We are both married now.But when we met in march we had a brief affair but after that she stopped talking to me and taking my calls etc.She said that we had to put an end to this so she does not want to maintain any contact.But then she came to know that i have been giving missed calls etc. she called and gave her new no.and said she could be contacted there. but when i try to send a msg. i do not get a reply from her.Pls. advise as I really want her in every way.What do i do as i feel she is interested but for the fear that people will get to know of the affair.
2007-08-19 23:19:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave her be to work out her own issues with her husband. If she wants to be with you she will do the right thing and divorce her husband and come to you. She is confused right now and the best thing that you could do is back off and let her find her way. Untill then don't sit around and wait move on in life and meet other people..... something is not right with her relationship in her marriage and if you keep hanging on to her you will only make it easier for her to stay with her husband. If she loves you she will not stay in an unhappy marriage so I would leave her there to face her truth. This way she will know that she made the right choice about her life. Take care and best wishes.
2007-08-20 03:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't chase after this woman, she is obviously using you as a feel good factor. Work at your marriage. Another relationship or affair may sound appealing but really, do you think that things will be any better than your marriage after that initial buzz wears off??? I think not.
2007-08-20 08:22:40 · answer #2 · answered by Mum&wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She loves her husband and she was probably just interested in having risky sex at the time, it was just plain being horny and wanting spice in her life for a brief moment, been there done that
2007-08-20 06:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone and let her have a real relationship. She deserves better than an affair!!!
2007-08-20 06:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋