i asked her out and she said no i have liked her since primary school i feel like a complete looser
2007-08-19 22:44:14 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well stop putting the p*ssy on a pedestal
2007-08-19 22:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Hey you win some you lose some. I give you props for asking though! What if you decided never to give it a try? Would you have regretted that? I know what I'm saying is cliche but bear with me. You are no loser! A loser is someone who never tries. Never risks. You won just having the guts to ask. That makes you a man in my book. : ) It's normal to get rejected. Part of the game. Don't let this experience stop you from asking someone else someday. As for the depression... do things that remind you just how much of a stud you are! Even if it's mindless flirting online. Anything to pick up your mood. A favorite hobby. It's like they say, love is a battlefield.
2007-08-19 22:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by Courtney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a loser. Hearing the word No is going to happen a lot more than you expect. What you are feeling is hurt and disappointment. It's part of life.
Try to remain friends with her anyway if you were friends before. If not, just move on. The next time you approach someone to ask them out make sure you get to know them first.
2007-08-19 23:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so hard on yourself! When I was in high school I rejected a guy because I didn't think him popular enough, even though to me he was cute and I liked him. Later he became popular and I felt like a fool. It could have been anything, something as dumb as that, or she has her sights elsewhere. I know it is hard being rejected, and it's hard not to take it personally. I bet there are plenty of girls who would like to go out with you. It is harder for guys, they have to do the asking. Don't feel bad, don't take it personally :D
2007-08-19 22:50:15 · answer #4 · answered by Kate J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what? Is she the only girl in the world? Move on, your life doesn't stop here :) You don't have to feel like a loser. Her rejection was probably a chance to know another great girl. Continue to check out. On the other hand, don't feel discouraged :) It happens to everyone at a certain time in their lives.
2007-08-19 22:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by yoyo_kiss_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one way or another we would all face this kind of rejection, i have experienced that too, i wrote him a letter i liked him since i was 10 and wrote him when i was 18 and he did not even give me any reply, up to now it still hurts and it really could destroy you, but you know what, so what if she did not like you, so what , the point here is you have tried to tell it, you gave your heart out, though its just really was not the right time, or might not ever be, but now you know she is not the one for you and that she does not deserve the love you are prepared to offer and because of that you are free to love again, to know and to notice others,you have been brave, and i salute you for that, we all must accept the fact that not every person we would love will love us back, love is sacrifice,.
2007-08-19 22:52:14 · answer #6 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be glad! You are a complete moron. You should be happy that she gave you an answer. If you knew he kind of sh*t I've gone through with runarounds, you would appreciate her honesty and know that you can trust her to tell you the truth. Respect her decision. You didn't ask to force her, you gave her a choice and she chose. It's guys like you that give these girls an excuse not to answer simple questions! Move on!
2007-08-19 22:47:53 · answer #7 · answered by Robert B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pick yourself up and straighten up. You gotta be stronger than that man. Not every girl you like is gonna like you. Dust yourself off and try a new one. And don't give up just because they turn you down. You'll eventually find a girl that's interested in you. Just remember how it felt to be rejected and don't act stuck up if the girl that likes you isn't a beauty queen.
2007-08-19 22:50:47 · answer #8 · answered by BOB C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just ask her out and she say no only, right?
She haven't reject u like:"Sorry, i'm no feeling with u, so we cannot be a lover or anythings...", right?
Then is mean u still got a chance!!!
If she already told u that she don't love u, then better stop...
If not, u still can try ur best to make her believe that u really love her so much and u must love her with true heart so then she will accept ur love...
If she still reject u after u try ur best, then, just stop...
At this world still got so many good girls awaiting for ur love, please give urself another chance to love and give another girls a chance to love u...
Good Luck...Hope can hear ur good news soon...
Cheers...
2007-08-19 22:56:12 · answer #9 · answered by WindWalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not the only one. Try asking her out again, seriously. Say that maybe you guys can try it out (I mean no harm trying). If she still rejects you and thinks you're not good enough, then who needs someone like her? Move on and life will move on too. I'm sure one day you'll find someone who appreciates you just as much. Hope that helps (:
2007-08-19 22:53:21 · answer #10 · answered by Natty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How come you waited so long!! This puts you squarely into the sweet but sad category.
I guess your options are either:
Persist and ask her again if you really like her
Find someone else
Get used to it - even if you get a date be prepared she won't say yes to absolutley everything first time!
2007-08-19 22:52:54 · answer #11 · answered by MI5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋