I'm a woman, and I never do this, but why do some women like to discuss their sex lives with other women?

Answer 1

I don't either its a private subject but some woman enjoy sharing. If you are in a situation where they are talking about things that make you uncomfortable and they are your friends you should be able to let them know that sex is not a comfortable subject.

Answer 2

Women are a lot more open to intimate discussion than men. Check out the TV show, 'The view'. Most times, for men it's garbage. The odd times it's interesting.

Answer 3

It's a good thing you don't. Sharing personal laundry ONLY causes mistrust in a relationship.

Of course, that is also the answer to your question. In a stat rating system, you will find the majority of women who "discuss" their personal bedroom with other people other than their own spouse, are also the same majority that sneak, lie, conduct themselves in ways to break trust, and overall have closer and better relationships with friends and family then with partner.

Keep up the good work, and be a light in a dark subject matter. Kudos to you and feel good that you are protecting the most valuable thing in your life; your relationship with your partner.

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Answer 4

Because its a girl thing. Me and my best friend share our details good or bad and then laugh about it. And sometimes it is good to know if someone else may have the same experiences like you did. Like for instance some women never had a orgasm and don't know what it feels like a man and a women's point of view is different that is why you have to speak with a female friend rather than your boyfriend. Nothing is wrong with that but it is confedential so obviously you will not share your thoughts with any and every one.

Answer 5

Knowledge is power; and you acquire knowledge by learning. Different approaches to different things to who knows what; you can't live in a bubble and develop. I collect old military rifles and each item adds more information to my knowledge base; several thousand years ago I would probably have collected spears and swords; a thousand years in the future I would probably collect particle ray guns or who knows what. Talking about sex and who does what to who would be a subject of interest in any of those time periods; a wheel that never has to be reinvented yet is turning all the time.

Answer 6

For the same reasons we like to discuss everything else! Women like to share things and connect with each other.

Answer 7

some do, some don't. Nothing wrong with either. But I'm kind of with Rooney on this one. Its called camaraderie, its nice to know you aren't the only one, or to share tips and experiences. But if you are uncomfortable with it say so nicely without judgment and change the subject. If these are your friends, then you may want to find new friends. If these are co-workers then its really not an appropriate work topic anyway, but remove yourself and always keep it professional. If these are strangers ignore them and move on.

Answer 8

I think women actually talk about sex more than men. For women, it's not just about discussing sexual gratification. The quality of your sex life is a key to the health of your relationship, and you know we women like to analyze our relationships. :)

Answer 9

I think some of those women exaggerate to make themselves look good or like to put down their mate for some reason. When in actuality, their best sex probably sits in a drawer and requires to AA's!

Answer 10

Shared experience and techniques are all about getting better or solving problems. Plus I suspect it can get them in the mood. You ladies are fantasy driven as opposed to us guys being almost purely visual.

I would limit such conversations to good friends and outside the workplace.

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