why are women obsessed with my bf's penis?

Question

I'm 30, a divorced mom of 2. The guy that I've been seeing also works at the same place that I do. Nobody really knows that we've been dating outside of work. My bf is known to be a womanizer & is rumored to have slept with his share of women at work & rumored to have a large penis. He recently had a baby with some 20-year old college intern that worked there over a semester. He is older than most of the women at this place, including me. I always hear women talking about how they would like to take him out for a test drive & how hot he is. He recently missed a day due to passing a kidney stone. I overheard one of the young college girls say, "I wish I could have been there when he passed his stone, then I could have seen just how big he really is down there!" He is big down there & we have a lot of fun in bed. No other man has made me feel so good in bed before like he does. I'd like to tell some of these women to shut up, but then our secret is out. Is it worth letting out?

Answer 1

The BETTER question is -- why are YOU obsessed with your "bf's" penis, enough to think about it so much, you write at your PC about it, on Yahoo Answers? and you're a mother of 2 kids? (I'm embarassed for you)

If you're not a preteen making something up here -- then, you should know better. In fact, this is a classic way for him to keep you quiet (dingbat) at least, until you get pregnant (oops!) -- then, everyone will know you were another dummy on his string. ....So? Anything about him, other than his johnson, to talk about? He's a nice guy, right? He spends money on you -- takes you places? opens doors, sure he does... (PS -- He's NOT your boyfriend, he's a guy that's nailing you and probably a few others after work, because you're easy as pie, around the office.

Listen we ALL have them -- and some of us have made women say things they didn't know they were saying, and noises they weren't aware people can make... but, really, have some sense about you -- when typing in dopey websites, like this..

Answer 2

Possibly. If he is ok with it. It would definitely shut their traps. But on the other hand it would start rumors about you. I have a relationship with a guy I work with. We didn't tell anyone but people assumed they knew and started saying crap. I found out the hard way. We left it alone and everyone shut up but it was ugly for a while and I don't talk to a couple people anymore because of it. So, you have to think about all of the possibilities when you consider saying something. It may not be as easy as you thought it would be.

Answer 3

Let me get this straight. You're divorced. You have two kids. You're sleeping with a guy in secret who just got a college girl pregnate had has a bad reputation for sleeping around. You seem to not care that he is just playing with you too, since he has made no commitment.
Not only THAT, but he just had a baby with another woman, abandoned the baby, and came to you. What makes you think you're any different than her? What makes you think he isn't just going to knock you up then dump you when he's finished?
this is the kind of guy you want fathering your kids? Oh, wait...maybe you don't want him fathering his kids. You just want to sleep with him. Could you mess up your childrens lives any more?
Disgusting.

Answer 4

If he is a womanizer to all other women what makes you think that he wont be this way to you ??? your asking for trouble to even see a guy like this... don't be naive here, use your brain to think with instead of your hormones... you cant tell the women to shut up either, I mean pretty much all of them have had his penis right ??? this is just sick that you would lower yourself like this to have a mans d.ick...

Answer 5

If you don't want to keep your job,then go ahead andbe the envy of your co-workers as you go out carrying a pink slip. He sounds like a piece of work. My opinion; let go of the guy before the relationship starts interfering with your success. I figure that you expect nothing out of it,but expect a lot of pain and embarrassment if the secret's let out. If that does not concern you,then have a great time.

Answer 6

wait, what's the rumor? He has a big wang. They know, it you know it.

women would rather have a big penis in them than a smaller one. i fall somewhere in between, but after playing some football (showering) at a couple levels of play...it is NOT a myth about the brothers. I felt like a little boy...and the girls heard the "rumors" (that were true) about the African Americans and enjoyed themselves (waking me up to their screams) in HS and college.

I just don't understand why the rumor would make you uncomfortable...i mean, is this a question?

Answer 7

He is a loser do you hear yourself? he recently had a baby with a 20 year old and you are 30 and not too smart with this creepy guy? find a new date you deserve better. He is not a good boyfriend if you are having to keep a secret. He is doing things behind your back. do not trust him. What are you thinking? He just had a baby with another woman. doesn't that make you think about how irrisponsible he is? Is he taking care of his other girlfriend? the baby? are you just interested in now and not how it affected this other woman? get rid of him,

Answer 8

Women are obsessed with it for the same reason you are - it's nice in bed. I would watch out though - I have dated guys like this and they always cheat and leave me heart-broken. It would take a miracle for a man like this to settle down for good. Unless you're not looking to settle down, I would look for someone else with similar features who wants to settle down.

Answer 9

well youre asking two questions. first, youre resenting all of the attention this guy is receiving from other women. completely natural. if he has a great huge penis....super.... whoop dee do. the underlying secret is....they know deep down that it gets to you when they make these catty remarks. which means. A: they are messing with your self esteem. or B: they know you 2 have hooked up and are testing yall's relationship strength. So to answer your question....as much as you want to reveal this love connection......are you willing to deal with the baggage along the way? this is just the tip of the iceberg. never date a coworker.

Answer 10

Is it necessary to keep this relationship a secret? Is it part of your employment contract? If not, then why are you keeping it a secret? Is it your idea or is it his and if it is his, why? Is he perhaps dating more than one girl and does not want either to find out? Perhaps you should discuss this with him and if he is not forthcoming, then perhaps you should let the cat slip out of the bag yourself and see what unfolds. Don't be afraid of doing this as this will possibly answer some questions for you as you cannot live a lie forever, you are still young!