we live together and do things in common for 9 years and not married yet with 2 girls children 5 years and 1 year 5 months now he asking bfor another baby.
2007-08-22 04:55:48 · 25 answers · asked by Saybah W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
tell him to go f*** himself
2007-08-22 04:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Type O' 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Now wait a minute, you are telling us you have been "shacking up" with some guy, you have two children, but you didn't bother to get married or legitimate the children, so it's obvious, that morals aren't a big deal for you, so why do you care if this single unmarried man is "seeing"
someone, and how do you know he's the father?
And who is he asking for another baby, you or the new girl, or BOTH?
2007-08-22 05:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope for the best and prepare for the worst is a good line of advice any time.
First, you should find out your children's rights regarding support should he suddenly leave. Make sure you have HIS social security #, place of work, family contacts, etc. which will make it more difficult for him to disappear on you.
Any joint accounts you share? I would take out the money and close them. Close credit card accounts, too, so he can't run up balances and ruin your credit. Pay any outstanding bills you can and get the household bills in your name alone.
If you aren't legally married, you have fewer liabilities but you also have fewer rights. Be careful before confronting him with his cheating.
2007-08-22 05:05:38 · answer #3 · answered by Tseruyah 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You obviously have no sense of personal value so why would you change now? Stop and think for a minute, what exactly has this low life done positive in your life that would allow you to keep thinking its all about him. Do the right think for your children and get a backbone and tell him to get out of your life and then get a lawyer to get support for your children.
2007-08-22 05:14:12 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's seeing someone else and asking for another baby? I wouldn't get pregnant if I were you. You need to work on the relationship and see what's going on...
2007-08-22 05:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by Proud Mommy of 3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit having kids with this loser! Get some self-esteem and move on! If he has not married you by now it's because he doesn't want to,and he seeing somebody else? Do you need a house to fall on you to see this?
2007-08-22 05:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by dog8it 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's asking for another baby but he's seeing someone else? Don't do it. Can you afford to take care of these two girls on your own? You are going to find yourself that way soon.
2007-08-22 05:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by rcButterfly 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why are u there if hes seeing someone else? is that how u want ur children raised? they pick up on everything, they know ur having trouble with this and are stressed. they will think its ok for others to treat them this way. get out and deffinately dont have more kids with this guy. goodluck.
2007-08-22 05:00:38 · answer #8 · answered by deedee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
,find u someone else! let him do his thing, you to have to be friends and communicate for the sake of the kids but that would be all i would do. He must have a boom *** job to keep having all those kids and, if so get his a ss for child support today before the other ones get it all.
2007-08-22 09:55:13 · answer #9 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You picked him and chose to have two kids out of wedlock. So now, you've got to get him out of the house, and then go to a lawyer and apply for child support. He's decided to mess around, and he's irresponsible.
2007-08-22 05:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's cheating on you, the smart thing to do is break up. He still has every right to see his children but I think the relationship is pretty much over.
2007-08-22 04:59:14 · answer #11 · answered by BAnne 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋