When I get mad at my friend, she thinks its weird that I get over being mad the next day. Should I stay being mad? I don't get it
2007-08-19 17:17:47 · 21 answers · asked by Edmond T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, never hold a grudge. That's cool...stay that way, but just don't be taken for granted
2007-08-19 17:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by da dude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not weird- it is actually good. It is unhealthy for you to carry a grudge and be angry all the time. Especially if it is over a petty or insignificant thing- what is the point of staying mad. As long as you are able to confront the issue when needed and you are not etting things eat away at you and holding the anger inside and pretending not to be angry- it is healthy and a wonderful attitude that you are able to let go and not be angry for long
2007-08-19 17:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not weird. When you are mad at your friend, you are probably caught up in the moment and possibly overreact and the next day, you realize that you really had nothing to be mad about. It's not weird at all.
2007-08-19 17:21:10 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I like some Heavy Metal bands, also soft music, and I am usually a calm person. I think Heavy Metal doesn't make people angry just because it sounds aggressive... actually, listening to "aggressive" songs like Slayer's makes me happy too, in a good mood.
2016-04-01 08:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by Daniela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's normal. The way you forgive so quickly is to benefit yourself from stop feeling anger, which I guess you don't like feeling. When a person is mad at somebody, the pain is with them too, and you just want to get rid of that pain. :)
2007-08-19 17:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what you think. For example, my brother and I could be seriously mad at each other, throwing really angry words, in one moment and playing thumb-wars and laughing our butts off the next! It all depends on you!
2007-08-19 17:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by Chip Par 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes thats weird. Being angry is part of human nature
2007-08-19 17:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by Ryan G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's not weird.
Some people can't just be angry for too long, I'm that kind of person, i know it's annoying.
If someone do something too bad that you have to be angry for a long time so that person don't do that a lot, pretend to be angry, or people will not treat you well.
2007-08-19 17:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what I do also. I don't think it's weird, it might actually be a good thing. You get over stuff fast and so you won't lose a good friendship over an argument most likely.
2007-08-19 17:21:09 · answer #9 · answered by Taylor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a really good thing that you get over it so quickly. Now, try this approach instead, don't get mad, get happy. Love your friend unconditionally. God loves you, and He loves you so much that His son died for you on that cross.
2007-08-19 17:23:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋