my sister & i r really close.
we were having a girls day and the subject of guys came up.
she told me about this guy that she hasn't seen in 5 yrs.
she was telling me that not a day goes by that she doesn't think of him & that to this day she still has dreams about them being together.
things start getting interesting when she tells about how she went on Myspace.
she looked up his name & found his profile on myspace.
she found his picture & profile but she couldn't see his profile because it eas set to private.
so she printed out his picture.
she goes on & tells me how everyday for about a week she checked to see if she could see his profile and more of his pictures & how eventually she was able to see his page.
here are the parts that make me think she's going a little nuts.
she saved all of his pictures that are on his page onto a dvd.
& how she pretended to b someone else & sent him a message saying she was a friend of hers & wanted 2 c if he remembered her.
2007-08-19 14:33:23 · 5 answers · asked by L0V3_$T0N3D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Her behavior is not healthy; it's obsessive. Sit her down and tell her that you're worried. And ask her, how long is she going to live like that...thinking about him everyday and spying on his myspace profile..?
Why won't she talk to him? She could just send him a message saying, "Hey, I was thinking about you, and looked you up to see if you were on myspace."
2007-08-19 14:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by Em S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have sisters and I know what you are talking about. I believe your sister obsessed with this guy. You need to tell him what is going on. I know there is code you don't tell on each other. But I can truly tell you that you need to tell her what you think. She needs to really to end this with him, because it sounds like she never really got over him. You have to be strong, because sister do look out for one another.
2007-08-19 21:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by Bird Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he put it on her. She needs to let go but she is not going to by you telling her. She needs to find someone else to occupy her time. Just be there for her and make sure she does not take this thing with him to far.
2007-08-24 14:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by My Three 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she likes him for some reason and she wants to pursue him and mabye it will be fine let her try it could be ok.
2007-08-26 20:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah sounds pretty wierd. she needs to let it go. tell her how abnormal it is what she is doing.
2007-08-19 21:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋