Hi frds i know dis guy for a month ,he is single living all alone in same city like me.We use to chat a lot at specific time,everyday and exchanged texts and ph calss and meet in person as well.He was so much ineterseted in me and ask me few times to go out.He knew that i m not ready for sex but he was fine with dat and said wouldn't ask u for anything till i m ready.He was supposed to go for 5days business trip since he come back we didn't chat,he came online coz i ask him and replied my text but said he is very busy.I send him text and said y ur ignoring me like dis?He didn't say anything ,i send another one,didn't say again,i send 3rd one then he said CHILL BABY nothing like dat just been crazly busy?
Now wat does dis mean?it makes me feel he is ignoring but y?He was really interested before.
2007-08-22 02:10:51 · 9 answers · asked by mandy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But guys i didn't say "no"to sex just asked him for some time to be comfortable with him.
2007-08-22 02:31:58 · update #1
My boyfriend has not talk to me in 4 days... just give him space. He is probably busy. He might come around, he might not. Plus the fact you dont want to have sex is a turn off.
2007-08-22 02:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by JB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeap. you took away from him the challenge that you represent, by being a girl. the minute you said you're not ready. BaMMM that hit him hard in the face, so why waste his time with you=?,. he's probably only for sex, and not for a loving relation. why did you told him that of sex, you could just be more intriguing with him, not tell it directly that thing. So dont call him, if he's true about busy with work he will reach you eventually, and if he does, well he was probably being honest about the work stuff, but if he doesn't ... well... there are A LOT of guys that would like to go out on a date with you and the best chances are that those guys are FAR better than your friend.
2007-08-22 02:29:17 · answer #2 · answered by Punk_Rckr83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sometimes men get bored after a while. He might have met somebody else, or he just needs a little bit of time for himself.
Give him a few more days, if he still doesn't want to talk with you, then he just probably wanted sex.
2007-08-22 02:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He went out of town for 5 days he has 5 days of stuff to catch up on. Give the guy time to breath.
2007-08-29 13:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by dadw5boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe, he just want to have sex with you and i think he is not serious with you at all.. but that was a guess only..
but for me.. just give him space for a moment because guys don't like guys who always hesitate for somehting.. just chill and relax for a bit and do your hobbies..
2007-08-29 18:27:13 · answer #5 · answered by seven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess he only wanted to get what he wanted out of u and since he didn't get it he looked 4 sum one who would but don't worry you'll find sum 1 who really loves u
2007-08-29 17:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys don't wanna sit around and chat ..they do it to meet chicks and thats about it.....guys hate talking on the phone too..
2007-08-22 02:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him time and space.If he comes around,fine,Otherwise,you would have saved yourself from lowering your self esteem.
2007-08-22 02:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on girl, he isnt interested. sorry
2007-08-29 22:11:26 · answer #9 · answered by awjandbjj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋