My stepfather,who we all call catfish for a weird reason,is always drinking and smoking.He comes up when I'm laying on my bed or on the couch,and he sits on my stomach so I can't breathe.He hits me and calls my things.I'm trying to figure out what I should do.After he sits on me he pushes me onto the floor so I hit my head on the table.I told my mom,but she doesn't care and even she does things to me!What should I do?I can't take it any longer.Now,I'm always sick or something! Please help me!!
2007-08-22 08:23:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2007-08-22 09:15:08 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow. That is most definetly child-abuse. I am guessing you are still in school, and if I were you, I would report that. Life is supposed to be a happy time, and you should not be living in Hell. So, go to the school counciler. Pray all you can. God is always with you. And, also, if you have other family, you could talk to them about it.
I would not want to be living life like that. You have to get away and stand up for yourself! Even though as hard as it may be! I am really sorry to hear this. But please, I am begging you, report this! People need to know about this. You shouldn't have to live you life being afraid.
Plz report this and pray every night.
Let God be with you.
I will keep you in my prayers.
2007-08-22 10:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by faith.hope.love. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If telling your mom didn't help, you need to tell another adult you trust(a friends parent, a counselor or teacher at school, etc.). You could also call the child abuse hotline, which is confidential, and they will give you the best advice as to how to handle the situation.
http://www.childhelp.org/get_help
That's the site where you can find the number, and get some help. You can't let him to this to you anymore.
Hang in there, it'll get better.
2007-08-22 08:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anna K 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Report him!!! That is very abusive to you. Tell you school counselor, a teacher, minister or the police. That jerk will only get worse until you or someone else in your "family" really gets hurt. See if there's a hotline where you can talk to someone that can get you out of that situation. Do you have any other siblings? As far as that goes...report your mother also. She sounds like she's abiding by what he does.
2007-08-22 09:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by sugar♥barrels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your own mother won't do something about it, you need to take matters else where. That is ABUSE and if you let it continue, more than likely it will get worse. I don't know how old you are, but if you are in school, speak to a teacher or principle. Either that, or call the police yourself. That is a dangerous situation and your mother should be ashamed of herself for allowing someone to treat her child like that.
2007-08-22 08:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by shamrock girl 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Can you move with your real dad if that doesn't work for some reason hit him back! No! Just joking DON'T do that. But talk to people who can help Friends Teachers Neighbors
2007-08-22 08:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Shamrock girl is 100% correct. Get some outside help.
2007-08-22 08:31:16 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Cheeks 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where is your father? is he in the picture? if so tell him.
this guy is an idiot...
otherwise, call children's protective services, or talk to another adult who you know, respect and trust for help and advice... a relative, a neighbor or someone!!
there has to be someone who cares out there.
2007-08-22 08:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should see if a social worker can do something for you. The social services can maybe help you. Good luck!
2007-08-22 08:33:48 · answer #9 · answered by titi22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋