My husband wants me to call him dirty in bed while we are having sex. He said its upto me to call him. He told me that he think about dirty words when i give him pleasure or when we have S**. I don't know what to say. He told me to say I love his Big **** but I don't know what else to say . I want to come up with something new. Help me.
2007-08-22 08:40:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WOW! I understand your fear and frustration. My wife wanted me to call her names and slap her and donimate her in bed. Well, I am a nice guy and did not want to hurt or ofend her. So, I told her that I would do it, but she must IMMEDIATELY tell me if I cross a line--any line.
Do a GOOGLE search on "How to talk dirty in bed." There are TONS of articles out there for you!
Good luck, and HAVE FUN!!
2007-08-22 09:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by tempest_twilight2003 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe if u just said stuff about how big ect he is it will keep him happy i bet ur a silent one thats why he is saying stuff like this make a few moans and noises and i am sure the name calling wont bother him anymore its just for his ego ask him to do something he doesnt feel right doing and put the shoe on the other foot as him to call u a pet name during s*x and see how he reacts to it if he wont then he cant say anything about u not wanting to do it hope this hellps dolly :)
2007-08-23 04:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start slowly. Close your eyes and describe how every touch feels, and why something feels particular good. Try to express what you want him to do for you. Eventually you will get more comfortable and things will come more naturally to you. Most importantly if you can't say it with words yet, make plenty of sound and movement to show your really enjoying it. It's just as important to your husband to know he is desired as it is to you. It's good that your husband can tell you what he likes, it's going to be even better when you can tell him what you like.
2007-08-22 09:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell his new spouse!! And why interior the international could you ever think of of having intercourse with him lower back, exceptionally in spite of each and every thing the failings he's announcing to you. you say it makes you experience uncomfortable and you describe him with disgust. So why could you even supply it a 2nd theory? Have a splash satisfaction in your self. do no longer enable him to trash your ideas. while you're fearful approximately dropping your baby help, then take him to court over the harassment and tell them he could end your help, they'll garnish his verify. upward push up for your self!
2016-11-13 04:33:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess..... you were raised to be a good girl, taught that "sex is bad", right? Oh boy. You need to get yourself to the library and check out the last two years worth of issues of Cosmopolitan magazine. Lock yourself in the bedroom and practice everything it says. It may take a lot of practice to work up your nerve, since you apparently are embarrassed and uncomfortable with it all. Take your time, build up your confidence, then unleash it on your hubby and he won't know what hit him. BIG HUG and best of luck to you!
2007-08-22 09:32:06 · answer #5 · answered by meagain 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
LMBAO at the person who typed all that dirty bedroom talk.... I cannot remember the name, but they know who they are.. that shi* was too funny.
Oh and Marcie, ZING good one too... I cannot believe it either. lol, but its true... hahahahaha. too funny I needed that.
SIGH... honey use ur imagination... Maybe I'm generalizing here but screw it... men love a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets... nothing wrong with that. People who know me, would NEVER guess the things we do in private, hahaha and I like it that way.
2007-08-22 09:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it weren't for fear of another violation notice, i would make several recommendations. I love talking dirty to my hubby and vice versa. it makes things way hotter too. you can email me, and i'd be glad to share some ideas.
sidenote - you could watch some porn or read some adult books/magazines for ideas. you should be able to find all these sources online for free, if you don't wanna go out and purchase them.
2007-08-22 09:04:04 · answer #7 · answered by sammie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like your Husband is wanting you to act like a porn star. Watch some cheesy porn (probably by yourself since your previous posts state that he doesn't like you watching it alone) and you will get the idea of what he is wanting out of you.
I hope this helps.
2007-08-23 00:21:42 · answer #8 · answered by umannjo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe that someone old enough to marry has absolutely no sexual imagination.
You sound like my ex.... we'd of done it in the dark missionary style for the rest of my life if he'd had it his way.
I have no idea what your husband likes..... why don't you?
2007-08-22 08:48:49 · answer #9 · answered by Bentley 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
come on, i'm sure if you let your mind wander a bit you can come up with some interesting things to say to him. tell him how you feel and what you want him to do to you in bed. be very raw, he'll love it and so will you.
2007-08-22 08:50:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋