Something doable, not confidence
2007-08-22 15:30:41 · 19 answers · asked by sophia100 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Figuring out why he would want you! Seriously! A woman who wants a boyfriend should figure out what men want in a girlfriend just as surely as a man who wants a girlfriend should figure out what women could possibly want in a boyfriend. It's all about figuring out what makes you a better deal than the next female. That said, the answer is not going to be sex. Let's face it, all women have pretty much the same body parts and, therefore, anything a guy gets out of you he can get out of another woman too. So, I would not recommend having sex before the wedding night. Furthermore, not having sex means that a guy is going to have to explore other aspects about you like your intelligence, your personality, and your life dreams and goals. Having some interests in common with a guy will get you a lot further than gratuitous sex. And, by the way, the other poster is right about confidence is doable. Start setting goals for yourself. As you start accomplishing things and making progress towards those goals, your confidence levels will rise. It is when you are confident about yourself that people will start to gravitate towards you. Peace!
2007-08-22 15:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by Theodore H 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Being yourself- no guy wants a fake girl that acts so she can impress the guy...why not be different and be the one that acts herself. That is "doable".
2007-08-22 15:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by old 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is key. But a lot of guys are totally into b*tchs so you could try that. But those guys arn't the kind you want for a relationship. More a hook up.
2007-08-22 15:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by love_alw_693 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confidence is doable.. you just gotta tell yourself your beautiful everyday, and you'll build confidence.. i get most all guys i want.. and alot i don't.. anyways, you could always try changin your haristyle.. wearing different shades of make up to bring out your eyes..
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2007-08-22 15:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by grneydmexi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is the only way to get what you want. You can't fake confidence. Guys see right through fakes.
2007-08-22 15:35:38 · answer #5 · answered by Wandering the Shadowlands 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.. theres some "magic trick"- note the sarcasm.
Its simple.. extremely extremely hot girls.. which are far and few between.. can get the most guys.. and even they have guy problems.
Theres no magical cure... and why woudl you want a trick anyways? I want a guy who loves me for me. Good luck sweetheart.
2007-08-22 15:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by la428282 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
that,ll never happen everybody has different tastes just be you,rself dress nicely be confident don,t be aloofthen you will atract a good few be funny i always find humour helps
2007-08-22 20:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by john s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to get is NOT going to get you any guys..so don't listen to that..Just try to be the kind of woman guys would want to spend time with....So I don't think they would want to spend time with a girl who 'plays hard to get'......BE EASY...LOL...not in a slutty way...just don't make it too hard for them...Eventually they get tired of you and move on...
2007-08-22 15:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by .. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like you are interested in them, guys don't like that aloof crap
Learning to talk about things they like
Learn to ask questions
Guys respond best to things they know....
2007-08-22 15:43:23 · answer #9 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no trick baby girl just be true in what you do.
2007-08-22 15:35:57 · answer #10 · answered by dlitefulchoc 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋