I recently, while putting some clothes away for my girl, found a small bottle of KY and 3 condoms (the ones you get in a three pack)...now we do not use a condom EVER when we have sex (yes, i know, you are saying DUMBASS)...but we don't. ...nonetheless...a little bit of the KY was used...it is in her bottom drawer next to her bed...is this something to be worried about...could they be from a long time ago and just forgot about them?....we have been together for 3 months and i see her everyday (meaning i see her everynight and weekends)...could she be saving them for OTHER sexual activities for us?...or do you think that they could have been for someone else...RECENTLY?...any thoughts...this is killing me...thanks guys!
...PS...she is on birth control...and we do things...orally...
2007-08-22 08:14:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, it is sort of suspicious but maybe she used the KY for herself(yes, to masterbate) and then maybe she got the condoms for just in case purposes.
Hope things work out for for you though. :)
ps-- I agree with Alli, if she was trying to hide it from you, I think she would have hidden it better. Why don't you just ask her?(because you said you most often have unprotected sex with her and I dont think its worth risking your health for that)
2007-08-22 08:48:21 · answer #1 · answered by Cilantro 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They just could be her own supply. The majority of the time I sleep with guys I'm dating, my supplies are used. This isn't because they don't have any. Mine are readily available at my house. I stock up so I don't have to worry about not having any, pregnancy or disease. As for the lube, there are many, many reasons to use some....
2007-08-22 16:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet they are either from her past or for something new she wants to try with you. If she was cheating, she would probably hide the stuff better. Perhaps someone gave them to her for some reason. There are lots of possibilities.
2007-08-22 15:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by Alli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to her and tell her what you saw and you want to know what she has them for. i mean if your with her every night and weekends and it seems like she doesnt have time to be with anyone else i guess there shouldnt be anything to worry about but you should still talk to her about it.
2007-08-22 15:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by Adina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUCH, I would assume shes cheating
2007-08-23 19:20:24 · answer #5 · answered by Little big brains 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her, not us!!!!
2007-08-22 15:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by fox mulder 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋