Family & Relationships - 22 August 2007

2007-08-22 11:15:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay this is going to sound strange, but oh well.

why do i like white trash guys?? i'm not stuck up, but i'm from a good home.. all my brother is the best football player in the county ( we are from the south, you know how football is!) my dad is and mom both are respected. i drive nice cars, have everything going for me. i dated this one "thug" guy he was white and i can't get over him!! i mean he has nothing going for him, he doesn't care.. and hes now dating a girl in 10 th grade when hes 21.. i don't get why i can't get on and grow up, ahhh its getting annoying. i didn't mean any of this is a bad way, can anyone help me? or has any one been here...

2007-08-22 11:13:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should being in a unhappy marriage situation for like about 13yrs, be a good excuse to get out of a marriage relationship?

2007-08-22 11:13:22 · 17 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think if you've made love a lot during dating period, it is more difficult to have a long-lasting happy marriage? Is it true or not.. any personal examples?

2007-08-22 11:10:38 · 20 answers · asked by YucaKacamata 1 in Marriage & Divorce

customer service. The only way you could change pin if you know somone birthday. He know don't want to give her EBT card back to her. He watch their infant son in her apt. yesterday all day while she was making errands. He also like to drink. He was drunk last night. This is none of my business. She want me to tell her want to do & she want to throw hot boiling water on him. I told her don't let him back into your place no more. He want to see his child take him to his place. We both are best friends. I don't want to ignore her. I don't think it anything else she could do to get the food stamps he took from her. She very upset. She only got $75 left until the middle of nxt month. I also told her she seek legal advice. Is there anything else she can do. I did made her calm down. Last night, she want to cause physically harm to him. I told her he not worth it. God will get him.

2007-08-22 11:06:59 · 4 answers · asked by tasha 2 in Singles & Dating

what turns you off about a girl? (in personality)

2007-08-22 11:06:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so its my first year(and first few days) in college and i dont know a single person. anyway i think it may be hard to make friends because unlike highschool everyones seems to be busy no one is just hanging out. anyway what should i do so i dont become a loner.

2007-08-22 11:03:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

OKay, So I want your honest opinion. Do you prefer fake breast [[why]] or natural breast [[why]]. Fake breasts look nice but do you really prefer your woman to have them. Natural breast can sag so would you mind natural breast even if they sagged a little or fake breast!? Thanks! Please tell my why you chose the answers you did.

2007-08-22 11:02:07 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-girlfriend that broke it off with me abut 9 months ago and I have stayed in contact. We have had a few drinks or lunch from time to time but nothing serious. Keep in mind, this girl knows I love her still.
So, last week she calls me at 11:00 pm on a Thursday to see what I am doing and if I want to grab a drink. I tell her she can come over and have a drink if she wants. She does and ends up sleeping over and we have sex.
The next day I find out she is seeing another guy and it was his birthday Thursday and he blew her off. So she obviously wanted to get revenge on him by fooling around with me. She claims to like this guy a lot and tells me she wants to be "just friends" like we have been. (I still want to be more than friends.)
Now the tricky part. Her Birthday is tomorrow, one week later.
Should I call her and wish her a happy birthday? I do love her but she plays with my emotions. any advice?

2007-08-22 11:00:01 · 14 answers · asked by Jeffrey B 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 10:59:32 · 23 answers · asked by Lmy1243 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am seeing an older man (20 years older) who has been seperated from his wife for over a year. We have been intimate several times and he has told me that he wants to see me have sex with another man (a large black man) and he doesn't want to divorse his wife until he knows for sure that i can go ahead with his fantacies. I feel i am just being used. What do you think?

2007-08-22 10:58:28 · 31 answers · asked by love 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She is a stay at home Mom, but she works part time. She struggles with depression from time to time. I just think it's a matter of thinking positive, but she says it's not so simple. She wants to leave me because she feels like she isn't good enough. She won't go to counselling because she says we don't have the money to spend on it. How should I handle this. Is there anything I can say or do to make her feel better?

2007-08-22 10:50:59 · 18 answers · asked by robinslooking 1 in Marriage & Divorce

emmbarressess me in front of my crush ,friends and boys, and gets everything his way WHAT SHOULD I DO???????????????????????????????????/

2007-08-22 10:50:34 · 5 answers · asked by Bam Margera's biggest fan 1 in Family

(I'm 27 and female)

2007-08-22 10:49:52 · 18 answers · asked by fowlersofyork 2 in Friends

If the wife really truely loves her husband and she is a real good woman, raise with good morals, but not too happy in the marriage relationship. Could she cheat on the husband? If possibly yes. How would the cheating process start out, another man making a sexual move on her [the wife] or the wife making a sexual move on the other man?

2007-08-22 10:48:39 · 18 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there a free program or a way that will enable myself to find what my husband has been doing online.

I know he has MSN Messenger and Yahoo Messenger along with MySpace and I have the information to gain access to his acounts but I want to know what he has been doing in the past.

Im here alone now with two children and I want to show proff to my lawyer of what he has done so its not a she said he said issue.

Myself and my children thank everyone who helps us.

2007-08-22 10:42:05 · 19 answers · asked by zaqw12345 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My co-worker is always on myspace. The problem with that is, she is always messaging back and forth with her ex-boyfriends. I know this because she tells me the naughty things they tell her, they invite her to lunch all the time. She is addictied. Her husband is a family friend of mine, and i feel so bad because they just got married. should i tell him?

2007-08-22 10:41:11 · 9 answers · asked by patty b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im in a long distande relationship and hate to say it but we're falling apart. We've been together 4 over a year now & he used to be the sweetest guy ever & always put me on top of everything, did everything he can to make me happy & I do the same, 1 day i jus woke up & everything change, he said he need to change everything in his life cus its going to a wrong track, and he's talking about school & job. We used 2 cut alot to C eachother and now he's struggling in school, and he said he need money so he can start saving. I can understand that & Im happy that he's doing what he need to do but i dont get why he need to change EVERYTHING,he's so hard 2 talk 2 now, he seem so insensitive in everything i say, and seems like if he lose me it wont matter anymore. I thought maybe he want a break but he said he dont want to, that things just need to change but its hard 2 jus accept it cus he aint the same guy I fell in love wit. and it hurts so much, cus he's basically my world. Pls, advice?

2007-08-22 10:39:17 · 5 answers · asked by honeyy 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend (platonic) talks to me about his problems sometimes. Him and his girl have been together for a number of years. He cheats on her often, he is into orgies and all that, but he babysits her kids for her, and they spend time together. I think she may pay his bills too, but I dont know.

Anyway, what does it mean when he says "the single life is better" and he tells us that "he is glad when they argue (they argue A LOT) because that means he can be like "oh, I'm outta here" and go party and spend time with other girls.

He's been my friend since 11th grade (we're college now), so I dont wanna look at him in disgust but dam,

Whats up with that?

2007-08-22 10:38:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I I feel Iam at the last end.Please help.

2007-08-22 10:38:24 · 39 answers · asked by Wonderstar 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-22 10:36:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever done that...made out with someone you just met....

I have in an elevator once....

2007-08-22 10:34:01 · 26 answers · asked by .. 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 10:30:35 · 21 answers · asked by Daniel K 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I planned a baby together. We got pregnant. I am 31 weeks along now. And now he doesnt want it. I dont understand. He doesnt even want to get anything for the baby.

2007-08-22 10:24:33 · 7 answers · asked by ck_crumb 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i kinda asked this question already but that didnt really help make a decision. my ex bff talked alot a bs and said some stuff online about me that i never thought she'd say. i tried to call and talk about it but she denied even when i have proof. If i do let her come to my birthday party i know 100% she'll want attention, im not saying the spotlight should always be on me but it is my birthday. she's done it before i dont think i can trust her but i did already invite her. if i dont let her come i have no idea what to say. shes always so dramatic and mean to everyone, but sometimes she acts all cute;i dont want drama, and i dont think im being immature.

should i let her come?
if not what should i say?

2007-08-22 10:23:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What's a normal sex life while in your early twenties? I'm in a relationship with a guy, and I have no idea what a normal relationship is or a normal/healthy sex life is. I would really like some input. Sometimes I feel like our relationship is crappy and that it lacks (I can't pinput where, but it just isn't that much of a fulfilling relationship to me) somewhere. We seem to connect more sexually then anything. Don't get me wrong though, my boyfriend is extremely nice, respectful, and caring, it's just that I don't think our relationship is going to last long. We have a lot of sex, which is great and all, but I feel like I want more..? Help Please, I'm confused. What should I want? What's a normal relationship at 22yrsold? A lot of the time I feel like I want to get married, not to my current b/f, but I want to settle down soon. And I'm just fighting the urge because I haven't found someone who I TRULY connect with yet. Thanks for any input.

2007-08-22 10:21:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay my boyfriend and I have been together for a year. Todays my birthday and he got me nothing. Not even a card. He said he just couldn't think of anything to get me and that he'll make it up to me later. Should I be mad or am I being petty?

2007-08-22 10:19:09 · 15 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my father just passed away on aug 1.2007,and my son had a dream of him the other day. and my son is 9,and my son could not make this up because he would never in a million years say what my dad said to him. so i actually think my dad spoke to him,that being said he told him something that when my son told us we would believe he told him from the other side,and if he said granpa said to me in a dream he misses us that would be like oh thats nice son but he didnt get that,my dad told him" tommy do you know the pictures of jesus,well he doesnt look like that at all"... i found this very comforting and i was amazing and still heart felt by it,and do you agree that my son could not have made this up and do you believe? if you dont i hope that this may inspire 1 person to believe in jesus and to believe that there is life after death,i have other awesome stories about angels leaving dimes too and it didnt happen until someone told me it and i have over 10 dimes from dad,no pen,nicks,or qua

2007-08-22 10:16:03 · 9 answers · asked by wwe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay my boyfriend and I have been together for a year. Todays my birthday and he got me nothing. Not even a card. He said he just couldn't think of anything to get me and that he'll make it up to me later. Should I be mad or am I being petty?

2007-08-22 10:14:00 · 5 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex broke up with me years ago got with another girl and had a son after that relationship he tried to get back with me I told him we could be friends and see what happens one day while i was out with my gay male friend we ran into him so I introduced them and we went on about our way then I went to see a him a couple months later at a restaurant where my ex and some other people I know work and they all came running to me stateing he was gay I didnt believe them about three weeks after that my gay male friend called me and told me that they were having sex but he was still with his long term boyfriend the one before my ex. I ran into my ex again and I didnt know what to say so I avoided him all together, how am I to feel, was he gay all along?????

2007-08-22 10:10:17 · 19 answers · asked by Liz 2 in Other - Family & Relationships