I sleeps on both sides o' the bed, you know, an' I like this fellow, an' I think he likes me, an' I want to have a go with him, I do! Now, my gal won't like the idea at all, so I have to keep it all hush-hush, you know, keep me mouth closed an' all---thing is, I'm not sure he goes that way himself, know what I mean?
I asked him outright, I did, an' alls he said was "I like me muffins with raisins and without". What the bloody 'ell does that mean, I ask you? Is it worth riskin' my relationship with my gal for a bit o' man-lovin', or do I run the risk o' losing both friend an' gal????
After all, I'm not at all sure I get his drift, "Muffins with and without raisins"....I don't get it a' all!
Jack is feelin' workin' class tonight, you can tell!
2007-08-19 16:59:39 · 33 answers · asked by Jack B, sinistral 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jack, I told you no. Capital "N," small "o," easy to understand. I know, I know: From the back, I look just like a--
No, Jack. Hell no.
2007-08-19 20:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by writersblock73 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Most women won't leave the man that treats them like crapola because they think that is their worth, they don't deserve better. I'm here to tell you girl that you are and you really have to get rid of this guy. What if he came home and has sex with you and gave you HIV or some other STD? You have to work on your self esteem right now girl or your going to whined up in a world of hurt. Please talk to someone that is not your looser boyfriend, and maybe that person can shine some real sunshine in your life. You treat yourself very poorly so you get what you deserve right? Wrong! By asking right now you are on your way. I really think that your are a queen and deserve to be treated like one. There are so many wonderful men out there looking for a queen ok so start looking for your king and not fart the messenger!!!! Good luck hun and happy holidays. P. S. I really hope you drop kick the butt head right out the door!
2016-05-17 21:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm working class.. thought you already knew!
When a man is talking about adding something spicy like raisins, JackyBoy.. I think you already know he has more on his mind that slapping a bit of hot melted butter in your muffin pot!
As for your wonderfully understanding partner, I full on appreciate the dilemma in which you find yourself. Far too much emphasis is placed on relationships being monogamous. I appreciate that all you want to do is fry muffins every now and again instead of bake them... hell, I've heard some men are known to try to do it on a microwave..... and that's all by reason that you are so Hawt.
You are HAWT, Jack B... and it interests me very much when you discuss baking your noodle metaphorically speaking.
I suppose you need to discuss these emotions openly with someone who is willing to listen and there is nowhere better than a question on Y!A for that.
Very few people are into a bran bread sandwich on the side wedged chock-o-block with ham and pickles but you know... that is, sure as eggs, one way to toast your muffin and satisfy your thirsty dillhole.
2007-08-19 17:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by Icy Gazpacho 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating! Be it with a girl, guy, etc, etc. Be it pysically, emotionally, psychologically, cheating is CHEATING. That's something you must face and accept.
About the temptation... god it's hard! As normal human being, it just gets more and more difficult when it comes to TEMPTATION. U do it, and u know for sure that problems will arise with your gal. U don't do it, you'll regret every second of your life, thinking of how it would have felt like if u have done it. It's really tough man! I understand. Hopefully you'll get out of this mess soon.
Personally, i would follow the heart. I can do many things to please people around me But self fulfilment is more important. Cause i know for sure that i can't lie to myself! If i were you, i'd go for it and be prepared to face the consequences later (good or bad).
2007-08-19 17:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My Jack B. Here's the hard truth according to Katya !
Something important must be missing in your relationship with your girlfriend or you wouldn't be tempted to repeatedly go behind her back with another woman, or another man.
I left my long time boyfriend when I began being attracted to other men. Alot of male friends question the fact that I left him. They think that I should have stayed .... even in a stale relationship (as many of them are in stale relationships themselves). I'm happy with my choice. Life's too short.
I wan't to share things with someone who I truly love ! I don't want to waste my time, nor the other person's time. That's selfish in my opinion.
You're an intelligent man. Ask yourself some honest questions as to why you are feeling this way and make a decision from there. I bet the last time your girlfriend caught you cheating on her "you promised her never again ...!!" and I bet you meant it from all your heart too when you told her that. Don't break your word Jack ! You will lose her trust forever and quite possibly her love forever too ! If you don't love her (as a lover) anymore then I suggest you review your relationship with her.
P.S. Mon cher Jack B : Si je te dis ça, c'est parce que je t'aime bien et que je veux t'aider, bisous, bisous Katya
2007-08-19 23:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by HAPPY HEART 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've not much time for conventional morality, but I reckon anything not open in a relationship betrays that relationship. It is belittling to the one "betrayed", and to the "betrayer" too. I don't think anyone not willing to stand for what they believe (and pay the price) is worth having a relationship with. Ultimately, if others cannot rely on you, you cannot rely on yourself either - and I've observed this insecurity not only rots any relationship, but the unreliable one too. So what you do is up to you Jack - but the way you do it counts, for you even more than others.
2007-08-19 21:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Loud and clear:
He's telling you that he likes his muffins with raisins and without NUTS ..
well fella ... you've got nuts ...
so guess what .... he doesn't swing that way ...
he's a straight guy ...
so now ... why would you want to risk losing your gal over that?
And yes .... cheating is cheating ...
whether with another girl or another man ...
2007-08-19 17:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking that by raisins he means the shriveled little sac underneath yer corndog, chap. With raisins means he swings yer way, without means he may be more interested if you talk your lady friend into joining you. Whats a bran muffin without a little cream cheese?
2007-08-19 17:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is this girlfriend of yours marriage material? Are you interested in keeping her long term? If so, you then have to keep your "man-loving" ways in your fantasies and out of your reality.
raisins=testicles
without raisins= no testicles
Hope that helps ya.
2007-08-19 17:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he likes his muffins with and without raisins, he's not worth it. And as a VT, I know what I'm talking about. Let me introduce you to my friend Bette. :)
2007-08-19 17:06:30 · answer #10 · answered by Hawt Richard loves Peace Yo 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be fair you really should tell her what you want to do so she can decide to stick around after your fling.
But then again you are probably of the character of the people that have aids or herpes and don't disclose for fear you will be turned down.
2007-08-19 17:05:14 · answer #11 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋