Im so confused and lost pls help :*(?

Question

Im in a long distande relationship and hate to say it but we're falling apart. We've been together 4 over a year now & he used to be the sweetest guy ever & always put me on top of everything, did everything he can to make me happy & I do the same, 1 day i jus woke up & everything change, he said he need to change everything in his life cus its going to a wrong track, and he's talking about school & job. We used 2 cut alot to C eachother and now he's struggling in school, and he said he need money so he can start saving. I can understand that & Im happy that he's doing what he need to do but i dont get why he need to change EVERYTHING,he's so hard 2 talk 2 now, he seem so insensitive in everything i say, and seems like if he lose me it wont matter anymore. I thought maybe he want a break but he said he dont want to, that things just need to change but its hard 2 jus accept it cus he aint the same guy I fell in love wit. and it hurts so much, cus he's basically my world. Pls, advice?

Answer 1

Hey Kiddo, Lose this guy--this is a nicer way of telling you he is through with you--I believe he is trying to let you down easy. This is the way guys act when a relationship is over --take it as that and move on with your life --Don't cry over spilled milk-Nothing lasts forever! just find a new Love to replace this old love and you will be fine. be careful and don't jump too hard to the next guy because you are hurting-- make sure you give your self time to heal and then find a good person. I feel badly for you--but this happens every minute of every day to someone-- The loser is the one who tries to hang on to a dead relationship. get over it--and find a new Love--remember you can't see through tears to see the next person coming up the lane --so dry those tears and smile and put on your prettiest out fit and be ready to meet him when he comes along --Believe me he will come along! So cheer up and get ready for the next Love in your life--You may go through this many times before the right one gets there.

Answer 2

You broke up with him three times by way of fact he became enjoying a game. Nintendo? Playstation? or with you? Why could you omit somebody who skipped over you or performed video games with you until this variety of abuse or ignore fullfills your could desire to probably think of of your self as a sufferer. So he has been interior the incorrect and you will't pass to him. Does he experience he has wronged you or is he in basic terms meant to wager or be telepathic and know that he's misguided. I do in basic terms no longer know why you're uncertain to whether you need to pass on or no longer yet no longer understanding in case you're enjoying enjoying the sufferer does not help in any determination making technique from me. I form of expertise which you'll be able to get the same help and worrying from sitting in a chair and watching a wall. yet besides the shown fact that I doubt you may exchange him you may take convenience interior the actuality which you would be able to continually exchange the wall by using the two portray or wallpapering it.

Answer 3

Maybe his past behavior, while a great deal of fun for you both, has created consequences that have made life rough for him, and as a result he now realizes the need to be more serious-minded. He doesn't want to lose you or to break ties with you, but he can't continue the reckless "ditching" behavior you two used to engage in. Okay; everyone has to grow up sometime. He still wants to be with you (or he would have told you otherwise), the question now is, do you still want to be with him (as he has to be now)?

Answer 4

well maybe he needs time to think about his future...and what he wants in it and how can he see him-self in the next 5 to 10 yrs...since he is working while going to school and saving money he may be setting up for a rainy day...he may not be able to do both since he is struggling in school...it is hard sometimes to do both and to be in a committed relation-ship...you some-times find your-self saying dam where's my time to just simply chill..you burn your-self out..I'm not saying he's tired of you but maybe he needs to relax for a little while..he may be stressed and frustrated...which is why he may have said it wouldn't matter if he lost you...he just has allot on his mind right now...so the best thing you can do is to just let him sort things out...and say well call me when your feeling better...because I'll be here...just don't pressure him

Answer 5

i know that the right thing for this relationship may be to just end it... u may not want it to come to an end but u have to consider what is best for him. end the relationship for now and wait till things get back on track in ur lives.