My girl looks at other guys all the time everywhere we go. We are having a baby in 8 months. It didn't bother me in the begining, now that i'm seeing how often she does this it bothers me to the point of braking up with her. I've talk to her about this, and she says she will stop. But, she keeps doing it and makes up off the wall excuses why she does it. We have been together 6 months.
2007-08-22 09:18:45 · 15 answers · asked by ginuwine_32254 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honestly you should give her a chance because you only been 6 months and you have a baby on the way that's true love regardless if you want to hear it. She's probably nervous about the relationship because it is getting very serious and she scared that she might be alone to raise the baby by herself not saying you won't be there. But she'll break this addiction just give her a chance because she is going through a big change and she's needs you now more than ever in her life. I did everything she's doing to my husband and he told that he DOES NOT WANT TO LEAVE ME HE LOVES ME SO MUCH AND THAT HE WANTS THIS TO WORK. And that we made made love so long that i got pregnant again. The way i broke my habit was by carrying a book or a note book to write in and that help alot but now i have a writing addiction. But show her that you love and if you you'll do love and you do care about you'll this take a bath or a shower with her caress her hug her make her feel love, eat together( or fix dinner together), watch a movie together, and then while she into the movie kiss her back soft gentle kisses and undress her then make passionate love to her make her feel good about herself make her feel like she the only one. It sounds like she might not be comfortable with herself but i promise you that this will work if you do what i suggested it will work becaues my husband do it to me all the time. Please be patient with her you won't regret it.
2007-08-22 10:46:47 · answer #1 · answered by my man's honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her a chance i know it sounds stupid but you two have a baby on the way and you'll want to be there for her. You should sit her down and ask her what's on her mind what is she going through because i use to do the same thing and when my boyfriend ( now husband) told me that it hurts. When he told me that it was like damn. But we made up that same night and now I'm pregnant again. It doesn' t mean she not interested you have no idea how she may feel about having a baby.She shouldn't be looking but at the same time the only time you should break up if she cheated on you and she sounds like that should would never do that. Just give her a chance when you go home just lie down with her make love to her show her that you love her and this relationship and that you want to be with her and i promise that she won't do it any more. ( i mean it work on me) But show her a lot of love because she might be going through something that she's afraid to talk to you about
2007-08-22 09:46:06 · answer #2 · answered by cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that your not being a little jealous? As a woman, i dont feel that most of us "look" at men the way you men look at us. Have you sat down in a nice way and really told her how much it hurt you instead of just letting her know when you are angry. If you do that I am sure things will change. Congrats on your baby!
2007-08-22 09:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is completely familiar for adult males to look at different women my bloke does it all the time it aggravated me on the commencing up yet now I merely snigger i seem at different blokes he's attentive to i does not run off with them by way of fact i admire him and easily him as long as they seem and don't touch then it is superb if this incredibly hurts you consult with him and ask him why he does it i think of you will locate all adult males do it and that they do no longer comprehend attempt to chill out and revel in being mutually
2016-10-09 01:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my girl tells me i look at girls all the time too but i am unaware that i do so. i admit that i am a people watcher just because i think people are interesting but it doesn't mean I'm checking out chicks and not interested in my girl. besides considering she is having your kid I'm guessing she has some sort of interest in you. whens the last time you looked at other girls?
2007-08-22 09:29:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she likes to make you jealous because of her own insecurities. Maybe try giving her more attention.
If that doesn't help. -"Give her some of her own medicine." That also works. When she gives you grief about you staring at another girl then you reply... It doesn't feel so good, does it?
2007-08-22 09:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you don't look at other women right? Get real, its no big deal and its only natural to look at the opposite sex. You need to learn to be more self confident.
2007-08-22 09:23:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that is awfully soon to have a baby.
I think she probably likes the attention you give her when she looks at another guy.
2007-08-22 09:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me answer this question by posing another. When you look at another girl, does that meant that you are not still interested in your girl? Ooooh. thought so.
2007-08-22 09:23:10 · answer #9 · answered by blklightz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love you and there is alot that i'm going through that i'm scared to talk to you about don't be mad at me for geting on here and saying this But
I LOVE YOU A LOT BABY AND I DO CARE ABOUT YOU I KNOW IT SOUNDS CORNY BUT WILL YOU MARRY ME PLEASE
2007-08-22 10:05:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋