tons of fun, but it just is not the same... it doesn't smell like home, it won't have the same characteristics... it's just not home.

My family will be coming up to visit about a month after they drop me off, and I will be coming home for Thanksgiving and Christmas. But I am uncharacteristically worked up about this... I have cried three times in as many years and the last two have been this week, about leaving home.

How can I stop from being so homesick? I don't want to show my homesickness to my family or to anyone in my new town.

Please help me.

2007-08-19 16:30:00 · 1 answers · asked by Rat 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-19 16:29:57 · 9 answers · asked by ALESANA 7 in Family

There's a sweet little muffin you know, an' she wants Jack, she does! Is it worth a risk for a bit o' lovin' on the side? Nothin' serious, mind you, jus' a little fun with a vile temptress for a while, doesn't mean I love the bird. Do you think I can get away with it now, or is it riskin' me chuckers?

2007-08-19 16:29:45 · 14 answers · asked by Jack B, sinistral 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been with this man (42) for 6 years.He left me on the drop of a dime for a younger co-worker whom he always claimed was lesbian he lives with her he also said (she was living with her girlfriend) (that is not so ) he told me its over 6 weeks ago and i am mad at myself for being so hurt and devastated over him.
he is all happy in love and i don't know how to go on.
I am a RN and don't look bad. He and his girl are cable guys
they work together and live together so i am chewing my nails so angry for him leaving me how can i controll my emotions.
I don't think i will ever love anyone else.

2007-08-19 16:28:58 · 19 answers · asked by maria s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

with a really hot girl/guy if there was no chance whatsoever that you would caught? Be honest

2007-08-19 16:25:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am getting married may 2008 and have 4 bridesmaids 3 of them are short and 1 is alot taller the short girls want short dresses and the tall one wants a long one.....my wedding is in the spring but on a friday evening should i go with short or long?

2007-08-19 16:23:33 · 25 answers · asked by lkbtnb 1 in Weddings

I used to be a push over when I was young. So for the past few years, i've been so paranoid in doing favors for people because I am afraid they are pushing me over. So my question is, what is crossing the line between being a push over or just being a friend? And how can I stop being so paranoid about doing favors for other people but at the same time how can I also avoid being a push over. I'm so confused about this issue and i'm afraid that I will lose all my friends and more if I continue being so paranoid and avoid doing favors for others. Please help. =(

2007-08-19 16:22:09 · 13 answers · asked by RockiesFan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships