My co-worker is always on myspace. The problem with that is, she is always messaging back and forth with her ex-boyfriends. I know this because she tells me the naughty things they tell her, they invite her to lunch all the time. She is addictied. Her husband is a family friend of mine, and i feel so bad because they just got married. should i tell him?
2007-08-22 10:41:11 · 9 answers · asked by patty b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stay out of the domestic issues of other people unless abuse is suspected. Otherwise you will just end up in the middle of a lot of trouble you don't need. Tell your co-worker you don't want to hear about her messages because you don't approve and leave it at that.
2007-08-22 10:50:07 · answer #1 · answered by mafiosu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay out of it, but the next time she goes bragging to you about her chats with ex-boyfriends say this: "how would you feel if your husband did what you are doing right now?" and then leave it at that.
Sometimes one has to put themselves in the other person's shoes. She is getting carried away and feeling flattered and that may lead to the distruction of a perfectly good marriage.
2007-08-22 18:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really isn't your place to tell him, but you should try to encourage your co-worker that it isn't fair to him. If she doesn't quit or you know that she is going to 'lunch' with these other men, then you tell her that if she doesn't confess to her man, then you will tell him. She needs to grow up, she is married!!! and needs to be respectful to her husband
2007-08-22 17:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by girlygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in this type of situation before and trust me keeping your mouth shut about it could hurt him more in the long run than if you were to tell him, but remember it's your choice to make not mine, good luck.
2007-08-22 19:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by miss w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell HER that it makes you uncomfortable to know that she is doing this and that her husband is a friend of YOURS. Ask her to stop talking to you about it or you will be talking to her husband...that is all you can do.
2007-08-22 17:48:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to stay out of there relationship in time he will find out on his own and you wont be the one they can blame for they break up or their argument.
good luck
2007-08-22 17:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Stay out of this. He'll figure it out soon enough and then you can give him a shoulder when he needs one.
2007-08-22 17:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think this co=worker of yours is the absolute coolest. I think YOU SHOULD MIND YOUR OWN BIZWAX cuz it aint your problem. I think you are being a hater and all i can say is drink some HATERADE!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-08-22 17:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by jaja 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
surei would
2007-08-26 16:08:34 · answer #9 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋