Sex question?

Question

Men well, most men like/love sex because they are pretty much guaranteed an orgasm 100% of the time, in most cases in less than 10 minutes!!

Do you think women would like it as much as men if they too were guaranteed an orgasm 100% of the time and within 10 minutes? Or is it still emotional based like they always say?

Answer 1

I think I would like it more if there was a guarantee!!

Answer 2

I am guaranteed an orgasm, in fact I'm guaranteed as many as I wish! I happen to love sex. I think you make the mistake of not thinking that all sex is somehow emotionally based. Men are not as simple as women like to think. Men have emotional connections too. I think the difference with men is the biological drive to impregnate as many times as possible. It's something that we just can't understand. This drive is always present but with maturity, most men are able to get it under control. This drive is linked to visual stimulation which is why so many men enjoy porn. It doesn't mean that they don't have emotion based sex. It means that they have an innate need to pro-create. It's simple science.

Women need to know how their own bodies work. It's not the mans full responsibility to get you to orgasm. It's your responsibility to know what gets you there and then show him!

Answer 3

I havent met a woman yet that, when she's in the mood, she doesn't have an orgasm in 10 min. Sure it's all emotionally triggered. And it's the same for men. Men and women are not on the same wave length at the same time and each has their own exciters. Getting in sinc is the hard part. Having one partner give a lackluster performance ( or even the impression of one ) is enough to dampen the others enthusiasm. One falling asleep would do it.

Answer 4

You mean you don't? Sometimes I don't think its fair cause my wife can 2-3 times in the first minute and each one gets bigger and stronger! Then when I'm done I have to wait 10-20 Minutes before I can reload. and when we go all night long, I might get 3 or 4 tops and she can tick them off like the small hand on a clock on the wall as long as I'm going... I DO think women like/love it as much as men, if there getting it right.... And as for your 10 minute thing, I can't remember the last quicky I've ever had, or wanted for that matter. Watching her real over and over again is as much fun as finishing for me... Maybe you need to connect more with the person your having sex with, not on a physical level, but more emotionally and spiritually and keep working on making it right for the both of you? Good luck! Hope you find your sleep number... And not the bed!

Answer 5

My wife loves it because she actually does have orgasms 100% of the time, every time. Her orgasm is first and foremost, thus I make sure she enjoys a huge one at the end, plus multiple (at least 3-5) mini O's before I have my one and only. If your not having a mind-blowing orgasm every time, your getting short changed in bed, especially if he always has one and you lay there wondering "where the h*ll is mine?" The only problem we have is making time to have fun with the kids, house, work and miscellaneous chores. Sometimes we play for hours at night, or 10-15 minutes in the afternoon. Eitherway, I make sure she is always satisfied.

Answer 6

Darlin, to a certain extant you have to take responsibility for your own satisfaction. Ladies that do get a near 100 percent return on investment.

In a relationship you guide each other and if actually in tune can even get a high rate of simultaneous orgasm. Seriously.

Old Guy

Answer 7

I think women can have the same guarantee if the man is willing to do what is needed for her to achieve orgasm. Some women need extra stimulation either with a vibrator or other means during sex in order to "get there" sooner or even at all.

A man who is unwilling to help a woman, is only making it worse for himself. Once she finds out what works for her, he will be glad he took the time!!

Answer 8

First, rest assured that even the greatest stud in the world doesn't achieve orgasm 100% of the time (everyone can have an off day!).

Women CAN be guaranteed an orgasm nearly 100% of the time...its called DIRECT CLITORAL STIMULATION. If women learned how to please themselves during sex AND men learned how not to be selfish and please their partners, women WOULD have as much fun as men!!!

Answer 9

10 minutes!!!! Wow!!! that's be nice...my X could last more than 60 seconds. Whew! glad that's over.

You also have to take into consideration hormones and their affects. Since I've had my daughter I still haven't been as sexual as I once was. I used to be insatiable. I also had high testosterone levels for a woman in my age group. Now that my hormones have leveled out, I only feel that sexual about two weeks out of the month.

UH, poopstain, is it...a little advice...if your wife wasn't FAKING the orgasm and having real ones she wouldn't be hating it!

Answer 10

10 minutes? 10 minutes? Try 45.

My husband and I were together more than 20 years before the sex became a 10 affair.

It takes more time than that to get a woman reved up!

I would not continue to date a man who only lasts for ten minutes. In 20 years it will be 30 seconds!

Answer 11

Frankly, I believe it depends on the person. Although sex is emotional for me, I enjoy it even if I do not have an orgasm. Sex can also be emotional for men. Don't believe all the stereotypes you hear.