How can i please my guy more sexually but emotionally would help as well. I have been with him for over 2.5 years but i just wanna do something without asking him what he likes.
2007-08-22 15:23:12 · 19 answers · asked by inlove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Has it ever occurred to you that he would receive the most pleasure by learning how to please you?
2007-08-22 15:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by Theodore H 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take charge. If the feelings of love are there it is making love. Sex is just the physical act. The feelings involved make all the difference. In 2.5 years you know what works and what doesn't. Plan a weekend. Nice hotel, Whirlpool, body oil, no hurry, just enjoying giving yourself to someone that you love. Sometimes men enjoy not being the aggressor. Talk about what you are doing in a soft voice. Tell him how much pleasure it is to be with him. He will reciprocate and it will be an awesome night of love.
2007-08-22 22:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by Tetonka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my wife and I were dating, she used to give me baths. It was great! It made me feel like she was literally caring for me and I liked it. It was selfless on her part and put no pressure on me whatsoever.
This is not really sexual as much as it is sensual. But things can certainly heat up during the bath.
It definately gave us a place to bond emotionally. And that is much harder for a guy. Pleasing a guy sexually is not difficult. Bonding with him emotionally can be a high mountain to climb.
2007-08-22 22:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by brain_hanger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like it when a woman takes charge and takes what she wants and demand certain things be done to her.It gets old trying to figure out what she likes and wants, it's very erotic
when she tells you and demands it.
2007-08-22 22:37:24 · answer #4 · answered by patrick r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know what he likes after that time, you will probably never figure it out. Sorry, but that's the truth as I see it.
2007-08-22 22:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by Tom K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a massage when he comes home from work
also have is shower and night clothes out ready for him
and it wouldn't hurt to have dinner waiting for him every now and than
2007-08-22 22:28:18 · answer #6 · answered by pujolsfan2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put on a French Maid outfit and wait on him and eventually take him to the carpet and have your way with him.
2007-08-22 22:29:17 · answer #7 · answered by Jack 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Buy him a bass boat... then make love to him on it!
2007-08-22 22:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the lifesource of all lasting relationships, so I think you should ask him what he wants.
2007-08-22 22:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by Crookedlettaman 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
did u ever notice what he likes? like what kind of character or any of his fantasy character, items, that he didn't get. if possible try to take the role of his fantasy and give him .............
2007-08-22 22:29:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get on top, take control. And do what YOU want to do with him, as long as he comes he will enjoy it.
2007-08-22 22:30:28 · answer #11 · answered by iamjustbored10 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋