I met this guy camping (im20, hes21).There was this very strong mutual chemistry when we met,and we became inseperable all weekend.We would just sit there and talk for hours.The problem is that we live in different provinces and its a hour plane ride to see each other.He has called me everynight since we met and talk for hours still.I really think this could turn into something really great. He told me last night that he is willing to do whatever it takes to make it work between us, and then brought up the idea of him transferring to the school close to me.He has to decide by October. I am going to see him in 2 weeks, and hes coming to see me 3 weeks after that. But the distance thing hurts alot.He told me that he doesnt want me to think that hes not thinking about moving and that he is alot, its just a big decision, that unfortunately has to be made fairly quickly. I am not pressuring him. He just kept saying hes going to make this work. What do u think?do u think he'll end up moving?
2007-08-22 05:49:04 · 4 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He sounds very committed to making the relationship work. I think you should just let him know that it would make you happy if you guys could live closer, but you aren't pressuring him to do anything. Keep in mind, what if he transfers, but then you guys don't work out (things happen you know)? Would he be prepared to deal with that? I think the best thing you can do is talk to him on all aspects of the situation. If things are going good by October, sounds like he is going to be moving :) Good luck!
2007-08-22 06:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by likeAdove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 and 21 and have known each other for 3 to 4 weeks..of course the chemistry is strong..passion is there...dangerous combination....lets see just you dont end up flying or driving to him over the weekend for a long talk..let him make the moves...remember in the long run you stand to lose more physically and emotionally if things went wrong....hang in there..keep the doors of communicaton open..see how u feel about him after 6 months or a year..take it from there..good luck
2007-08-22 13:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by standandwork 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is his call sweetheart...all you can do is wait and see what he is going to do...he has a lot to think about because he doesn't want to make the wrong move either...not saying anything negative about you but sometimes people are not what they seem, you feel me? You have some thinking to do too...Peace.
2007-08-22 12:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by Natty-Boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know but hes thnking about it maybe if you two stayed abpart it would be best for both of you you could finish school and then when you are graduated can continue on. i know its great when you find the right one but the right one won't leave that is how it works. if they leave then you are better off to know instead of divorce or something dealdly like that.
2007-08-26 00:16:51 · answer #4 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋