Family & Relationships - 19 August 2007

Thing's about bjs and other stuff that shouldn't be said to another guy. I want to trust her, but I don't want her to know I looked in her phone. She already know's I did before and saw some stuff, I promised I wouldn't again. I don't know what to do!?! Please help!

2007-08-19 12:28:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The question has been removed..The length of time it took to give the right answer..I could have been notified..to look for another question! Do you agree?

2007-08-19 12:27:09 · 4 answers · asked by howdoilvthee 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Can you get marriage license online?! And if so where at online? Thanks!

2007-08-19 12:23:01 · 3 answers · asked by ♥Cheese Whiz♥ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I couple of weeks ago i caught my brother (17) wearing one of my thongs, i turned a blind eye to it and said nothin' about it. He has a girlfriend so i'm 99% his not gay.

but . . . today i came home from work, no one was surpost to be in the house but i walked in and saw my brother, wearing my skirt, top, tights, undies, knee high's. Just sittin' in the armchair watchin' tv. I asked what the hell he was doin' and he said "Relaxin'". He just sat there watchin' tele in my clothes and makeup, when i got up he tried to walk like a girl in the knee highs. he stayed like that until my mom puled up on the drive, then he shot up stairs to change keeping on the tights, thong and bra, just puttin' on a pair of my tight jeans (passed them off as his own) and a loose t.
what do i do now i know it's not just the underwear he is wearin'
ps: i washed to clothes and we had an agreement if he wears any underwear not to put it back in the draw but in the washing basket.

*helpful answers pleas

2007-08-19 12:22:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-08-19 12:18:39 · 2 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

...who is prone to throwing temper tantrums? ;)

2007-08-19 12:18:38 · 15 answers · asked by Jack B, sinistral 5 in Singles & Dating

whats one of the most memorable things thats ever happened to you?

2007-08-19 12:16:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i suspect that my 2 grand-children are in danger, 1 being a type 1 diabetic, their father is a crack user, and has taght these two children, atleaset the oldest being 7 how to lie, to cover for him, he does his drugs in front of his children, and now he has talked his wife into going into the service, she has been gone now 9 week, and since she has been gone the baby gil developed the type 1 diabetease, which does'nt even run in either side of the family, he's been know to take the children to friends houses and be gone forserveral days at a times after his wifes money comes in, becase he does'nt work, and he lets the 7 year old boy take the blood reading when and if it does get read at all. if he dont want to deal with the small girl crying he will give her candy bars, all of this been witnesses by family members. at times but the mother has been so brain washed by her husband she reuses to listen to the family. shat can be done with her in tx. now.

2007-08-19 12:14:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do you like large eternity bands or solitaire diamonds with a plain band better? i'm trying to decide btwn the two and can't make a decision. the solitaire and plain wedding band seem too safe, but the estate/vintage style eternity bands seem like there might not be enough diamond presence.

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2007-08-19 12:14:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We've been through rigourous ups and downs and have made it this far. The problem is my husband wanting to "swing" with other people and always talking about other women. I don't understand why I'm not enough. He always says I'm enough but then why does he have this desire? I find myself calling him all of the time and wanting to be everywhere he is because I don't trust him. How can I trust him? I don't know whether to get out or wait and see if he acts on his thoughts. Please Help!!

2007-08-19 12:12:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wedding has been post poned to next year because somethings were not finished. My matron of hoor was going to give me a bridal shower. She has cancelled it until next year. Who should she inivite. I know she only invited the bridal party her mom and my sister in law. Shouldn't she invited my sister and My Aunt ( My Mom's sister) The flower girl and her mom also ?Should I have say in who comes to my shower?
My sister and Aunt were very hurt not being invited.

2007-08-19 12:11:43 · 21 answers · asked by pandazoogurl 3 in Weddings

We been together for two years and since I've known him this is his everyday ritual. I don't tell him about exes or guys trying to holla unless he asks, but lately I notice in response I've started replying with my own situations. I hate that. how do I get him to stop? Ignoring him is not helping. Why and how??? Help!!!

2007-08-19 12:11:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i tell a girl i still live with my parents. I'm 20, I pay em 150 a month rent and help with the groceries from time to time. When talking with a new chick and the conversation points in this direction its kind of embarrassing to talk about. My older brothers and sisters tell me to stay with my parents till i finish a lot of college and get a really good job under my belt. But its kinda hard to tell a girl i can't take her back to my place because my parents will hear us

2007-08-19 12:08:07 · 35 answers · asked by Blake 4 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for AGES and we share so much and we always have fun together and lots of cuddles and kisses, but neither of us is interested in sex with the other. I am tempted to have affairs, but they always get found out and it would hurt her so much. I am far from abandoning interest in sex!!! The alternatives are commercial sex, or internet porn and m..........t....n. How do you cope if you love someone with who sex is not an option? Is it wrong to go for commercial sex?

2007-08-19 12:07:34 · 18 answers · asked by sorcerer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-19 12:07:11 · 14 answers · asked by james peters 1 in Family

I'm 27 Italian, She's 43 from Mexico and doesent speak that much English. We meet at work a few weeks ago and went out 2 sundays ago to dinner. She is extreamly attractive and is always friendly and flirty with me at work. Wed and she said she had to work at her other job. We had plans Fri and she said she'd call me back but never did so on Sat I seen her and she said, " Are you mad at me", (smiling) I said, " what's your name? I forgot, and ignored her the rest of the day. She is a very friendly person but a little stuck up cause of her beauty. I guess she was just my fastasy. She has 2 daughters 21, 24. Should I just ignore her Mon? Say call me if you would like to go out somtime? When we went out 2 Sundays ago, she said somthing about she wants me to meet her daughters.

2007-08-19 12:05:14 · 2 answers · asked by mermer7@sbcglobal.net 3 in Singles & Dating

I@m writing this on behalf of a mate of mine, and we need some questions answering. My mate has split with his wife of ten years last year and there are going through a messy divorce. Last week his son went home to his mum after a visit with his dad and told his mum that his grandad was hitting him and now my mates wife had got in touch with the lawyers and told them her sons grandad is abusing him and belive me there is not a chance on earth that this has happened he is not like that and is not left alone with him. we all know what kids are like he is only 3 and things can be put in their minds.....His ex wife is wanting some conditions put in the divorce papers as to him never been left with his grandad again. Also after all this she is still letting her son go to his house this weekend now if this has happened would you allow your child to go this weekend???

Is this right? what can be done? Will it stand up in court?

2007-08-19 12:05:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ya know like the guys in their early twenties that hang out with you.I don't want to be anything like my dad.The only things I have learned from him are his mistakes.I can't talk to him about anything because hes super judgemental and doesn't know crap about girls or hobbies or any of that crap.

2007-08-19 12:03:31 · 1 answers · asked by HM 5 in Family

My fiance and I have a couple of "ex friends" who recently moved next door to my future in-laws. Well the reason we are ex friends is because the girl...aka.Harlot...put the moves on my fiance ...even though she is married and has 2 girls..Her husband has no backbone and all though she has cheated on him numerous times...will not leave her.
This girl is the typical white trash...doesnt take care of her kids...dirty home..no morals..
well my mother in law knows the trouble this girl caused between her son and I. The other day I called mommy dear to chit chat...and dad says...Oh shes outside talking to "the whore" hehe ok not in those words....So I said "Oh poor her...tell her Im on the phone so she can get away from her"
Well he did...and mommy didnt come to the phone...even though she said she would be there in a minute. So finally, after waiting forever, I told him to tell her Id talk to her later.
Now I feel like that made me look bad, like she was more important than me..

2007-08-19 12:03:12 · 1 answers · asked by jamzesmom 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm in my 20's and i feel that i'm going through one of the most confusing phases in my life. My way of thinking, attitude, and beliefs are fully changing again and i'm going through some of the most challenging life situations.

I'm a full time college student frustrated that i cannot get into the major i want. I've worked and sacrificed alot (including a social life and friends) to prepare myself and it's getting very disappointing for me and i want to give up.

I'm having friend troubles - some people i thought i was close to are people i don't want to associate myself with anymore...we're changing and growing apart. I feel like we're in different areas...

My friends and i have gone through a "life shock" when someone we knew/close to us passed on and it's been hard; my priorities have been stronger and it's hard for people to understand them...

I'm a family girl but they live in different states - they are my source of happiness but it's hard to keep in contact often because we're all so busy. I only have 2 true blue best friends but things are changing.

Love is something that i anticipate but not ready for this time in my life and hopefully i'll be blessed with someone when the right time comes...just not now...

I want to be happy and i want feel that "fufillment"...i was thinking of praying and getting closer to God but I'm not very "religious"...i'm just very spiritual and have alot of faith...what else can i do?

2007-08-19 11:58:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just found out a friend got killed in a car crash this a.m.
Heading out of W.P.B. Florida.
This friend gave my hsbnd the $
to pick up our dghtr's for their Uncle's funeral.
Now, he's gone too.
On May 13th (mother's day) my brother was shot & killed.
Life is short & precious.
Do u have ur affairs in order?
i.e. what kind of services u want.
ur will, medical directives. Etc.....
I am not being morbid.
Nor fatalistic.
Realistic.

2007-08-19 11:55:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Dammit! I can't help it im just HANDSOME!, im spaniard and my accent drives amerícan women crazy. Im GOD,no doubt.
and my *** is huge!

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2007-08-19 11:49:05 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 33 and I am not at all grown up for my age. I have a neighbor who is 20 and she is sooo immature for her age, always going on and on about about her boyfriend and their lil things that are interesting to a 15 year old but not particularily intersting for a grown up. (No offence to anyone). Take this example....last night a friend had a tupperware party and this girl came (as we include her on everything and hope that she'll see how people act at things like this). Well it was a casual dress thing and we were all having fun and nibbling hors dourves and sipping wine and in she comes with a can of beer, her midriff sticking out, talking over the tupperware lady, and loudlt using the F word in front of 50+ year old ladies.
What do I do? I don'r want to cut her out of my life as she is clearly a nice person and has no family.....and I can't NOT invite her to these things as she would feel excluded if we did....
HELP

2007-08-19 11:47:58 · 13 answers · asked by Cindy 2 in Friends

A girl I was friends with/date a little, was playing crazy games. I recently found out that she was sleeping with a married man (who is falling in love with her and she is not) and has been with at least 15-20 guys in the last 2 years, a few of whom were drug dealers. I did NOT know this, any of this. Before I told her, she still would play like she is miss innocent. I called her out, completely, I pretty much told her that she should not play games with me and that I think she is a ho* and slu* for breaking up a home and being so promiscuous. She told me I was childish and "should crawl into a hole and die"....I told her she is worthless and VERY insecure among other things, AND IT FELT SOOOOO GOOOD!!! It felt like I got a monkey off my back, and part of me felt bad that maybe she needs some serious help.

2007-08-19 11:42:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is always getting on my case about other guys. He gets very jealous whenever im talking to another guy. He doesn't trust me to go out anywhere, even though he says he does, he doesn't. Any suggestions on what to do??

2007-08-19 11:41:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-19 11:40:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-19 11:40:52 · 13 answers · asked by dedimepiece 1 in Weddings

O.k. My Friends And I Are Talking To Our Friend Tomorrow. None Of Us Can Really Trust Her At All Because She Lies ALL The Time! She Also Puts Us Down To Make Her Feel Good. She Also Copies Almost Everything Off Of Us! We Are Still Going To Be Nice To Her, But We Don't Want To Be Friends With Her Anymore. Is There Anyway To Tell Her This Nicely?

2007-08-19 11:37:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Wasted 18 years with a cheating woman time to live life with a woman dark hair slim/med build mail me

2007-08-19 11:33:59 · 10 answers · asked by andrew h 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My lil brother is 9. and he has a huge!butt but,he dosnt like candy or suger why is it so big!?

2007-08-19 11:32:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family