Im tempted to accept his gifts but I feel that I shouldn't. What should I do?

Question

I just said goodbye (once more) to this guy who I've been seeing for the past 3-4 months. I told him it wont work. He still wants to keep the relationship though. I normally book my flights using his credit card sometimes I pay him other times he would say its on him. Since I want the relationship to end, I told him I will pay for all my booked flights from now onwards (and told myself I will not course my bookings through him anymore). He still insists and promised he will pay only until the ones already booked. I told him I will think about it..

This a.m. he said there's a promo for Marie France (a slimming clinic). He promised that will be his gift 2me a couple of mos. earlier n he said now is the time. He begged for me 2 take it but I am hesitant. I know he means well because i really want to get rid of my extra pounds but i dont want to feel obliged to seeing hm again coz of all these expensive gifts.

Pls help me decide, shld I accept or not?

PS He is married

Answer 1

Your PS told the whole story. Run. If you accept any more from him, you are negating the breakup, so accept nothing. He is married so there is nothing but trouble from continuing. You could be named as "the other woman" in a lawsuit pertaining to the divorce. Cut the relationship and do not consider even talking to him.