I had to borrow money from my mother so we could go on this vacation to the beach for a week. I thought it would have been better to stay home, and see if I get some more hours in my job. (I hadn't gotten all the hours I had asked for). Other times during our marriage, when I thought it was better to stay home, he practically fell apart at the thought of not going on his beach vacation. All the time, he is bitching and moaning about the bills, but still wanted vacation. The whole time, he was,"I want to eat lunch here..," "I want to get a sweatshirt." "I want to get a seashell light. etc" Godforbid I suggest we eat fastfood! "That's not my idea of fun." Anyway, now I'm out of money and he will have to pay the essentail bills I had always agreed to pay, or not.
2007-08-19 20:15:13 · 4 answers · asked by so tired 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it's time you and he have a sit-down and get the priorties straight. Because you had to borrow money to go on vacation, really says something about your financial situation. He's being selfish, is what it is. The bills aren't getting paid, plain and simple, and the necessities whould be put before what you want always. If he won't listen, meet witha financial advisor. And, I would get a separate bank account he isn't aware of while I was at it if I were you, because I'm sure you don't want to go into financial ruin. Best of luck!
2007-08-19 20:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by Awesomeness!!! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He needs to grow up and learn what responsibility is all about. You can not vacation, if you have no moneyu for bills. You will end up without a place to live. Tell him that if he wants to vacations, he will need to get a second job, and put that money away for his vactions. Don't let him bleed your account dry. If you do, he will probably end up leaving you for someone else that has money to spend on him. Just tell him that you do not have it.
2007-08-20 03:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is an azz and no it would not have been a bad thing to say you could not afford the trip. H needs to grow up and take responsibility for taking care of you.
2007-08-20 05:11:29 · answer #3 · answered by amazincajn_99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow are you a sugar mama? sounds like you are raising a bratty kid to me. He doesn't care about the bills he rather other people think you are all living large
2007-08-20 03:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋