and all of the sudden, she started "joking" about her past sex life, even when I never said sth related to it! like eg. "yeah well you are not that good in bed" or "... well if I told you the kind of things I have to imagine to have an orgasm when we have sex, you would be offended"... I kept on with with the game since we were on the msn and i really tought she was kidding, but what got to me was when she said "well you are the first one to complain about my performance"... at that i told her " lets stop joking like this" and when i asked her if what she told me were true, which i consider not, she refused to talk about it... when you girls are mad... do you make up these kind of things to get even? Wasnt that a bit too much? She used to tell me i was the best lover she ever had... Am I overreacting? When I asked her again of course she said it was not true, but now i have my doubts...
BTY it al started with me joking about her IQ, a really dumb childish thing! not 4 her..
2007-08-22 12:36:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, that's kind of extreme, she might just give up having sex with you, since she took your words seriously.
2007-08-22 12:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by 結縁 Heemei 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You said this on MSN??? It's impossible to get inflection communicating via a computer. And it's NEVER ok to joke about sex with a woman. We are brought up with so many insecurities that just about any statement along those lines could trigger a reaction. Keep to the news headlines to be safe. :-)
2007-08-22 20:01:07 · answer #2 · answered by the_dragyness 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of woman will tell guys that they're the best because women think that is the only thing a guy can stand to hear. so... there's probably a 50% chance that she was not serious about saying you were her best.
but it could be something she said just to get back at you since you apparently hurt her feelings with the IQ comments.
2007-08-22 19:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by Punkerjim 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are the best. You just pissed her off. Learn your lesson, tell her that you're sorry and that you don't want this happen to you guys again (on both ends).
By the way, saying "when you girls are mad" is not a really nice line. I just wanted to let you know that generalization is not a good idea.
2007-08-22 19:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes we do make up things to get even, or atleast I do and I'm sure I'm not the only one. Don't joke about your past experiences with women, in fact don't even mention them. If she asks tell her you'd rather not talk about it, trust me it will just piss her off even if she is the one who inquired first. These are things I've learned about myself. She's probably feeling very inadequate right now and more hurt than mad I'm sure.
2007-08-22 19:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well now you know you cant joke about her IQ....lol
what does her IQ have to do with her sex life? she's not that smart is she?...lol
Some girls joke like that but you would know it's all in fun right away.
Some girls cant take a jok and start trying to get even( like that).
Some girls would not bring up there sex life at all.
2007-08-22 20:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥♥♥ 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sorry hon, but when you get us mad we usually say things that are true to hurt you. You men can't take the truth about your performance in bed your egos gets in the way and we as women don't want to hurt your feelings so we lie,we all do it women that is.If i were you i would drop it if you don't want your feelings to get hurt any longer quit now before it gets way out of hand.
2007-08-22 19:59:18 · answer #7 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i guess there is nothing wrong with her IQ, if she can get back to you like this. make fun of people's IQ is equally bad as make fun of people's bed room skill. learn your lesson, there are jokes that are not funny.
2007-08-22 20:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by Discovery 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way to know. Let the sleeping dogs lie, and forget the whole thing has every happened. Treat her with respect, and she will respect you in turn; but when you're being stupid, you get what's coming to you.
2007-08-22 19:53:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Wow, you ARE learning the hard way that you have to watch what you say. That's not a bad thing, by the way...
2007-08-26 14:19:29 · answer #10 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋