I just found out a friend got killed in a car crash this a.m.
Heading out of W.P.B. Florida.
This friend gave my hsbnd the $
to pick up our dghtr's for their Uncle's funeral.
Now, he's gone too.
On May 13th (mother's day) my brother was shot & killed.
Life is short & precious.
Do u have ur affairs in order?
i.e. what kind of services u want.
ur will, medical directives. Etc.....
I am not being morbid.
Nor fatalistic.
Realistic.
2007-08-19 11:55:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I try to tell my wife everyday.
Story's like yours always remind me of something that happened to a couple I know (knew).
This couple had a screaming argument so the husband walked out and stayed at his parents house.The next morning he when home to try to make things up with his wife but she was still angry and told him to leave and she hoped he would drop dead.
On the way back to his mothers home he was killed in a car accident.
I have not see the wife now for more than seven years but it affected her badly she feels it is her fault he is dead .She use to cry about it years after.
I like the bibles advice in Ephesians 4:26.
2007-08-19 21:58:05 · answer #1 · answered by pestie58 the spider hunter 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 04:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tell my children/grandchildren that I love them every time we talk before saying good bye. I tell my family that I love them too, upon saying our goodbyes. I tell my friends often. You are right, we never know when one of them will no longer be around...... I also have letters I have written to my grandkids, just in case, as they are very young yet and want them to know about how much I love them if something should happen to me. My wishes are all written down as to my medical directives and burial and funeral wishes. No decision making left to my children once I am gone......... as well as who is to get what of my belongings and a list of pertintent info on some of the heirlooms and other more important items.
2007-08-19 12:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by TC 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm bad at telling people I love them . I always feel awkward, I was in a car crash almost three months ago and I am lucky to be able to reply to this and it does make me want to tell people my feelings but I get it into my head that they will think i am been a wierdo because i have never ever been one to express my feeling like that
maybe i should start
2007-08-19 12:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by rpritchard86 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for all the heartache you've had lately. I tell my children multiple times a day, as well as my husband, especially before they leave the house without me. You never know what might happen. No religious services, and I want to be cremated.
2007-08-19 12:05:31 · answer #5 · answered by RedTan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sister I am so sorry. I understand how you feel, I lost my husband of 35 years, three and half years ago. the only thing that keeps me going is that I will see him again in the Resurrection. just remember they are in Jehovah's memory. I always tell my children that I love them. I even tell the brothers and sisters in the kingdom hall that I love them also. many days I cry to Jehovah and Jesus Christ. they hold me up and keep me strong for my handicapped children.
2007-08-19 13:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by lover of Jehovah and Jesus 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have lost many family and friends also. It makes the ones we have left more precious. We spend too much time with the unimportant day to day, thinking that we can tell people how we feel about them tomorrow. But sometimes we don't have tomorrow.
2007-08-19 12:44:34 · answer #7 · answered by David F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I truly understand, and yes I tell my loved ones every day that I love them. In early April my husband lost his uncle. In late April we lost our daughter. In mid June my husband lost his brother, and today is a year that he lost his sister. Also he lost his mom 2 years and one day exactly from when we lost our daughter. That would be April 26th, 2005 (mother in law) and April 25th, 2007 (our daughter). Some friends of ours also lost their son Feb 1, 2007-which is so weird because that is the date of our daughter's birth (the one who died). You are right...life is precious. I am sorry to hear of your losses sister, but we have hope in the resurrection. love ya!
2007-08-19 15:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by true blu 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes everyday I speak with them, they know by my words and actions. I'm sorry for your lost I also lost my mother, grandmother and aunt in the same year. Jehovah will bless you be strong
2007-08-19 13:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by lydia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry! I told my kitties I love them today...
2007-08-19 12:02:05 · answer #10 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋