There is this guy who i've known for 2 years. He and i became best friends. After a while he started to like me and he then told me. I sort of like him. I like his personality a lot and hes truly is a wonderful guy. It's just in the past month and a half he has had two girlfriends. two girlfriends in less than 2 months is a lot. the things he tells me he hasn't told his other girl friends like you are beautiful, time stops beacuse of you and so on. during both of those relationships he has liked me.
He broke up with his second one last weeks and keeps on flirting with me. He and i click well. Yesterday we went out for lunch and he bought me roses. then last night he and i talked about his fantasies with me.
I overall sort of like him. there are just a few things i don't like about him. i really don't. and suggestions on what to decide?
2007-08-22 05:45:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he told me that being in a relationship with me is a real one. not bs as his other ones. meaning the two other relationships he has had are all sexual and barely social.
2007-08-22 05:54:39 · update #1
You're already in a romantic relationship with him. Maybe you don't kiss and stuff like that but the romance is already there. A girl and a guy don't hang out a lot on a one on one basis and NOT start to feel something. One of the reasons his other stuff hasn't worked out may be that he's spending a lot of his romantic energy on you.
The way I see it you have three choices here. Either validate your relationship and make it complete, stop seeing him, or continue to confuse yourself as "friends".
The sex he was getting from those other two relationships was probably meant for you. Trust me. I've been here. He thinks he's cool being just friends with you but he's really sexually frustrated. He may even have the goddess/whore syndrome going on. You are the perfect, sex-less goddess. Those other women are the cheap whores he gets sex from.
2007-08-22 05:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by LG 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Play it safe for a little while at least. He has gone through two girls. Make it clear to him what kind of relationship you are looking for and go from there. If he makes the effort after he knows what you want then go for it.
2007-08-22 12:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by mrspres01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you know the answer to this question, and you've basically already answered it yourself. You're flattered by his attentions, and you like him somewhat - but you obviously don't trust him or feel his attentions can be taken seriously.
Go with your instincts - date him casually if you enjoy spending time with him, but make it clear to him and yourself that you don't want/expect/foresee an actual "relationship" here.
2007-08-22 12:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably don't want to be with someone with a record like his. 2 gfs in 2 months? he sounds like a player who doesn't really like you at all. Sounds more like he likes the fact that you're a woman.
2007-08-22 12:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by Darcy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you and him would be a perfect couple. You both like each-other. And know about everything about each other. I wish that i could even find a guy like that. He is madly in love with you. Hope i helped!
2007-08-22 12:49:56 · answer #5 · answered by gurly_gurl230 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that if you really liked him you would already be with him. If you have all these doubts then you are just attracted to the thought of him and to the things he says to you.
2007-08-22 12:49:49 · answer #6 · answered by patil666 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well....if youo are unsure of yourself if you like him as a close friend or a bf, then you need to wait and figure it out. If you and him do begin dating and it doesn't turn out well....then you have a lost a close friend.
2007-08-22 12:49:36 · answer #7 · answered by grobecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe if you give him a chance he will not be going out with other girls. If he feels that you are never going to give in to his charms and go out with him romantically then he can date other girls.
Give him a chance see where it goes.
2007-08-22 12:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by umannjo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He isn't straight foward in his mind you are the third girlfriend
2007-08-22 12:52:18 · answer #9 · answered by anne k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it dont feel right, dont do it. What may feel good at the time may not be what is right.
2007-08-22 12:49:49 · answer #10 · answered by Dabidu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋