Have you ever done something so wrong, but it felt sooooo goood and right?!?!?

Question

A girl I was friends with/date a little, was playing crazy games. I recently found out that she was sleeping with a married man (who is falling in love with her and she is not) and has been with at least 15-20 guys in the last 2 years, a few of whom were drug dealers. I did NOT know this, any of this. Before I told her, she still would play like she is miss innocent. I called her out, completely, I pretty much told her that she should not play games with me and that I think she is a ho* and slu* for breaking up a home and being so promiscuous. She told me I was childish and "should crawl into a hole and die"....I told her she is worthless and VERY insecure among other things, AND IT FELT SOOOOO GOOOD!!! It felt like I got a monkey off my back, and part of me felt bad that maybe she needs some serious help.

Answer 1

I don't see what you did as being wrong. You had every right to call her out for her skanky behavior.
Kudos 2 you, my friend! :-)

Answer 2

I basically think you did the right thing, though maybe just a tad rough.
It sounds like she has a long history to deal with. Low self-esteem. Probably family violence.
She needs to turn herself around and fast.
Promiscuity is not a good thing... it is life-threatening.
Hanging out with drug dealers is a good way to get shot up in a drive-by.
She needs professional help.
If you are not capable of reaching out and helping her, you need to stay away from her. You don't want to be attracting any more of these trouble magnets.

Answer 3

If you feel good after telling her those things then maybe you're not concerned about her, which is OK. But keep in mind that those things might not be true and you hurt her without a reason. Also, if you are her friend, maybe you should tell her what you think in a nicer way so she will reconsider instead of being mad at you for insulting her.

Answer 4

She'll get help all right from a wife or girlfriend,if she was with my husband i would make her life a living hell,she will run across someone like me sooner or later,god help her when she does. She is to free with her body and it will catch up to her by catching a STD or worse. You can't be foot loose and fancy free not in this day and time it's to dam dangerous. Sometimes we need to hear the truth to wake us up.

Answer 5

Right on! Sometimes people need to hear the truth, even if it hurts. She really needed to hear that anyway, what she was doing was very dangerous! She could get diseases, go to jail, or even get killed! (by an angry mob of wives) lol. Guess what, what you said, wasn't wrong at all, it was the truth, and she needs to listen. She is going down a bad path, and needs help, b4 its too late.

best answer please!
signed right on bro!! ha ha lol!

Answer 6

U have the right to say that to her, but maybe not as strong, but oh well whats said is said right?
well i hope you dont hang out with her anymore
shes not someone u should hang out with.

Answer 7

if you cared so much about the homes she was breaking up instead of insulting her. you should have helped her see what she was doing. you should have been trying to figure out why she gets involved with married mean. but because it was all about you, you had to tell her off. good for you. but your friend is still messing with married men but you feel so good. GodBless.

Answer 8

A. it is her life, and the guy cheating is just as guilty for the crime.

B. as a concerned friend, you have every right to tell her your concern.

i would have done what you did.

Answer 9

Just stay away from her and call it quits while you are ahead. Find another girl worth spending your time with.

Answer 10

u did a good thing by breaking up with her for what she had done and u should be a good friend and help her with her problem