I'm going out with my girlfriend for over a month now, and in that time we have gotten on brilliantly, but because its not that often we get to see eachother i love being round her and even just having her near any time i get to see her, again, mainly cause I dont get to be round her all that much, but we do however talk near every day be it over the phone or text or even IM.
But the last time I was with her i had a very strong (and unpleasent) feeling that she did not want to be near me any more, this was the last time i seen her, it has now being a few days since i've even heard from her. Am I just being paranoid? or is their something more to it that i'm missing compleatly?
2007-08-19 15:27:32 · 4 answers · asked by inthedark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think your instincts might be right on mark. However before you take any action, I will suggest you call her and ask if everything is okay at her end-----she is well, no family problems,she is not mad at you etc.From the answers you get to your questions and the conversations that ensue, you will get a definitive idea of what is going on.While it might be nothing to worry about, I think you should prepare yourself just in case she no longer wants to have any dealings with you.As difficult as this may sound, you might not have any other choice.I hope I am wrong though.I n any case, I wish you good luck.
2007-08-19 15:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing something changed in her life and you aren't in the loop. Either you did something she didn't like, or someone else did something she did like. be honest and ask her. In a relationship, it is always best to be honest and upfront, in a kind and gentle way.
I would say, "Name______, I get the feeling that something has changed between us. Let's talk about it so we can get back on the same page."
Good luck!
2007-08-19 22:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by mommymeesh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure what to day. i think your best shot is too try to get a hold on her somehow. ask to soend sometime. and when your together talk things over. find out if somethings wrong.
2007-08-19 22:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fess up...how did you blow it?
2007-08-19 22:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋