Family & Relationships - 22 August 2007

the hands of your lover when you touch yourself?

2007-08-22 08:43:59 · 6 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Singles & Dating

Why does my boyfriend need to consult with his family before we can get back together eventhough i never did nothing to his family nor offended them in any way and yet my family is kewl with the situation cause they know we really love each other. I dont want to change faith for him and nor does he want to change faith for me but still we are deeply inlove with each other. I think he pretends sometimes that he's moved on with his life, if he has done so, why would he make it his duty to see me or phone me or is he just seeking for attention? We've been together for three years and we were in a long distand relationship and then he changed job so we could be together, then everything went wrong. I never cheated and he never cheated.

2007-08-22 08:42:41 · 1 answers · asked by Leila 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently asked a question on whether I should tell a co-worker I have a crush on her and you all gave good advise, now what?

2007-08-22 08:41:35 · 9 answers · asked by Jesse S 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband wants me to call him dirty in bed while we are having sex. He said its upto me to call him. He told me that he think about dirty words when i give him pleasure or when we have S**. I don't know what to say. He told me to say I love his Big **** but I don't know what else to say . I want to come up with something new. Help me.

2007-08-22 08:40:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-22 08:39:01 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just walkin down the street.?
I always see girls just walkin around that I wana get at but don't kow how to start and break the ice.

I'm a black teenager so plz nobody say stuff like start with the weather or just say hi. I really need to know how to get past that tension.

Also I don't wanna hear U shouldn't get at random girls just anywhere because it happens all the time.

2007-08-22 08:38:42 · 5 answers · asked by Mr.Cooler 2 in Singles & Dating

I should know the answer to this, but unfortunately I do not...so I am relying on you for an answer. My brother and I are throwing a 50th Anniversary party for my parents next year. My brother's in-laws are in failing health and live several states away, so it would not be possible to invite them. However my -in-laws live in the same town with my parents. Should we invite my mother and father-in-law? What is proper on this? It is a "no gift" party, just cake, food and time to chat with family and friends.

2007-08-22 08:37:34 · 19 answers · asked by Mom of 2 5 in Weddings

im single and im deprresed bc i liked the guy but i stoped liking him and im still depressed. and i really need a bf.

2007-08-22 08:36:07 · 35 answers · asked by Stephy12006 2 in Singles & Dating

I've only done it once when I was at newspaper one night..I phoned my mom and asked for persmission and she agreed since we just went over to my friends house for a bit. Now I would like to be able and go out with my friends more often.. How should I ask for persmission to be in the car with friends without an adult?

2007-08-22 08:35:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My parents are very traditional, and always wanted me to finish my graduate degree before I got married. My fiance and I are both 20 years old, in our third year of college. We've already been together 3 years. We plan to marry after we graduate from college in 1 year. How should I tell my parents? His parents approve and are very happy for us, but up to now my parents have refused to even MEET my boyfriend because they know that if they meet him they'll have to discuss marriage... and they just don't think I'm old enough to do that yet. How should I tell them that he is now my fiance, and that he wants to meet them to tell them our plans for marriage?

I just know that my dad will get really mad and refuse to speak to me or something... I know they can't PREVENT us from getting married, but I'd like to have their blessing! My parents live a 4 hour plane ride from us, so we can't really get to them easily or just invite them out to ea

2007-08-22 08:35:04 · 14 answers · asked by reba 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What are some clues to look for when trying to figure if a girl is single or not?
Ladies... any help would be appreciated. How do you know if a girl is single or not before you approach them. Do women give off suttle clues or anything?

2007-08-22 08:34:47 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

doesn't it seem like most girls are doing this now to impress boys rather than because they are doing it for themselves. It kind of grosses me out. If you do it for you - cool - whatever, but when you do it to impress your guy or even worse - some random guy - I think it's nasty...and reeks of low self-esteem.

2007-08-22 08:33:51 · 35 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

my fiance mom is always in our business. she always asking are we have problems, why i like, are my feelings for him the same, why am i with me, she even had the nerve to ask about our sexual life. I am like dang........can we please have some privacy. My fiance and I do not live together. We will both live at home until we get married. When we are at his house they are constantly up under us even his little sister. She is a total drama queen and a b don't want to finish the rest. well she aint one she just act like that. she was cool when i first met her, but i dont know what happen to her. anybody else have some future monster-in-laws

2007-08-22 08:33:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Sorry for asking this more than once but I need more answers!!!
Am I ugly??? or am I just plain??? or am I pretty :]
1-10 scale.

http://cutieloli.deviantart.com/art/Lolz-me-and-my-sister-58940495 (I am on the left)

http://cutieloli.deviantart.com/art/BEAUTIFUL-56138076

2007-08-22 08:30:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys 22 and up ...help!?!?!?
what is comething sweet you would like your girl to text you during the day... just something meaningful and would make you smile ... nothing corney ... we have been dating 3 weeks now

2007-08-22 08:30:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 08:28:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am turning 21 next Friday and my ex husband ( we seperated two weeks ago and we've been together for 6 years not legally married but he's like my husband) asked me to go out and celebrate it with him. The only thing is that i have no clue of where i want to go. I live in Dallas, TX and i have no idea of where a romantic place we could go to also make up and get back together...Help me any ideas of where to go or what i should do instead....Thank you'll i would really appreciate it...

2007-08-22 08:28:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-22 08:27:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thinking back over the past year,i ignored the signs that my wife may be in contact with another man.She asked for a divorce this past April.She said it just wasn't working out. I asked her for the truth and she swore on a bible in front of me there was no one else.Last week i found out she has reconected with a man from 20 years ago.He moved her to his city,rented her a town house for her to live in.Problem is that he is married and has 8 kids.His wife left him around the time i started being suspicious about her behaivior.All the subtle clues she gave me know make sense.I have spoken to this guys wife and she says my wife and her husband had been texting up to ten times a day going back some 10 months.While i was still married.His wife didn't know he was paying all her expenses.I guess i blew the cover on that secret...All i ever asked of my wife was the truth,she couldn't do it.How can she live with herself,does she have no shame or guilt about what she is doing,to me.Makes me sick.

2007-08-22 08:27:08 · 28 answers · asked by Rodger M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How does it affect your relationship with your spouse? I would like to hear some stories...thanks.

2007-08-22 08:25:27 · 13 answers · asked by Wonder Woman 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Towards the begining of last year my boyfriend and i broke up for a week. When we got back together we assured each other that we had not seen anyone during the split. A month ago i found out that he slept with someone during the break and supposedly got her pregnant. He knew for two months that she was pregnant and didnt tell me (my sister found out and had to threaten him to tell me). I forgave him and let him stay. Just found out today she is going to have the baby this week. The circumstances are that my boyfriend and the girl are not 100% positive it is his as she was sleeping with other people. I asked him to have the paternity test the day after the baby is born. He is saying he will do it on his own terms (which means 2 weeks to a month). I am upset about all this as i want this taken care of as soon as possible and was wondering if i had a right to be upset and what would anyone else have done? He keeps telling me that this is not my place to tell him what needs to be done.

2007-08-22 08:25:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my son who was only 14 passed away a year and a half ago in a 4wheeling accident. my daughter, my only other child who is 17 thinks im over protective of her. i think i just have strict rules to help keep her safe and away from harm. i wont let her stay out pass 1030 at night and i always call her cell to check up on her. Im strict on who she stays with because in my opinion some of her friends arent a good influence. i wont let her ride 4 wheelers , dirtbikes or horses bc im scared and it brings back too many memories of my sons death. I wont let her dive after 800 bc people drive worse at night, alot of drunks. am i over protective? anyone know some ways to help?

2007-08-22 08:24:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My stepfather,who we all call catfish for a weird reason,is always drinking and smoking.He comes up when I'm laying on my bed or on the couch,and he sits on my stomach so I can't breathe.He hits me and calls my things.I'm trying to figure out what I should do.After he sits on me he pushes me onto the floor so I hit my head on the table.I told my mom,but she doesn't care and even she does things to me!What should I do?I can't take it any longer.Now,I'm always sick or something! Please help me!!

2007-08-22 08:23:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Should I be careful? I met this guy online in June.We have been dating eachother ever since.Lately he has?
began telling me that he wants me to move to his city. We live only 30 min away from each other.I dont have my own apartment because I have to help my grandmother,she wants me here.He has been looking for apartments in his city for me.The rent is really high where he lives.Why does he want me to just pick up and move there to be with him.The only help that he has offered is to rent a car and help move my belongings from here to there.He said that I am always coming to his place and he doesnt want to come to mine because it is too far.Could he be abusive?
Is this a warning?
Should I be carefull?
Does this mean that he wants to get married?Should I be carefull?
I'm torn. I have been dating this man for about two months now.Lately he has been telling me that he wants me to go to Arizona in November to meet his family,friends,everyone.H... and I live here in California and he wants to move to New York with him next year.He asked me last weekend if I can have children.I'm a little hesitant because he has a really BADDD temper.He got mad at me and punched the wall.We went on an outing to the park. I told him that I needed to go to the bathroom.When I got back from the bathroom he showed me his camera.He had followed me and took pictures of me as I went to the bathroom aal the way until I went inside.I remember stopping to talk to a lady about her dog,he took pictures of that too.Am I jumping to conclusions or should I be careful

2007-08-22 08:18:34 · 24 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My relationship is going to crash if I don't figure this out. Ok, here goes.....
I was married for 8 years to a guy who cheated on me and I never saw it. He went to work on time came home on time and spent all his spare time with me, yet he found time cheat. We didn't socialize ( except with his family) we didn't do anything but work and take care of the kids. Now, I am with a great guy who enjoys socializing, has goals, seems open minded and outgoing, yet I feel I can't trust him. Virtually all his friends are females, and many have been close in more ways than one at one point in time or another in their past. He will call them, talk to them, tell them he misses the sound of their voice, he can't account for his time, he doesn't tell me he has talked to them, or been at their house, or gave them a ride somewhere.... He says he is honest, and wouldn't do it. yet these girls are making passes at him and he just allows or plays along with it. How am I supposed to not be fearful?

2007-08-22 08:17:39 · 12 answers · asked by Linda S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, I have this friend who seems to want to do everything I do. As an example, I play guitar. I've played for a couple months and really enjoy it. It's really the only talent I have and I love it. It's basically my life from now on and I know I want to be a musician. But then, I thought it'd be alright if I taught her the opening to "Smoke On The Water". Easy? Yes. It's only 4 different notes and she picked up, slowly, but she got it. Now, she says she "loves the guitar". She also tells other people that she "plays guitar" although she doesn't own one and only knows the intro to 1 song. It's been 2 months since I taught her and now, shes going out with her father to buy one. I play more than her and it's my life. She plays for leisure and I believe that she only wants ot be popular at school. And, I love rock music and make songs. Weird how she loves that now huh? Is it just me or does she want to steal my spotlight? How can I tell her it bothers me without hurting her feelings?

2007-08-22 08:17:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

claim the words were said out of anger and nothing more?

2007-08-22 08:16:15 · 9 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Singles & Dating

I recently, while putting some clothes away for my girl, found a small bottle of KY and 3 condoms (the ones you get in a three pack)...now we do not use a condom EVER when we have sex (yes, i know, you are saying DUMBASS)...but we don't. ...nonetheless...a little bit of the KY was used...it is in her bottom drawer next to her bed...is this something to be worried about...could they be from a long time ago and just forgot about them?....we have been together for 3 months and i see her everyday (meaning i see her everynight and weekends)...could she be saving them for OTHER sexual activities for us?...or do you think that they could have been for someone else...RECENTLY?...any thoughts...this is killing me...thanks guys!

...PS...she is on birth control...and we do things...orally...

2007-08-22 08:14:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is the engagement ring worn on the third finger of the left hand?

2007-08-22 08:14:09 · 36 answers · asked by guia 2 in Weddings

I recently met this guy, he is 22 and I'm 30. He is a really nice guy, however, he is really young. I went on a date with him yesterday and he seems to be mature and turned out to be a total gentleman! Now I'm kinda weirded out, because I would like to go out with him again...should I continue dating him or should I jsut stop while I'm ahead???

2007-08-22 08:13:33 · 46 answers · asked by Yellow 1 in Singles & Dating