like i always hear people saying "oh one day u'll find the perfect match" but sadly enough i dont see that happening to so many people...people go out with so many guys/girls and then eventually get married to their so called soul mate and it all ends in nasty divorce...so in that case does anybody have the same doubts on trust as i do...like myy friends and i always tell each other we probably wont ever get married because u can just never trust anybody enough and its always so hard to naturally meet someone without using dating services or the iternet...
2007-08-22 04:00:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The trick is.... you dont sit around waiting for Mr.Right to come along.... you have to sort of work for it too. Its not that someday youll magically meet the perfect guy and youll live happily ever after. You sort of have to create your own fairy tale. No person or relationship is perfect... but you can be in love and have a good happy and healthy relationship, in the name of destiny.
and fricken A... dont use dating services or the internet. Just step outside your front door. its that simple
2007-08-22 04:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think what happens is that people give up on relationships too quickly..they don't want to work on it and doesn't understand how hard it is to keep one going. Both girls and guys need to put more effort into it instead of taking the easy way out. I believe that there is a perfect somone for each and every person. It is part of love and life to have bumps along the way. Life isn't easy what makes you think finding love and the right person is..With every failed relationship you will get a better understanding of who you are and what you want in a mate..sometimes the qualities you look for now might now be what you are looking for in the next couple of year or the order of importance ( qualities) might also change
2007-08-22 04:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by skhem82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that God makes a 'somebody' out there for everybody! But you just have to wait until the time is right. Like my Uncle was 35 when he got married. He figured his life was over but then the right girl came along and he now has a 2 year old boy who is extremely smart and is working on his sign language! And his wife is 5 months pregnant! Trust me there is plenty of fish in the sea!
2007-08-22 04:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by The LOVE doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's why those dating services and internet dating sites are there. It's to make people happy by finding their siginificant other. Yes, there is someone that matchs you, and normally the significant other you're looking for is really really similar to you. A lot of people who are in love have completely different personalities but look quite alike. Try finding someone who looks a little like you. You might find the right person.
2007-08-22 04:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by Samson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meeting your soul mate is extremely difficult. Marrying someone that you love is much easier. Will you meet the right person to marry, or even your soul mate? That's God's decision. In the meantime, lay back and relax. If it is meant to happen it will.
2007-08-22 04:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"You find them when you stop looking". That's the saying I hate the most! That's almost like saying, if you really want a job, just stop looking for one!
No, I have given up that there is someone out there for me. Only mean, insane, b*tchy women get the guys. Nice ones get nothing but CATS.
2007-08-22 04:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sassie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will be unfair of God if He awards jannah to all pious besides as who committed some sins devoid of having to serve their punishment first until eventually now turning out to be a member of all pious Muslims in jannah. Allah has additionally made particularly some levels of Jannahs. as an occasion point A would be superb of thinking approximately maximum pious believers and point Z in Jannah may be the least suitable for people who committed super sins yet served punishment of their sins and ultimately have been presented lowest point of Jannah the place they have lesser centers of existence in assessment to the centers in point A. They gained ultimately Jannah by using fact they believed in one and in basic terms Allah - God All good and did no longer have self assurance nor worshiped everyone else like a man made idol like Hindus worship the idols of their mythological gods quite of believing and worshiping the only and in basic terms authentic God who created anybody.
2016-10-03 01:39:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm told to have patience, and someone will come along. As of today, nobody has come along. Sometimes I do think I will never get married... But what happens, happens.
I use the internet sometimes, like dating sites... But then I feel like I'm acting too desperate.
I don't know what to do sometimes...
2007-08-22 04:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get to no somone for a longtime before u get married because u will no how long they stayed with u and if u can reilze that then u can trust them. just keep looking
2007-08-22 04:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by help!!!32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if ur destined to be with sum1 an you mess with the Plan and get married to sum1 else ull either not have a happy marriedge or divorce sumday
2007-08-22 04:08:24 · answer #10 · answered by pistoluser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋