I want to totally forget this guy I've been with for the past 5yrs. I tried everything and nothing :-| I guess mentally/emotionally/sexually, I don't want to forget. But he's such a negative aspect in my life (including his stupid friends). So, it's time to forget, but I don't really want to deal with all that pain that I went through the first bajillion times I tried (before). Think psycho-therapy will help? If not, I'll even give in to magik...I'll even find Jesus!!!
2007-08-19 14:35:09 · 11 answers · asked by Luvli Aquarian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The person who invents a pill for this should be given the Nobel Peace Prize. Even Jesus can't help with this stuff, it has to be done on your own. We have all been thru it, me now again and it is hard but somehow we muddle thru and say we'll never do that again...until the next time. Yup, a pill that can target certain memories or events and mask it...it'd b bigger than viagra.
Good luck and GOD bless.
2007-08-19 16:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by junkyarddogfan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my man of 6 years left me 6 weeks ago for a younger coworker i am devastated, sometimes wish i was dead. I went to a psychologist 2 times already, does it help i don't know .
However, the first thing i told him was to erase my memory of 6 years rocky relationship so much pain so much missing .
I am angry and depressed . My guy and his new girl sitting @ home laughing at my pain they as happy as can be and i look old and miserable.
You have to forget this guy let it go negativity will wear you down you can only do this so long, and you should not share this fool with his stupid friends. All the freaking suggestions in the world might not help you
keep your eyes open for a new guy he is there right around the corner he will give you some serious relationship and happiness you deserve it. The sex probably better too give it a try don't stay sad for to long f....and his bodyguards.
good luck
2007-08-19 21:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by maria s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over someone is to find someone else it doesn't mean you have to fall in love with this person it mean he is there to have fun with to take your mind off of your pain .It does work because i have tried it,i was so in love with this guy and he decided he no longer loved me,I was so heart broken i didn't want to do anything but sit by the phone and cry. My friends talked me into going to a night club and when i walk in my eyes went right on a guy i had a crush on when i was 12 years old. I walked up to him and said hi and that was all she wrote it was him and i for the next two weeks.I didn't care about my ex and wasn't thinking of him until he rang my door bell. Come to find out someone had told him that he had been replaced and he didn't like that needless to say he wanted me back and like a fool i took him back. It wasn't the same as before so i told him i don't want to be with him any longer and that was that as they say.
2007-08-19 21:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not seek a therapist with a Christian perspective? This way you'll have the best of both worlds. Unfortunately, you will need to confront this problem, you've been running, doing everything possible to forget but you can't because at some point, he meant something special to you. Seek professional therapy.
2007-08-19 21:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by medinatherapy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hypnotism isnt the answer
look at the big picture and findin Jesus is the key to life-he gives control over our thoughts to claim his blood and rebuke the thought and for now and the future to true love to live each day to know Jesus more=and a drop of advice in frienship turned to true love= first you get married and you dont need a condom and the rest of the things will fit into place instead of disgrace
"In marriage the bed is undefiled, but all the others will be judged." Hebrews 13
and some help from above
true love
spoken from heaven Revelation 1:1 chapter 1 verse 1 & 3:19&20 "I love you and ask you to turn to me from sin, even one past lie. Behold I stand at your heart door and knock, if you ask me in I will com in and be your friend and you mine." Jesus
so I prayed, "Im sorry for my sins, come into my heart and be my friend, thanks for loving me enough to die to forgive me, amen."
Now life is grand
Have a nice day and remember there is a way-prayin for you in that way
2007-08-19 21:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is NO WAY to forget him if not from U. You don't have to seek for therapist, or psycho things. REMEMBER one thing, FORGIVENESS, bring him to Jesus, if you believe in HIM, say you will forgive this guy, it is not EASY, but you have to go through it. Soon you will feel very BLESSED. TRUST IN GOD. LET IT GO. YOU WILL SOON HAVE A NEW HEART FROM HIM. If u have time, go for a retreat, we can consult in YM too if you wish to.
2007-08-19 22:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by anwar.tirta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it works, let me know because I want to forget the last few years of my life.
2007-08-19 21:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by Rick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hypnotism is not the way to deal with this. You need to feel your emotions to heal them; talk to a trained therapist and go from there.
2007-08-19 21:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by BK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus is / has been waiting for you to come to him... Pray and trust Jesus to do the rest... he's performed bigger miracles than this before... just look around you :)
Amen!
2007-08-19 22:12:11 · answer #9 · answered by Sorry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go to church and find Jesus. He can always help i promise
2007-08-19 21:49:57 · answer #10 · answered by eric j 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋