doesn't it seem like most girls are doing this now to impress boys rather than because they are doing it for themselves. It kind of grosses me out. If you do it for you - cool - whatever, but when you do it to impress your guy or even worse - some random guy - I think it's nasty...and reeks of low self-esteem.
2007-08-22 08:33:51 · 35 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Uh, well seeing how I love me some men, I would never go after a girl to get his attention. As far as I'm concerned, If I have to push up on some chick to get his attention, what kind of guy is this? I would rather he would want to be with me and not watch me with someone else. Not only would a girl who does this lack self esteem, but the guy has no respect for women and is all talk and no action. Think about it: the girls are the ones doing all the work while he just kicks back and watches. Bet if the girls wasn't all over each other, he wouldn't even so much as look their way. That's just awful!
2007-08-22 09:18:56 · answer #1 · answered by Honesty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This isn't a question... but I guess I'll give my opinion.
Some girls may be trying to impress guys. And some girls may actually be bisexual.
For me, I think the female body is beautiful, and the idea of exchanging sexual favors with a female is slightly arousing.
However, I am extremely atracted to guys.
So I guess if I was ever in a girl on girl situation with a guy watching, I would proceed for the benifit of my own interests, not because I have low self esteem or because I'm trying to impress someone.
2007-08-22 08:44:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will only attract girls that have been abused and confused and chose that life style or a guy that wants to use one or both of them, it wont bring on true love from a guy with a heart looking for marriage and true love commitment for the future or the now.
help from above about true love =to be thankful and worship the creator-Romans 1 teaches about the disgrace of being unthankful and worshiping a created person instead.
Yet I prayed and got a new start when I let Jesus into my heart
He stated from heaven, I love you and knock on your heart door to come in deliver from sin and be your freind, when you repent,even of one lie, and ask me in." Revelation 1:1 & 3:19&20
in Jesus amazing grace =John 3 repented of my sins, got a new start, when i let Him into my heart to be my best friend and savior, amen.
have a great day and the best to you. and dont attract flies no matter what other claim is the prize.
2007-08-22 08:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree and yes it is low self self esteem and morals and self worth too!!! I just don't get why they feel the need to try to do whatever the pervy guy wants to please him....don't these people know slavery was over hundreds of yrs ago now
2007-08-22 08:42:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than that, I think it's just an indication of how selfish the world has become. If you don't differentiate between men and women for sexual gratification, what's to stop you from experimenting with other animals? I mean, hey...an orgasm is an orgasm, right? Hogs, dogs, frogs...lmao
2007-08-22 08:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually that was the 'fad' for a while and it's slacked off slightly, but yeah...girls claiming to be bi or pawing all over each other at nightclubs has been a LOT more about attracting male attention, than any real desire to be intimate with another female.
2007-08-22 08:37:13 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeah i totally see where your comin from theres a club not far from where i stay with my boyfriend and whenever we go out we always see men asking girls to kiss and they always do it with no problem it is tacky and is disrespectful for those who really are bi sexual or a lesbian i feel like womans or girls standards have loward so much if a guy asked them to jump them off a cliff would they do it ?? if you ask me it just seems cheap and i hope this fad or crase stops sooner rather then later as it just shows what power men have over certain woman and its given the rest of us woman a bad name !!!!!!!!!11
2007-08-22 08:41:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those girls just do that girl on girl action to get attention from guys or to show off!....which is a stupid reason but girls are starting to be nasty and not respecting themselves!
2007-08-22 08:40:30 · answer #8 · answered by In love! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably right. Seems like they think it's cool or something. It does absolutely nothing for me personally. For most, it's probably just a temporary phase of experimentation. It'll pass.
2007-08-22 08:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by SoCalAgency 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man, I think Yahoo should add an opinion center for everyone who wants to speak their mind because I am getting pretty sick of others posting stupid comments about it. If they don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything.
I agree with you.
Totally :]
2007-08-22 08:40:29 · answer #10 · answered by Oops, did I say that? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋