Iam confused can some one help me?????

Question

My friend he has a girlfriend who he barely meets,,
I had a girlfriend who i used to meet once a week.. And i got vacation so i went back to sweden where iam from.. After 2 months she wants to break up.. In the beginning we used to talk alot but by the time it got less and less..
The friend i have barely calls her and meets her and she still want to be with him ... where did i go wrong? what mistakes did i do? Iam very confused since we were opposite to these people but they are still together and we are not..
Please help!!!!

My friend he has a girlfriend who he barely meets,,
I had a girlfriend who i used to meet once a week.. And i got vacation so i went back to sweden where iam from.. After 2 months she wants to break up.. In the beginning we used to talk alot but by the time it got less and less..
The friend i have barely calls her and meets her and she still want to be with him ... where did i go wrong? what mistakes did i do? Iam very confused since we were opposite to these people but they are still together and we are not..
Please help!!!!
I even asked her, her reply was that she sees me as a friend.. and i still i dont understand where i went wrong.. Thanks for all the answers people are giving me..

She lives in hungary and i study here so i have to come back here from sweden because of my studies and i have alot of years left of my studies..
I tried to talk with her and she said she sees me as a friend and nothing more..
It is not my first relationship but it came a shock because everything seem to have been working out fine.. But at the end when it was 1 week left for me to come back she wanted to break up...
We still talk but there is always a weird feeling everytime i talk ..

Answer 1

Chances are, you might not have done anything wrong at all. People just change. But the only way to know for sure if you did anything wrong is to ask her, and then think about what she says, but don't beat yourself up over it. Just learn from the past so you don't make the same mistakes over and over.

Answer 2

well...everyone is different and some ppl want to see their bf/gf more than others, so if u copare ur relationship with other peoples it wont work because ur g/f is different to ur freinds g/f...
hmm but where does ur g/f live? i need more info >.< but from wat i can tell either ur staying in sweden or ur coming back, if ur g/f doesnt live in sweden and u are staying there then it is too long distance, but if ur coming back, try and let the relationship live if ur not staying too long (eg. coming home soon)
but when ur back do u and ur g/f talk alot? these are hypothetical questions ur meant to answer 4 urself >.< but ask her y she wants to break up, if its cos of long distance than if ur going to b there for a long time then it might b best to leave it, cos if this is one of ur first relationships then mayb ur happy to b with someone, but from wat i learnt from my friend in a somewhat similar situation to urs is that a relationship needs communication and talking and such, and if its long distance for too long it gets too hard and it gets really hard to want to be with someone that isnt there with u, ud rather b with someone thats there...

see if its going to be for a while, my advice is end it to save bothof u heartache, but if it isnt going to be for too long, then talk to ur g/f and try to see if ur relationship can last another little while...but if it can't and it has to break remember that everyone is different, and not all relationships will be the same, some people have different expectations to other ppl...
hope this helps

Answer 3

hey if ur girl friend let you out from hes personal life then u must know the only reason to know why she is doing so. and try to find her weakness if u get it then try to handle the same

Answer 4

Individuals are different. You can't blame yourself. Your girl just had different needs.

His long distance relationship (I assume that both are/were) will also end eventually. It just does not work long term.

Answer 5

Everyone is different. You cant judge ur relationship with someone else's.

Answer 6

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