I do not want her to feel despised. At times she requested to go shopping with me and have lunch together. She treated me more like her husband than a friend. Any suggestion?
2007-08-19 20:33:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you concerned with her feelings and not your wifes? How do you think your wife would feel knowing this? I have a suggestion. Think about losing your wife and your children if you fall prey to this girl. I'm sure she knows you're married. She needs to slow her roll and step off. You need to give her the "I'm not interested" personality. Be smart. You're married and have kids.
2007-08-19 20:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by glittereyedg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feed into any false senses she may have about you two. If you're friends, keep it that way. If you're barely acquaintances, calmly back off of her. The situation has too many opportunities for your marriage and the trust that comes with it to be compromised in some manner. Don't be subtle if this girl is going to cause a problem with you and your relationship.
2007-08-20 03:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by Joshua B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. I was kinda in the same jam you are. Except instead of a wife its a girlfriend. I guess this locks you down a little more. I just told her to realize that i am in a deep relationship. Stay the course bro, you've got a good thing going.
2007-08-20 03:40:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi.
She's 19. your married with a family. your probably full of wisdom than she is, since shes very young.
i believe you know the right thing to do, for her sake and yours as well. im sure your family matters to you, and she needs to know that otherwise she will keep coming back. You have to make a step and tell her you cant keep this going on. she probably comes back since you have not told her so. she has her life ahead, help her to make a better choice. thats what good friends do.
2007-08-20 03:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a suggestion, start remembering you are married and stop using not wanting to hurt her as an excuse for cheating on your wife.
2007-08-20 03:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by ophirhodji 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you want to maintain your marriage? If so, tell the little girl to take a hike and avoid her at all costs.
If you don't mind throwing your marriage away, take her to bed.
2007-08-20 03:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your wife what she thinks. maybe she will give you the freedom you seem to be wanting. hope her new husband is a good father to your children.
2007-08-20 03:43:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about your children and your wife first, then think how f**ck*d up you will feel for cheating on them, that girl is just going to ruin your life, stay away from her
2007-08-20 03:41:13 · answer #8 · answered by ^-^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that it is inappropriate for you to be seeing her. You know what you need to do. Best to avoid her before your problems REALLY begin!! You will get caught sooner or later!!!
2007-08-20 03:39:03 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut her off. You shouldn't be worried about her feelings, and anyways if you hang out with her you only encourage her.
2007-08-20 03:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by grouch2111 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋