Family & Relationships - 22 August 2007

My wife and I have been together for about 10 years 6 of it married. The other night she came home and told me she kissed her friend. Best explination i can give she says the girl asked her to come here and she did and she also said she kissed her back. She claims it was like kissing her mom or grandmother and there was nothing to it. I dont believe her i think she enjoyed it (if it matters her friend is very good looking) Lately she has become extremely unsexual. I think it is cheating no matter what sex you kiss. I feel a kiss is a personal and intimate type of bond and requires a certain feeling and connection. Isnt a hug enough and a kiss too far? should i be upset or not? Is it cheating?

2007-08-22 15:44:43 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my fiance loves me, he wants to married me and have kids with me, but he has told me twice that he fantisizes with a white and hispanic women at the same time. (he is black and I am hispanic) is that normal? I feel kind of hurt that he fantisizes with them, cos I dont fantize with anyone else but with him. I cant even picture myself with anyone else, becuase I love him. what should I do?

2007-08-22 15:42:37 · 8 answers · asked by SG 2 1 in Weddings

ok on my girlfriends myspace it says that she is confused and is unsure on what to do.....now i asked her whats wrong, she wouldn't tell me....should i be worried about anything. i talked to her best friend she said, that i shouldn't be worried and something else is bothering her. she also won't even tell her best friend (which happens to be my cousin) whats wrong....so should i be worried that she may break up w/ me or not...COME ON GIRLS HELP ME OUT!!!

2007-08-22 15:39:56 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I always come up short when its time to pay bills and always ask his wealthy parents for a little help at the end of the month. After 3 years of marriage I began secretly taking money out of his check and depositing it in a savings account in my own name; even though we still get money from his parents once a month. He has no clue about it and since he never looks at our finances takes my word for what we have and what we need at the end of the month. I feel bad about it, but I know that the money will come in handy drawing interest. Is that considered stealing?? I'm afraid he'll blow it if he knows it's there. And even more afraid that he'll be angry with me about opening it without his knowledge. Should I tell him about the extra money???

2007-08-22 15:35:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Now this is all going to ne on an extremely limited,working class guy kind of budget.I am looking for free to minimal price on a wedding location and maerican Legion Hall or something of that type is good enough for the rec eption.I'd like decent buffet style catering.Free beer but not an outright open bar.I am in the Hudson Valley area of New York if anybody is familiar with the area.I don't have a definitive amount of money at this point.I am trying to fig out what kind of cash I may need and the cheapest but nicest route possible.I am guessing approx. 35-40 guests.

2007-08-22 15:34:56 · 6 answers · asked by drokk 2 in Weddings

Because my mom said I need to stop and she said I will never be with one anyway and I need to start being realistic......

2007-08-22 15:31:11 · 7 answers · asked by BlackMN 1 in Singles & Dating

Something doable, not confidence

2007-08-22 15:30:41 · 19 answers · asked by sophia100 2 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl that i like and we have hung out a few time this summer, i knew that she liked me last summer, but this summer im not sure. in early august i called her and asked her to dinner, she said yes, but she said that she was leaving for the beach the next day. on monday i called her again to see if she wanted to go do something some time this week. i got her voicemail and i left her a message for her to give me a call back so that we could do something. so far i have gotten no call back, what do you think i should do, should i call her back or should i leave it allone. also what do you think that it means and what do you think that my odds are for still going out with this girl?

2007-08-22 15:29:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 15:28:23 · 8 answers · asked by crazygirl 1 in Friends

2007-08-22 15:27:15 · 37 answers · asked by Lula 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What should I do. I was friends with this awsome guy last year, and it was obvious that he liked me more than i friend, and people told me that he told them that he liked, but i wasn’t interested in a realtionship so i didn’t say anything about it to him. Now he has a girlfriend, and i feel that i made a mistake by letting him go, we are still good friends and hang out, but i am afraid that things may get awkward again. Should I tell him how i feel? or just stay friends?

2007-08-22 15:27:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you make your parents happy?

2007-08-22 15:24:17 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-22 15:23:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How can i please my guy more sexually but emotionally would help as well. I have been with him for over 2.5 years but i just wanna do something without asking him what he likes.

2007-08-22 15:23:12 · 19 answers · asked by inlove 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 15:23:06 · 11 answers · asked by bigdre10yo 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy went out for over a year. So now we go to different highschools and after a week he ended it. A week before everything was prefect. Now he says he wants to be just friends. I told him I want more than that. He doesn't though. Do I keep trying, or not. How can I get over him. (he says he still loves me but doesn't think it will work still)

2007-08-22 15:22:40 · 30 answers · asked by kaylabobayla24 1 in Singles & Dating

if you r happy with the person and both understand each other but due to some reasons marriage is not a possibility

2007-08-22 15:22:24 · 7 answers · asked by nbp 1 in Singles & Dating

one night when my parents were away mt bf stayed over, he told his mom he was at his firends house. to make this shore she found out he was not there. she called and yelled at him then she asked to talk to me and lets just say i did not like how she was talking to me.now im afrad she may not like me too much anymore. any ideas on this?
ps, were 19

2007-08-22 15:21:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husbands dumb answer was he found them on the floor of his job and was cleaning his ears with them. oh please, how stupid. what do u think. hes cheated before.

2007-08-22 15:18:13 · 23 answers · asked by renae2007_1986 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I caught my wife in bed after she was supposed to get up. Is she getting lazy?

2007-08-22 15:17:40 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

girls giving guys flowers for a b-day or aniversary?

2007-08-22 15:17:18 · 31 answers · asked by Questionable 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is wanting a divorce. I do not want a divorce. Can I stop him from divorcing me?

2007-08-22 15:16:59 · 37 answers · asked by Frieda G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how to please my girlfriend?...what do girls like?

2007-08-22 15:16:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was on the phone with one of my best friends and my mom picked up the phone (i didnt no) and was listenin to our conversation... me and my friend were talking bout this boy she wanted me to go out with (i'm 15) and after i hung up my mom started yelling at me for no reason she acted like the only thing i think about are boys

what should i do???

2007-08-22 15:16:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

But they take turns yakking in my ear. I want to take her side, because I am a woman and I can relate to some of her concerns... but I take his side because he is my brother and I love him, however I'm so sick of both of them. How can I tell them (without hurting there feelings) that they are draining me emotionally. Her parents and my parents are deceased, it seems like they have no one else to vent to, but me..

2007-08-22 15:15:12 · 3 answers · asked by raintree1 2 in Family

I've been with my boyfriend since 1994 and I thought he was all cool and everything at first because I didn't even know him.Well, he was a little rude to me and I gave it some thought butu he was just cool the next few days that I moved in with him.Then about 2 weeks I was living with him in his apartment and he started like telling me all these mean things like I was fat and stupid and everybody hated me.That didn't stop.He just got snottier and even more foul mouthed.The first time he told me that bullcrap I told him to back and he understood but ever since then and the time that I told him that I didn't have a job and I was like broke he swore to God that he was going to tear me apart!!I was so devastated!It was like a new bride who has just received bad news!My heart was so broken. Now that queer is in jail for who knows how long but I am still getting mean threats from him.What can I do to make things better for me because I can't stand this situation at all! Please help me!

2007-08-22 15:09:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-22 15:09:27 · 19 answers · asked by Jamaican Princess 2 in Weddings

That the biggest turnon for you,is a Man and Confidence
Swager!!

2007-08-22 15:08:35 · 2 answers · asked by bigdre10yo 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 11 and my whole family smokes. I hate it! When I hear my brother cough it just makes me wanna scream!!!! I can''t live with the smell and all my life is is screaming and yelling. My mom and dad are soooooo mean now that I, I just don't know what to do. Just trust me it's hell.I have tried and tried everything. I've asked and tried to force. I just hate them! I just can't take it so pleeeeeeeeeease help!!!!!

2007-08-22 15:07:58 · 26 answers · asked by Liz L 1 in Family

When I was a teenager I had very low self esteem, I was raped when I was 13. So by 16 I was permiscuous. I had given about 4 BJs. Now i'm married my husband want oral sex. I love him so much but I just can't. It brings back so many horrible memories that I don't want to remember. I'm not that sad little girl that I was anymore, and I never want to go back to being like that.

2007-08-22 15:07:09 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce