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Question

ok so im going to a concert with a guy as a date. he's rele cute and he's been known to sleep with every girl he's ever gone out with, this is our 4th date and im kinda nervous b/c last time he hinted that he wanted to sleep with me, i like him but i don't love him and i've only had sex a few times before and 1 was a mistake and the rest were with my bf of 3 yrs, now that im single i was being asked out alot but i just wasn't sure, n e way wut do i do? shud i sleep with him or not? and if not how do i tell him no?

Answer 1

u shouldnt sleep wit him caus he sound like dem boys who jus try to f&*k all girls..nd u shouldnt jus b one of the girls he slept with...u should tell him u dnt want to f&*k ne one who ure not in a serious relationship with...u should wait till u get a bf..nd wait till u in a serious relationship with him so u dnt make another mistake...

Answer 2

I think you are jumping the gun a little bit.You make it sound as if you have an obligation, a duty to sleep with this guy just because he may want to sleep with you. Also I am kind of mystified as to why you are going out with a guy who has the reputation you say he has.Do you want to be tainted as one of the girls he slept with; as if you are nothing more than a sexual conquest? I am surprised you even ask if you should sleep with him even as you say your past sexual acts were mistakes and you don't even love him .My suggestion is to go to the concert as planned. If and when he tries to sleep with you, just tell him that you are not that type of girl.Tell him that you just don't sleep around.Unless you are sexually attracted to him, you do not have to go to bed with him. While I know you are now single,and might be missing on intimacy(which is normal) I will advise you to wait until you find a new boyfriend or at least, someone you are sexually attracted to.You deserve a man who wants you for you and not as a sort of notch on his belt.