I I feel Iam at the last end.Please help.
2007-08-22 10:38:24 · 39 answers · asked by Wonderstar 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no man is worth losing your life for please go to a womens refuge or the police they will help u. i have been in same situation in a foreign country and understand how u must be feeling. get away from him u will then be able to build yourself a new life and find someone who will treat u with love and respect. one question? is it not possible to go backto your home country. u dont mention your nationality i know that in some cultures u would not be able to. if u want any more support pls send me a msg. good luck and please dont do any thing to yourself.
2007-08-22 12:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not stupid to have these feelings. Is he bullying you mentally or physically or both? if it is physical then call the police and get the hell out of there, and take your children if you have any.
If it is mental then you have to be very strong minded and try to get some help from your gp who can refer you to a counselor. There is also the samaritans who have a 24 hour line and can offer help and advice or just a friendly ear.
If you are not happy then maybe you should just get out of the relationship. Surely he is not worth giving your life for . That way he is winning.
Sometimes suicide can seem like the only way out but truly it is not. I'm afraid i'm not a counselor but I have been through exactly what you are describing. I'm on the way out now, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. I hope you can get there.
2007-08-22 10:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen hon, suicide is not the way to go. Your best bet is to get out. If there are kids involved with the marriage get them out too. There are places you can go to get help that will keep you protected. Suicide is the worst possible thing u can do. No, I don't think ur stupid, just thinking the wrong way. Try to get out of the marriage the safest way you can and you can start a life over again without a man. It may be hard at first, but it will save ur life later on. Good luck and remember someone will still love you.
2007-08-22 10:47:41 · answer #3 · answered by Tiff 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are not stupid you are just fed up with his BS. Suicide is never the answer because it just like letting the devil win and we all know that the devil is a liar. It would be best to just move on and if necessary move out or move him out. When he comes home either have his things packed with your divorce papers filed or be gone with a copy of the divorce papers on the toilet seat. If it will make you feel better tear up a few pieces of his belongings just to let him know how frustrated you really are and how you wished that his belongings were him. No woman, I don't care what the situation is, should be made to feel low by their own spouse.
His loss will be someones gain! You go girl!
2007-08-22 10:47:48 · answer #4 · answered by Babbs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be stupid... just leave him. As long as you breathe you can make choices that will improve your life. No one is worth killing yourself over. You have to love yourself enough to move forward. God Bless you and seek out some help in a better place than Yahoo! answers. Go on line and look for some counselling or hot-lines in your area. You can't change yesterday, you might be able to fix today, but you can shape tomorrow into your vessel of hope and freedom. Life is a gift and believing in yourself is a choice. SCREW HIM>
2007-08-22 17:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are foolish to think of leaving the whole world just to escape this one idiot. Use the anger you have pushed inward that is causing you to be depressed and leave. There are safe houses in every city or town in the United States. Find one and make a new life, but don't end the life you were given to live.
2007-08-22 10:44:30 · answer #6 · answered by mafiosu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not stupid, human. But if you are that upset with your situation at home, leave home not the world. There are people and places that can help if you are scared he will follow or hurt you. Just don't give up because of one person. Do you really want people to say she's gone because of her husband. You have so much more to live for than him even if you can't see it right now.
2007-08-22 10:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by wazup_dude2007 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you could go to a womens refuge, (and any children), the smart way to end your life with him is not suicide...its showing him how good your life can be without him, and it can be.
i have a really good friend who was half killed by one of her partners...she is now very happily married and working towards a successful career.
amazing what can happen with the right people around you.
you say you have no family? do you have any friends here?
good luck and stay strong xxx
call 0808 2000 247 domestic violence hotline (can help with translations also if there is a language barrier)
2007-08-22 21:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by charli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now go to a refuge a friend family member the police why give in to that type of behaviour pick yourself up and move forward don't sit there and take it.Imagine this time next year you could have a fab new life move on now
2007-08-22 10:46:01 · answer #9 · answered by RAINBOW 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What became I thinking at my suicide attempt? i attempted, I saved attempting, I continuously fail. I do no longer something good ever and that i need to die because of the fact then human beings would not ought to blame me for doing issues incorrect. no one merits to be around me because of the fact i can't additionally be myself because of the fact i'm condemned for it. easily, each little thing that anybody makes me sense. I felt to blame for making human beings's life undesirable and hence, my very own. no one merits a life for bringing individuals down. in certainty, i became in basic terms a individual. i think, i myself do no longer understand. a feeling which you are the clarification for undesirable issues, which you generally reason them, and which you reason them the place ever is the foremost reason human beings devote suicide. (in basic terms for melancholy-brought on suicidal dispositions, no longer for inner maximum motives jointly with escaping legal punishment or psychotic suicides although this sort of suicide is tremendously exciting)
2016-12-12 09:47:47 · answer #10 · answered by meran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋