okay this is going to sound strange, but oh well.
why do i like white trash guys?? i'm not stuck up, but i'm from a good home.. all my brother is the best football player in the county ( we are from the south, you know how football is!) my dad is and mom both are respected. i drive nice cars, have everything going for me. i dated this one "thug" guy he was white and i can't get over him!! i mean he has nothing going for him, he doesn't care.. and hes now dating a girl in 10 th grade when hes 21.. i don't get why i can't get on and grow up, ahhh its getting annoying. i didn't mean any of this is a bad way, can anyone help me? or has any one been here...
2007-08-22 11:13:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From the time I was 12-13 I was attracted to "bad boys" even though I was always an "A" student. I wanted to marry Sean Penn. Probably because it went against everything my parents wanted. Eventually I grew up and married a reformed one. He is now a counselor and can really empathize with his clients.
2007-08-22 11:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by Teresa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there. I dated this guy who I guess he thought if he'd do a full days work, he might burst into flames. I'm not with him anymore and I'm married to a man who has a job and he's been with it for about five years now. Okay, on with your question. I think you might be attracted to men from the wrong side of the tracks. Maybe good guys with stability in their lives are boring. Some women want adventure. Stop looking for the right guy and let him find you. Observe, it's okay to be picky.
2007-08-22 18:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by youngpoet_33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Bad boys" are very desirable because they are different from what we are used to. Out of the norm if you will. It may be that touch of rebellion that you are using to usurp your parents authority, while otherwise being the "perfect" daughter.
There is something very romantic about the bad boy image. Hollywood perpetuates it all the time; that too may be clouding your judgement.
Just be very careful. Many of the bad boys truly are. Don't put yourself in an unnecessarily dangerous position just because the guy is "cute". Take care of you and try to shift your focus to another great guy without a rap sheet! Hugs! Nana
2007-08-22 18:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes 21 dating a 10 th grader isnt that illegial?
anyways if he doesnt feel the same about u ur just too good for him. & and if u cant get over him and u dont want to just make him fall for you, or if u want to get over him but u cant just go look for some better people, u dont wanna get into his realtionship, if he cared he wouldnt be dating some other girl
so just forget about him
hope i helped = ]
2007-08-22 18:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by kristen. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you don't think you're worth a good and decent guy. Or it could be you need to mature a little. The trashy bad boy thing gets old and stressful after a while.
2007-08-22 18:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by furious but whatever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in similar situation my first love (I thought was great but my parents thought differently). He was changing me I was skinny and pretty and he made me wear baggy clothes and cover up - we went to America and I wasnt allowed in pool as my brother mate was there. Bit of control freak but me blind in love didnt see this. Mam went on and on and in the end i finished it with him. Hardest thing i ever did cos i loved him - but now I'm engaged and getting my first house keys in 2 weeks getting married in 2years and hopefully kids. Best thing i ever did getting rid.
Forget him - party with your friends - take up a hobby - move on! Dont wallow in past will only get harder. Cut all ties from him.
Take care - keep your chin up and you are better off without him.
**HUGS**
2007-08-22 18:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by samw1984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww dont worry hun! Its just that age.. U like those type of guys.. theres noting weird.... I love bad guys.. And i cant get over one dude... But he has a terrible past.. he was kicked loads of time from high school, got arrested, had problems with drugs he even did t he cut once.... But i dont know why but it only turns me on lol and im getting more and more in love with him! xD Good luck :)
2007-08-22 18:22:22 · answer #7 · answered by Nina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welp its cos u like the abuse. u like us husky manly white dudes. listen i treat most, not all, but most women bad and u know what they alwaaaaays come back a knockin. its all in the sex and we know how to do it like no other. hair pullin and butt slappin im talkin the works. then when its over most girls want to talk and i cannot stand that. now if u wanted to play some xbox360 then ok
2007-08-22 18:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ive been in the same boat its just that we seem to like bad boys. someting thats not the same as us were attracted to. its also a form of rebellion to everything we have and are told agaisnt bad boys or lower class ppl then us is what were told. to me it dont matter if your rich or poor god created us all equal.
2007-08-22 18:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by renae2007_1986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are on your way, our heart sometimes doesn't listen to our brain. But this is a slow process but you will get over it. Stay positive
2007-08-22 18:21:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋