Could you stay in a relationship where your significant other said they no longer loved you, even if they?

Question

claim the words were said out of anger and nothing more?

Answer 1

Listen baby, There isnt no such thing as said in anger. There is a bit of truth in everything a man says. Usually it is easier to say the things we feel when angry. You just have to find out how big that bit is he is thinking. Its really not hard to measure love. Keep your senses alert and watch behavior. You will be able to feel love when you are trying. And you will notice when there is none or very little. The question is what are you willing to settle for? Take care sunshine :)

Answer 2

It has been my experience that people are more apt to tell the truth through anger than to lie. The hurtful things they say when angry are usually the true feelings that conscience has been taken away and is usually the thing that keeps them from saying how they feel. Not always true but if it is not felt why would anyone say things that would intentionally hurt anyone else if they did not mean it. Think about it. If you do not feel it why say it and if you do feel it but cannot say it because of the consequences the anger makes us not care about the consequences and the truth about us comes to the surface. I have never told anyone that I hate them because hate is ugly and I do not hate anyone. I may without conscience be truthful about my love for someone else in the throws of anger with the barriers removed and though it is hurtful it is truthful at the same time. If someone says they love you and in anger say that they do not, which is true and which do you believe. I think that we should hope for the best, prepare for the worst and take what comes. If things are good then we are prepared. If the worst scene scenario happens we are prepared so protection all the way around if we give credence to all that is said regardless of the state of mind to determine the truth of the communication. Any one telling me that they do not love me regardless of their state of mind, once said is there for debate and consideration as fact. The preceeding or aftermath of the circumstances will validate the communication by the actions of the person issuing the information. Two plus two will always be what it is. You can call the answer whatever you wish but if you do the math correctly it is four. Same with people saying thngs they say they do not mean. Two plus two is the evidence of the truth not their rendition of two plus two equals five. Your awareness is better than the bs that people draw for you. Go with what you know and see not what is told to you.

Answer 3

Miss Sunshine,Dear I did and wasted 7 years before we finally divorced ! There was truth behind those words of anger in my case.

Answer 4

When people are angry enough, they can say anything, even strong stuff like, "I hate you". If, when they have calmed down tell you they do love you, then I would take THAT as the true situation. Anger can be very destructive and cause deep wounds.

Answer 5

If he just said it because he was mad then i personally wouldn't make a big deal out of it but i would definitely talk to him and tell him to calm down and really think about what he says before he says it!

Answer 6

Tough question...statements like that come from deep down inside, it could have been brewing in him for a while....I would keep my options open at this point, and see how it plays out.

Answer 7

I don't care if your angry there's no reason to say it
if you truley don't mean it...no one should say that just out of anger so no I couldn't it's totalyl wrong in the first place
good luck =]

Answer 8

No
whether in anger or joke, don't tolerate this behavior,
you deserve better, always tell your self this.
so if he said he meant it,
sorry

Answer 9

The wouond would be very deep & open for quite a while!