Family & Relationships - 19 August 2007

do you like to suck on it till its all gone , or do you bite it midway and chew it up , i like to suck it till its gone

2007-08-19 20:45:12 · 13 answers · asked by likeminded 3 in Singles & Dating

we text HEAPS.
he's single.
and we talk all the time.
and he texts me in the morning asking me to meet him on the school oval.
and he puts x's at the end of every text
and he tells me he likes someone from my school
except whenever i ask who
he says it's a secret.

does he like me?
i like him.

he said he likes someone from my school
and before he said that if he could go out with anyone from my school it would be me.

but now he has met my other friends.
and if he does like me, is he using me to get over his ex?
because his ex and i are like best friends.

PLEASE HELP.

2007-08-19 20:43:24 · 9 answers · asked by Brittany 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-19 20:43:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we've been friends for a few years and since then, he's always liked me. He was a good friend that never went beyond the lines and never took advantage of me. He took care of me - always paid for me (he WANTED to), remembers almost everything i would say (stories, little details); everytime i did something silly, he would just look at me with this smile and say, "this girl...you are a nerd..." and shake his head smiling. He would never give me direct compliments would say, "yeah you know you look good..." and when other guys would make moves on him, he would say, "i think she deserves better - she's too good from him..."

just this yr, i feel for him deep...there was NO physical contact and just little flirting and i think he was already "falling in love" according to friends. He's the shy type but was very naturaly smooth and was very afffectionate - gave me little kisses on my head. His "songs" on his page were old love songs. Once when he got home late, he txted me to see if was i still up and said, "gnite...i heart you".

when we got closer, he seemed surprised and happy. I was the first girl to like him, kiss, cuddle, hand hold, and all that physical stuff. When i first kissed him on the cheek, he was like a statue and just smiled. After our first kiss together, he randomly texted me later that day and said..."i heart you..." again. He was very affectionate and really showed me how much he adored me.

Could he be in love?

2007-08-19 20:40:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my bestfriend is having her debut/18th birthday 4 days from now and I have to make like a speech about her which will be said during dinner.. what do u suggest i say and how do i start and end it? help pls.!

2007-08-19 20:38:11 · 13 answers · asked by catcat 2 in Friends

I do not want her to feel despised. At times she requested to go shopping with me and have lunch together. She treated me more like her husband than a friend. Any suggestion?

2007-08-19 20:33:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to know if theres still girls out theres who never went out with a guy, never been kissed and likes to watch anime and play games...

2007-08-19 20:32:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-19 20:32:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-19 20:29:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

in the front of my diary, I would like to wirte some thing on it, but I dont know what should I write. So far, I think about:

Diary
Journal of my life
Journal in my life

I dont know the difference between Journal of my life and Journal in my life, They have the same meaning ?
Also, would you give me more beside diary, journal of my life or journal in my life please?
Thanks

2007-08-19 20:27:22 · 6 answers · asked by Bluesea 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well theres this girl that i want to ask out. I just dont want to ask her out at the wrong time. Any ideas?(Girls only?)

2007-08-19 20:19:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We both seem ok with this.I don't believe he is unfaithful.Neither am I.We have just had so many personal problems.I know this is not normal.We are a very happy family that does shares a lot of time together.We kiss and hold hands all the time.

2007-08-19 20:18:07 · 40 answers · asked by Medicsgirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-19 20:17:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had to borrow money from my mother so we could go on this vacation to the beach for a week. I thought it would have been better to stay home, and see if I get some more hours in my job. (I hadn't gotten all the hours I had asked for). Other times during our marriage, when I thought it was better to stay home, he practically fell apart at the thought of not going on his beach vacation. All the time, he is bitching and moaning about the bills, but still wanted vacation. The whole time, he was,"I want to eat lunch here..," "I want to get a sweatshirt." "I want to get a seashell light. etc" Godforbid I suggest we eat fastfood! "That's not my idea of fun." Anyway, now I'm out of money and he will have to pay the essentail bills I had always agreed to pay, or not.

2007-08-19 20:15:13 · 4 answers · asked by so tired 2 in Marriage & Divorce

do girls like when they are bullied by guys in a playful and fun way? Meaning the girl knows that the guy is just bullying her for fun.do girls like it?

2007-08-19 20:08:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i cant get her out of my mind...

2007-08-19 20:02:18 · 6 answers · asked by spontanious 1 in Singles & Dating

My father used to be a drunken, abusive, angry person. and I was too young to remember but my sister wasn't. But my dad went and got help for anger managment, and still drinks but only at like parties and whatnot. And I forgave him and still love him, but my sister still gets upset and wont see him, and wont talk to him. but he has been so good to us ever since he got help about ten years ago. and I don't know what to say to her because we have different opinions about my dad. So please give me some advice.

I'm Thirteen
My sister is sixteen
please only serious answers and don't laugh or make fun please.

2007-08-19 20:00:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I mean if I want to socialize with someone at that age, what do I talk about to start a conversation? I feel like I'd be invading his personal life if I started asking what he likes, and I've pretty much exhausted discussing the two things he does like. What do you talk about without driving that person away from you?

2007-08-19 19:59:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-08-19 19:52:50 · 1 answers · asked by ameesage4u 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently went to a house with my now ex friend and we went to take a nap in a room. He wanted to have sex but I told him that I wasn't in the mood and that I did not want to do it. He'd always been respectful towards me before so I had reason to trust him this time. I asked him to leave so I could strip down and sleep. He returned to the room(I was wearing panties but no bra under the covers) and crawled into bed facing me. To make a long story short, he ended up inside me even though I had explicitly told him that I did not want to have sex with him. I even tried to push him off of me and said 'You know, I didn't say you could put your d*** in me.' He sort of smiled and went about the buisness(I couldn't move him-he outweighs me by almost 100 pounds) I'm just confused as to whether it counts as rape because I was semi- nude. Did I lead him on, and does this count as rape?
*If it was rape, I will not be pressing charges. I don't ever want to see him again-i just want to move on .*

2007-08-19 19:49:43 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Oh my gosh, I feel like kicking him in the nuts! He just asked my bestfriend (Who's basically my sister) Could he watch her take a shower. If your wondering who "he" is It's my cousin.The little pervert.What do I do?He's at my house for another week and my sis is here for another 6 days.

2007-08-19 19:45:21 · 29 answers · asked by QueenOfNoWhereLand ?? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

"My guy and I been together for five years. I never expected him
cheating on me until now. We moved from my home town into Georgia
which is 9
hours from my home town and only an hour from a good friend of his and
four hours from his parents house. My mate always had a problem with
jobs. When he got one he lied to me about having money on his pay day
only to use up my money when I got paid. I got wind to it and became
upset. I said some things on the line of maybe it's best if he left
the home
we shared. Giving what type of person he is, normally, he stand ground
and want to resolve any issue that we have. Not this time. Things were
different. We share a child together and he is very protective over
his child so I believed. But, on this inparticular day he didn't
bother
getting into conversation with me about why I said what I said. He act
as though he was content with leaving. He instructed me to drop him
off
at the bus station. I was aware of him being broke and wasn't to sure
as to how he would get to his destination. He said his goodbye to our
children and told them that he would be back in a couple of weeks. Not
knowing the whole time he took a copy of the house key with him. He
then
proceeded to make way into the bus station without any word to me. I
left. Assured that he would call me later once he cooled down but
never
did. It has been three days now and I haven't heard anything. Giving I
am in a state with no family I couldn't understand why he would do
this
to me and cut off communication when this is not his normal behavior
when we get into a dispute. My question is, is it possible that he is
cheating on me or with another women? I know we have not been to
sexual
giving on my part."

2007-08-19 19:43:04 · 21 answers · asked by Promise 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It has almost been 4 years since I join the army.... I was either in iraq or being oversea somewhere. I have been home once for 14 days... And I hated the feeling of being home. Those 14 day felt like hell. I hated the people around me, and felt angry at myself and I don't know why. I feel depress just thinking of going home. I'd be receving a honorable discharge this winter and be heading home right after. I want to start over... But I feel very uneasy inside. What should I do?

2007-08-19 19:41:19 · 6 answers · asked by JD 2 in Family

2007-08-19 19:36:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I really like this girl thats going to a college thats 3 hours away from the one im going to. I'm not exactly putting my life on hold for her. Im looking at other girls..its just i really lik her, and I was wondering if it would be a good idea to keep talking to her on AIM or facebook, and meet up with her if she comes back to our high school town over the summer

2007-08-19 19:32:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Be honest! Don't make up stuff,ok? lol
Truth and nothing but the truth....

2007-08-19 19:29:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hai, i am looking for a nice hindi love poem, its for a guy. A poem on something like i miss you or a secrect crush something like that..and i also want it to be translate in english so that i can understand the meaning of it. I hope this will be a first start...and i really appriecate if someone out there could help me on this....or is there a website where i can go to?. People pls help me here..

2007-08-19 19:27:26 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 and a half years and love each other a lot. we plan to get married, although not engaged yet.

we live 2 hours away from eachother. its been long distance the last 8 months and will be for another two years. sucks, but no choice. we are both very busy but still do the best we can to make time for each other.

one thing: i have a trust issue with him (from a past situation)

i don't want to give up on our relationship.

2007-08-19 19:25:26 · 10 answers · asked by lilac rain 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really love this guy and I care for him very much. After a couple of years of being out of high school, he has finally made a decision on college. He told me his plans and our relationship continued, we were going to stay together. We didn’t discuss it too much, but whenever we did nothing seemed wrong or out of place. He did however talk with me about our relationship. We had a few things that well needed to be dealt with (some outside factors) and it was time that they were taken care of. And that’s what we did. Its weird, but this guy just doesn’t smile a lot. However the last few times we hung out he was all smiles and he even looked at me a little differently, like I was the best thing ever (which I don’t claim to be).
About two weeks after the last time I saw him I told him we needed to talk a few things out before he left, just to clear anything up or make any plans we needed to. I had tried to talk to him a few other times before that, but he was busy running back and forth to school that I didn’t push it until the end. So that weekend we sat down to talk and out of nowhere he told me it was done. He told me at least 3 different reasons why and none of them really made sense. I knew that he was going to be very busy at school, I knew it and I had thought it all through for months because I knew he wouldn’t. That was one thing I wanted to talk to him about and I wanted to tell him that even if it got tough that I would there for him and that we could just take our time if we needed to. He tried to tell me that he didn’t like me anymore, but I know it’s a lie. In certain parts of our relationship things were finally coming together and were getting closer than ever. All our friends say he still likes me. I’m not saying he doesn’t know how he feels, but it was too quick and I know he is just pushing me away because he has so much going on right now. I tried to talk to him the next day and told him to take time and that he was confused and busy and he told me that no he wasn’t and that was his decision. And the night before he did make it seem very final, with everything that was said.
This was all about a month ago and he actually left for school today. We still want to be friends and are though we have barely talked since. This guy, his future and everything about him is important to me. I don’t want to make his life harder right now, but I don’t want to lose him either. I know I am going to give him, and myself, some space and time, but I also feel as though I should try and discuss things with him again. I know he thinks cutting me out was best and easiest ,and if time is what he needs right now then it is. However (maybe in a month or two) I want to try talk to him again about all of this. I think he needs time to settle down and get into the rhythm of school. I think I also need to relax and think everything out. However when I do try to talk with him I don’t want him to panic and push me away without listening to me either, I was thinking maybe writing him a letter. I think it would be calmer and it wouldn’t seem like there is so much pressure to do anything, except maybe contact me. Do you think that if we do still have feelings for each other, and that if I give him time and space, that he can rethink and come around from his previous decision?

2007-08-19 19:25:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if both have affair or are in love for a year or more.should parents agree,what about its influences.

2007-08-19 19:22:00 · 21 answers · asked by alear 1 in Marriage & Divorce