Me and this guy went out for over a year. So now we go to different highschools and after a week he ended it. A week before everything was prefect. Now he says he wants to be just friends. I told him I want more than that. He doesn't though. Do I keep trying, or not. How can I get over him. (he says he still loves me but doesn't think it will work still)
2007-08-22 15:22:40 · 30 answers · asked by kaylabobayla24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As hard as it maybe trying to keep someone in a relationship that they no longer want to be in is the worst thing to do. It is always hard to accept that, but you will save yourself a lot of pain in the long run.
2007-08-22 15:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by Tucker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my son n his grlfrnd did the same thing, only difference... the break up was mutual...
the reason was bcuz since they r no longer in the same skool they wanted to give each other the space to explore...
they still talk to each other n this summer they hung out a lot but instead of sweating the odd thought of "what if she becomes interested in someone at her new skool n then cheats on me", they thought it would be better this way...
n his ex just told me last week that maybe after high skool if they r still attracted to each other they will pick up where they left off... this is a healthy way to think of it...
u don't want to become the stalker and u don't want him to say to anybody there goes my CRAZY ex...
que sera, sera... what will be, will be...
u r young and first loves r special and u will never forget it but once it ends u do learn to move onto other n better things...
don't think of this as an ending... think of it as the beginning of something new and wonderful... high skool is sooooo much fun, have fun and enjoy all of it bcuz when u turn around it's all over n all u will have is the memories.
and if it is "meant to be" then later on in life u guys will meet up and start over again...
2007-08-23 00:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by Ivy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok your boyfriend or friend, is at a diffrent highschool, he is seeing new girls and new meat, he is very intrested in his new enviroment, stop trying have your fun as well he is, he may still love u, but he wants his fun ( FOR NOW) dont pay any attenchain to him and if he calls tell him ur goin on date u'll call him later, it will leave him speachless and then call him bak after 3 hours, he be all mean at first and then he'll ask how'd it go, say not my type but im goin to keep trying, act like frineds it will kill him i promise ull be goin togther if u dont find someone better by then, just think about it!
2007-08-22 22:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by Bria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say but it sounds like he simply lost interests. You are in high school and you need to realize there are a million more amazing people out there and many of them will be even better then him, so I would say its time to move on. Give it some time and you will be over him. You cant control how he feels about you, and would you want to even if you could? I know its hard but there are really a million fish in the sea (as the saying goes) and you will meet plenty more of them.
Hope this helps a bit, good luck.
2007-08-22 22:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by crysent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him space. Dont push him. He'll feel boxed in. If he is still willing to hang out from time to time, wait a little while and then plan something special. Dont go crazy but wow him. Maybe dress a bit sexy. Do something that will make him see you in a new light. If that doesnt work than move on.
2007-08-22 22:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by LI Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa. The runt is sick maybe? I suggest that you part off with him, if he says he wants to be friends but you say the opposite. Maybe he's confused, he's this and that. But, you you already told him you want more than that, right? well, I say he's no more than appreciative nor concerned with what happened to be magical and "perfect" and seems that its nothing to him. Make him regret that, gal. Focus on yourself, get on your own adventure for now, and maybe, if he ever come running again, just buzz him off, you deserve a better man, not a boy.
2007-08-22 22:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by InLove with InLove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, my bf tried that once, i told him that ever since we've been together i was happier, and then he kept being so persistant about ending it. and when i ended the call and we said our goodbyes, i just sat there, wiped my tears away, and forgot all about it. knowing that i would go back to being all zombied out, i was hoping and praying for a miracle. Then 5 minutes later, he messaged me on msn and told me that he is such a dumbass and that he doesnt want to lose me, of course we got back together and we are still in love. i guess the best thing to do is to just hope and pray to God. It worked for me. lol.. =]
2007-08-22 22:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by Sammers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes been a friend is better than been a lover. If he have no confidence to think both of you will work still when come to lover relationship, it mean he scare that if both of you broke-up, friendship will come to the end too.
2007-08-22 22:36:02 · answer #8 · answered by TLC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just be interested in someone else. It may be hard right now but things will get better! Let him see what a perfectly good person he is giving instead of you making yourself look disparate! So give it time and you'll feel better! Good luck!
2007-08-22 22:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by Honeysuckle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go if he comes back then it was meant to be.. You can try to get over him. But if it was perfect and then he broke it off he might of found someone else. it might be hard to be his friend but you can try. My bf now i've talked to for 3 yrs n we broke up and stayed friends and emailed and talked and he said he'd always love me and then one day he asked me back out and we've been dating for like 4 months
2007-08-22 22:33:10 · answer #10 · answered by Rayray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋