I've been with my boyfriend since 1994 and I thought he was all cool and everything at first because I didn't even know him.Well, he was a little rude to me and I gave it some thought butu he was just cool the next few days that I moved in with him.Then about 2 weeks I was living with him in his apartment and he started like telling me all these mean things like I was fat and stupid and everybody hated me.That didn't stop.He just got snottier and even more foul mouthed.The first time he told me that bullcrap I told him to back and he understood but ever since then and the time that I told him that I didn't have a job and I was like broke he swore to God that he was going to tear me apart!!I was so devastated!It was like a new bride who has just received bad news!My heart was so broken. Now that queer is in jail for who knows how long but I am still getting mean threats from him.What can I do to make things better for me because I can't stand this situation at all! Please help me!
2007-08-22 15:09:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Long Beach sucks.
2007-08-23 11:15:37 · update #1
Girl you need to leave him. He is not going to change, he needs professional help so that he can change, but until he gets some help, you need to tell him that you refuse to be his doormat, and have some self respect for yourself, love yourself.
2007-08-22 15:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by rashida_16 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the best of this time and prepare yourself to be up and packing. Don't slow around please. If he's still showing you his aggravation and frustrations from jail, i don't even want to imagine what comes next once he's out.
Get yourself out of his apartment and out of his life. Once you get yourself situated, you can write him and tell him that "you're moving on and you've moved out", not to try to contact you because you will no longer be the doormat that he wipes his feet on.
Now let's be real because he is still going to contact you, whether it be directly or 3rd party. So girl, do all women a favor. When he calls you whining, telling you how much he loves you and how sorry he is......................DON'T BUY IT!
Him being gone is your best time to cut your ties. Don't be fooled into thinking he won't do it again. You've already been fooled like that right before you moved in with the jerk!
2007-08-22 15:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by dlitefulchoc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a real prince. Id dump his ***. You don't need some prick telling you your fat and stupid and all that crap. Obviously he is a wee bit insecure himself. Next time he runs his mouth give it back to him. Say I may be fat and stupid but I can change both of those. You will always be a d***...and there ain't nothing that's gonna change that. Might wanna be in a car on your way out?....lol
2007-08-22 15:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by l1lm1ssb1tch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the Police and get a restraining order against any contact from him - telephone or letter or in person
2007-08-22 15:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not respond to him whatsoever... You can think about a Protection of Order yes even though he is jail, it would cover letters that you will receive!!!
2007-08-22 15:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by ablockgurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel you are in serious danger let someone know. for now you are alright hey he is locked up he cant bother you as long as he is under the jail.
2007-08-22 15:18:42 · answer #6 · answered by shante 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out while he's in jail and don't tell him where you are.
2007-08-22 15:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What on earth!?..... Why are you with him? get rid of him for good. n
2007-08-22 15:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him he's a loser
2007-08-22 15:16:09 · answer #9 · answered by Roxanne G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him............
2007-08-22 15:16:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋