one night when my parents were away mt bf stayed over, he told his mom he was at his firends house. to make this shore she found out he was not there. she called and yelled at him then she asked to talk to me and lets just say i did not like how she was talking to me.now im afrad she may not like me too much anymore. any ideas on this?
ps, were 19
2007-08-22 15:21:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok one, this is not like the 1st time we have spent the night together, i had an aprt and we would go up there and both are parents new it was just us.
2 i was not rude to her at all. i agreed with her to the best i could
2007-08-22 15:39:51 · update #1
Thought #1: Move out of your parents' houses. At 19 (I'm assuming he's at least of the age of consent as well?), you two should be sleeping together ONLY when you have a place of your own.
Thought #2: WHY at that age is she calling all over creation to confirm his LIE?
Thought #3: WHY at that age does he even have the URGE to lie to her about boinking his girlfriend?
Thought #4: If you were disrespectful to a person (regardless of who she was) then expect the worst. If you were a snotty little ***** to her, I'm sure she's going to be less than hospitable the next time you two meet.
2007-08-22 15:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably doesnt like you that much right now. She's a mom looking out for her son. Even at 19 mothers will think a 19 year old boy is too young to do this stuff.
Time will fix this though. Just be yourself. It could have been worse. She could have called your parents. This to me indicates she respects you. Just be patient and maybe saying you;re sorry to her would help.
2007-08-22 22:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by LI Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too bad he felt he had to lie & got caught in his lie. I think that no doubt would be the main issue. You are 19, which I don't consider a child. But then, I am one who might just be a little too liberal at times. It's a matter of one's choice, ideas or beliefs. Then too, I just turned 19 & was married, had my first child when I was 20, so don't feel 19 is exactly a "baby" so to speak. It's kinda like to each their own. It all depends on how close you are w/your b/f as to whether he lets this bother him or not. He's certainly old enuf to know what he wants & doesn't want, & I don't feel how she feels about you should really have any bearing on his caring about you. Yes, he might "hear" it from her about you from now on, but it all boils down to how important you are to him & how much he cares about you. I don't think there's much you can say/do to her to chg. her opinion of you at this stage of the game. Actually, if you want to look at it in one way, he wasn't really lying by saying he was at his friend's house, unless he mentioned a male friend or really lead her to believe is was a male friend. I wouldn't worry about it, it's all in how he's going to take it or put up w/it. Like I said, you aren't 14 or 15 yr. old kids. I guess it's up to him...Yes. I cared about where my kids were when they were 19, BUT only to make sure they were safe.
2007-08-22 22:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the first place,, y does he need to lie to his parents?? if only the truth cud have been told... nothing like this can happen... anyway... don't think that just bcuz this one thing just happen,, they won't like u anymore... there are ways on how to gain their respect and trust... when u have time.. go over to their place... introduce urself.. and tell her the truth.. give her the benefit of the doubt... theat u have nothing to hide... that u respect her and like her son as well... show to htem that repect them n in return they will do so 2u... let not htis incident bother u...
2007-08-22 22:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by Zykoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in her shoes. See. Now don't you understand? If not, just wait until you have a teenage son or daughter. Then reflect back on this and you will understand.
2007-08-22 22:25:03 · answer #5 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
parents are protective .. some evn wen their kids are 19 .. if u guys like/love eachother then theres nuttin to worry about
2007-08-22 22:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is try to talk to her. But if your 19 i don't see why its that big of deal your both old enough.
2007-08-22 22:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by Rayray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
parents r so pretective over there kids. if u love him u wouldnt care. well atleast i wouldnt care
2007-08-22 22:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_t_iz_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT WORRIE ABOUT IT AS LONG AS YOR B/F DOESNT CARE WHY SHOULD YOU
2007-08-22 22:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by GHETTO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋