Should I be careful? I met this guy online in June.We have been dating eachother ever since.Lately he has?
began telling me that he wants me to move to his city. We live only 30 min away from each other.I dont have my own apartment because I have to help my grandmother,she wants me here.He has been looking for apartments in his city for me.The rent is really high where he lives.Why does he want me to just pick up and move there to be with him.The only help that he has offered is to rent a car and help move my belongings from here to there.He said that I am always coming to his place and he doesnt want to come to mine because it is too far.Could he be abusive?
Is this a warning?
Should I be carefull?
Does this mean that he wants to get married?Should I be carefull?
I'm torn. I have been dating this man for about two months now.Lately he has been telling me that he wants me to go to Arizona in November to meet his family,friends,everyone.H... and I live here in California and he wants to move to New York with him next year.He asked me last weekend if I can have children.I'm a little hesitant because he has a really BADDD temper.He got mad at me and punched the wall.We went on an outing to the park. I told him that I needed to go to the bathroom.When I got back from the bathroom he showed me his camera.He had followed me and took pictures of me as I went to the bathroom aal the way until I went inside.I remember stopping to talk to a lady about her dog,he took pictures of that too.Am I jumping to conclusions or should I be careful
2007-08-22 08:18:34 · 24 answers · asked by KISS ME♥*´`*•.¸★ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Careful isn't the word. I would run the other way.
He is moving wayyyyyyyyyyyyyy too fast.
Think about this:
How much do you really know about him?
Have you met anyone who knows him., i.e., friends, coworkers, etc?
How long before you replace that wall.
What has he said regarding his feelings.
If you start making all the sacrifices now, be prepared to make them from now on-as long as you are involved with him.
What do you really know about him. I KNOW I ASKED BEFORE BUT..... Strip away your feelings and your desire for a man, etc...... and ask yourself WHAT DO I REALLY KNOW ABOUT THIS MAN
Google him. search your/his local law enforcement agencies and courts, etc for any activity.
Finally, is he more important than your grandmother?
If this man TRULY had your best interest in mind and heart, you wouldn't have to ask these questions.
2007-08-22 08:38:37 · answer #1 · answered by cobratrack79 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer already...
* He shows violent tendancies
* You've been going out for JUST two months. Then he asks you to move...
* He offers very little in the way of help.
* Giving off that whole creepy vibe.(Pictures of you while you walk to the restroom?)
This guy looks clingy, creepy and volatile. Do you *really* feel like you want to make a life altering decision for someone like that? Are standards really that low these days?
2007-08-22 08:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you need to read what you just wrote.
YOU NEED TO RUN AND RUN AWAY FROM HIM FAST!!
He sounds completely crazy and you sound a little off for even considering not only relocating for him but to even be in a relationship with him period is crazy. You don't relocate for anyone that you've only known for a couple months. You are not even in a l relationship and he has already showed you signs of a bad temper. Wow! I have some swamp land for sale!
Let him go sale crazy some where else.
2007-08-22 08:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by honeyb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be carefull RUN, he seems obsesed with your and wants to control you and yes abusive. You just met him in june already rushing to meet family and talking about marriage and kids and taking pictures of you in the bathroom and hit a wall because you both argued and your asking if you should be careful. Girl end this relationship now.
2007-08-22 08:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by beliz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
two words, Global Economy...........Yes Victory is an American Company, so is Harley Davidson......Yet parts on both bikes are manufactured all over the world. Have been for years. Most electrical parts are from Japan, Leather comes from Central and South America, front forks from Japan again. its called Outsourcing. In a nutshell, yes they claim that Victory is a "true American Motorcycle" what they mean to say is truely assembled in america motorcycle.
2016-05-20 00:19:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like you know this isn't a good idea so don't do it.You don't need any reason other than the move doesn't feel right.Sooner or later something better will come along.Never jump for the first opportunity too fast because that could be the wrong move,have patience and stick by your granny,she's worth the wait.
2007-08-22 08:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by punkin 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Chip, listen to yourself. This isn't a question, it's you making up excuses not to go. Now listen to me, please. This guy is bad news and you know it. You mentioned his temper. He doesn't seem to care about your grandmother. He wants you to move. What he wants to do is isolate you from your friends and family and get you onto his turf where he can have control. This guy is a control freak. Trust me Chip, this whole situation reeks of bad news and unhappy endings. Stay where you are and take care of your grandmother. Good luck Chip
2007-08-22 08:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be very careful. If he loved you, traveling to see you would not be a problem.He will be abusive once he has control of you. Stay with your grandmother and help her a little longer and the right person will come into your life.
2007-08-22 08:31:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your gut on this one. He's going to go from punching the wall to punching you. He's going to go from showing you the pictures of you walking to the bathroom to having you followed to make sure you're not talking to anyone....and when he moves you to New York is when the abuse will really start because you won't have family there to run to...
2007-08-22 08:31:16 · answer #9 · answered by LB 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
BE VERY CAREFUL.
This guy sounds like a real whack job.
Punching inanimate objects is a real red flag.
Do not move out from grandma. A half hour is no problem if he is serious.
I think you should give this guy a rest.
2007-08-22 08:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by Flagger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋