Family & Relationships - 19 August 2007

I 'm searching for the high-fiber boyfriend to be my husband and I want to marry so I can fill my muffin.

2007-08-19 15:31:59 · 12 answers · asked by Binary Purple 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok well, I'm 16 and my sister is 19. Her boyfriend drives me CRAZY. When he is invited to family events, he picks fights with me all the time. I don't understand why, he'll sit there and wait for me to say something and then immediately argue with it. I can't confront him about anything because my sister would freak. He also seems weirdly interested in what I'm doing ... like I read my sisters text messages, and he was sending a bunch of text messages saying, "Is Becca going to be there? Is Becca coming? What's Becca doing?" (Becca is me).

He just seems obsessed with trying to get on my years. So y do you think he is always trying to start stuff with me and how can I get him to stop, without saying anything too harsh because my sister would be upset if I treated her boyfriend "bad" or anything. She has been dating him for 2 years so its not like its going to stop or anything.

2007-08-19 15:31:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whether its in a negative way (drugs) of a positive way (counselling)...please share with me your stories. Thanks!

2007-08-19 15:29:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm going out with my girlfriend for over a month now, and in that time we have gotten on brilliantly, but because its not that often we get to see eachother i love being round her and even just having her near any time i get to see her, again, mainly cause I dont get to be round her all that much, but we do however talk near every day be it over the phone or text or even IM.
But the last time I was with her i had a very strong (and unpleasent) feeling that she did not want to be near me any more, this was the last time i seen her, it has now being a few days since i've even heard from her. Am I just being paranoid? or is their something more to it that i'm missing compleatly?

2007-08-19 15:27:32 · 4 answers · asked by inthedark 1 in Singles & Dating

We currently live in CO, but want to move to MN to raise our adorable little baby. I'm from CO and hubby is from MN and something about those midwestern roots really appeals to me. I'd love to live somewhere other than CO and see another way of life - anyone out there who made the move to the midwest or to MN in particular to raise a family? Any feedback on your decision? Thanks!

2007-08-19 15:26:08 · 5 answers · asked by SW07 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

She does not work outside the hosue and has had a good life but becomes frigid whenever there is a problem relating to my work or anything else...

2007-08-19 15:24:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He is cheating on me with an old friend of his from before he knew me. He says they are just friends, but he talks to her everyday, and he is ignoring me and our son. I don't thin that their relationship is physical, but he is definatly cheating emotionally. I have asked him many times to stop talking to her and IMing her all the time. He tries to hide it by doing it before i get home from work, or when i am not in the computer room. I don't know how to make him stop. I need help.

2007-08-19 15:24:41 · 38 answers · asked by Teresa W 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-19 15:20:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i gave a gift to my couin hes 13 and i called to talk to his mom he answers no thanku all i get is a she not when when she was and she hates me even if joking not funny

2007-08-19 15:17:32 · 1 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

about opposite sex friendships. It was published within the past few days - maybe a week, and dealt with jealousy and relationships.

2007-08-19 15:14:55 · 1 answers · asked by SheliaLynn 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my a.ss is shaped like a bran muffin. will boys still have crushes on me? do boys like bran?

2007-08-19 15:14:43 · 7 answers · asked by KellyKapowski 3 in Singles & Dating

I am need help! Please!

2007-08-19 15:13:56 · 2 answers · asked by KITKAT 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a black man. I love my people. I love my culture. But I've been through so much unnecessary bullsh^t with black women...
I've been through minor difficulties with white women but as of lately, white women seem to be much easier to get along with.
I promised myself a long time ago that I would love all women equally.
I'm a good looking man. Getting a woman for me is limited to my interest pretty much. Some women will jump to meet me, some will pass me by.
I've been around the world and still have more to see. At this point I'm trying to line myself up into the road to happiness.
It just doesn't seem like I'll find it with a black woman and that makes me sad.
Even my father suggested I'd do better with white women and white friends.
I'm originally I'm from a real rough neighborhood and some would still see me in some ways as ghetto or gangsta like.
In reality I'm stuck in between ghetto and upper-class. Guess I need some direction.
What do you suggest????

2007-08-19 15:11:18 · 50 answers · asked by honesthustler 3 in Singles & Dating

Does aging have any hidden benefits?

2007-08-19 15:10:22 · 13 answers · asked by Pilgrim Traveler 5 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so im going to a concert with a guy as a date. he's rele cute and he's been known to sleep with every girl he's ever gone out with, this is our 4th date and im kinda nervous b/c last time he hinted that he wanted to sleep with me, i like him but i don't love him and i've only had sex a few times before and 1 was a mistake and the rest were with my bf of 3 yrs, now that im single i was being asked out alot but i just wasn't sure, n e way wut do i do? shud i sleep with him or not? and if not how do i tell him no?

2007-08-19 15:08:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife has been tired lately, I know it could be for many things, but could it be from having too much sex? We are a newly married couple, and my wife is realy really attractive, and we enjoy being together every other day or so, at times two days in between. She is in her early 20's and I am in my early 40's. Would taking a longer break between our times together help, or is there something that she can take to give her more energy. I dont want her to end up feeling bad all the time, or like many other newlyweds that are constantly tired and worn out. I love her dearly, we both take vits. regularly,what else would help...thanks

2007-08-19 15:08:06 · 13 answers · asked by george 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have always worn pantyhose with my skirt suits for work each day at the office. Needless to say, with me dressing that way, my hubby developed a pretty intense curiousity about it. As I was getting ready for work one day, I asked him what the fascination was and he told me that he found it alluring and sensual when I wear pantyhose and that he was curious to experience that feeling. So I hiked up my skirt, eased out of my sheers, handed them to him, and told him to slip them on. I let him keep them on for a few minutes and he went absolutely crazy over the way they felt, which I thought was kind of neat.

Now hes asked a few more times recently for me to let him wear them again. I don't want to deny it to him because of how fascinated he is and how much he liked it that one time. I'm thinking if I can limit it to a few minutes around the time we go to bed, we could have fun with it. Was I wrong to do this? How should I handle this?

2007-08-19 15:06:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok, there is a very long story to this, but i will try to make it as short as possible. well the bottom line is that my uncle (dads brother) went totally crazy. he wont talk to any of his friends or family and he left got up and left, leaving a house, car, animals...everything! no one knows where he is at, and no one can get a hold of him.

so my dad went to my uncle's house (that he left) and was going to get the pet snake out and also take some other things that he left (tables, chairs ect.). But some how my uncle found out that he took those things and said (on the answering machine, from his cell phone) "(my dad's name) better take everything back to my house that he took or he wont be around anymore."

i am really scared because my uncle likes to fight people and he went totally crazy. im afraid that he is going to do something to my dad. but no one else seems to think anything of it..

What should i do?

2007-08-19 15:06:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

lol Did it help you? What song did you sing?

Anybody think it would be romantic even if the person can't sing?

2007-08-19 15:05:33 · 14 answers · asked by Thomas 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend, "J", she's been visiting me for the past three weeks now, since she's been here, shes had sex with about four or five different guys, and one of those guys is a guy that usually hang out with! Than she kissed a guy that had gotten oral from, and a whole 12hrs hadn't even gone by, and to top that off even more, she had sex with his friend!!! She was put on the phone with a guy who was from out of town and he told her he was coming to where we are and he wanted to meet in person, she met him, had sex with him in front of his friends and than went back to his state for a few days! And not only that, she has a boyfriend back home! Than another thing, when we were at my friends house she was cooking in her bra and panties, and he had company and one of them she never even met before! Someone please help me help her!

2007-08-19 15:03:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok I bought a baby gift for one of my friends but it is clothes and has the price printed on the hanger its on but I cant take the hanger off because it is holding 2 outfits together. So do you think I should just black the price out with a marker or just give it to her with the price on it? She's not one of my really good friends.. just someone I see sometimes.

2007-08-19 15:02:22 · 10 answers · asked by blue_star12111 1 in Family

Even if the affair was well over a year ago? I did talk to her when it was recently discovered, but my emotions were flying high and I wasnt thinking straight. I feel like I have unanswered questions or maybe even a need to forgive her as well (she knew he was married and didnt care). I cant ask my husband these questions cuz he gets annoyed by it and stresses that by me talking about it, it is not moving forward. I say easy for him to say, he had all the fun, and I got all the pain, and confusion. I dont know if she would even talk to me, probably not. Its just lately things have been really bothering me and I feel like I need closure or something, and why I think she is the one to give it to me is beyond me. Please serious answers and please explain why you answered the way you did. I am going to read all of them very carefully and really consider what each of you have to say. Thank you

2007-08-19 15:00:53 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

girl named *Alma*, i was looking for her on here, and i cant find her anywhere! i want to ask her something important, please help me!

2007-08-19 14:56:08 · 2 answers · asked by Spencer 1 in Friends

Well, my fiance and I would like to have a potluck wedding to cut on cost, and then just insist guests don't worry about going all out with wedding gifts, and just feeding us instead. Anyway, I was thinking of sending out maybe three nicely done recipe cards with invitations and requesting guests make one of the three dishes. Any thoughts on this? Is this too tacky, and should we just do the whole catered thing instead?

2007-08-19 14:54:59 · 32 answers · asked by beth c 2 in Weddings

Well technically, I've had my "fairy tale wedding plan" since I was probably 9 or 10, but realistically, how far in advance of the date should a person really get into the plans and details?

2007-08-19 14:52:26 · 14 answers · asked by beth c 2 in Weddings

i just had to chose whether or not i ever wanted to see my dad again because of his ______ wife i chose to leave was i right?

2007-08-19 14:43:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I think I embarrassed my girlfriend today when I kissed her in public. I'm about to call her now. I'd like to ask her what she though, is this alright and how should I phrase it?

2007-08-19 14:41:42 · 6 answers · asked by triath91 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to totally forget this guy I've been with for the past 5yrs. I tried everything and nothing :-| I guess mentally/emotionally/sexually, I don't want to forget. But he's such a negative aspect in my life (including his stupid friends). So, it's time to forget, but I don't really want to deal with all that pain that I went through the first bajillion times I tried (before). Think psycho-therapy will help? If not, I'll even give in to magik...I'll even find Jesus!!!

2007-08-19 14:35:09 · 11 answers · asked by Luvli Aquarian 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my sister & i r really close.
we were having a girls day and the subject of guys came up.
she told me about this guy that she hasn't seen in 5 yrs.
she was telling me that not a day goes by that she doesn't think of him & that to this day she still has dreams about them being together.
things start getting interesting when she tells about how she went on Myspace.
she looked up his name & found his profile on myspace.
she found his picture & profile but she couldn't see his profile because it eas set to private.
so she printed out his picture.
she goes on & tells me how everyday for about a week she checked to see if she could see his profile and more of his pictures & how eventually she was able to see his page.
here are the parts that make me think she's going a little nuts.
she saved all of his pictures that are on his page onto a dvd.
& how she pretended to b someone else & sent him a message saying she was a friend of hers & wanted 2 c if he remembered her.

2007-08-19 14:33:23 · 5 answers · asked by L0V3_$T0N3D 3 in Family

I am 15 and i home! My sister just moved out and i wish i was her. I have no freedom, i have talked to me parents about more freedom but they wont budge. I cant deal with my house anymore. I am constantly spending time at other peoples houses because i get so much relief when i am not home. I mean seriously if i have to spend more then a few hours (not including sleep) at home i go insane! Its really bugging me. I just want to skip my next three years of high school and move out. I don't even want to go back to school, all it does is cause more problems for me! Please give me ideas to help me! And saying that you've gone through the same thing isn't helpful, i need actual advice!

2007-08-19 14:28:31 · 9 answers · asked by Spicy Salsa 1 in Family